Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

CarmelBarbie

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U finding any luck in charlotte

when I’m looking to date, it hasnt been a problem to date in Charlotte. Rn I do have a couple of brehs that keep hitting me up about hanging out, but I have too much going on. I get annoyed because I feel like they’re trying to take too much of time.
Dealing with some weird fallout from my ex now too. The guilt I’m feeling is leaving a bad taste in my mouth. Reminding me that this is what you have to deal with when you deal with someone on an intimate level. The Situations honestly annoying the fukk out of me every time I think about it. All this to say, I’m good on it for now.
 

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when I’m looking to date, it hasnt been a problem to date in Charlotte. Rn I do have a couple of brehs that keep hitting me up about hanging out, but I have too much going on. I get annoyed because I feel like they’re trying to take too much of time.
Dealing with some weird fallout from my ex now too. The guilt I’m feeling is leaving a bad taste in my mouth. Reminding me that this is what you have to deal with when you deal with someone on an intimate level. The Situations honestly annoying the fukk out of me every time I think about it. All this to say, I’m good on it for now.
@JOHN.KOOL :francis:
 

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as much as that sucks it’s completely understandable and i don’t blame you AT ALL. i’m going to go back to therapy, soon because i know i won’t be able to have a healthy relationship or attract people other than exploiters and manipulators until i deal with my codependent issues and being an overly empathetic person

I had to look this shyt up and it sounds like hell. Moral of the story is you have to be selfish. Because all kinds of scumbags are out there.

Top Ten Indicators that You Show Signs of Codependency

6 Signs of a Codependent Relationship
 

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I’ve learned a lot of shyt the past year, But I think the #1 most important thing i’ve learned is that a woman should NEVER be your #1 priority, EVER. When that happens you’re setting yourself up for a L.

After fixing my credit, building my business, grinding, and seeing how it paid off I’ll never make that mistake again.
 

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For the Canadian brehs. What are Ontario black women like?

Chatting to a 25 yr old sista on Hinge from up that way here to attend grad school. She got to Van last week. Looks wise she's slim and sexy.
 
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