Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Abraxus]

Ok i am at a loss of words here. I already told tha bytch to get bent fyi...but I just don't understand why:

So today I'm chillin wit my nikkaz. Normal day...smokin...laughin...music bumpin, you know tha drill when you wit ya boyz.

All of a sudden I get a text from this single mom broad. She coo af fr but listen yall, damn.

So yea mind you her number not even saved right? No flex just keep this in mind.

Bro this bytch talmbout: "wyd?"

Me: "smokin and chillin with my bros"
Her: "are you ready to respect my boundaries and me as a person?"

B
R
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WH A T?

Dawg...I just said "No"
Her: "OK"
Her: "You cant respect me lmao wow heard u"
Me: "I never intentionally disrespected you or overstepped any "boundaries". Goofy."
Her: "I know but youre stubborn and I wanted to know if youd work on your behavior for our friendship"
Me: "No. I'm not working on shyt. You dont HAVE to talk to me dude"
Her: "Ok .Respect it. I wish you the best"
Me: "Coo. You too"

Goofy ass broad wtf was tha point in any of that?

Props! Be like fukk you and the horse you road in on! fukk yo mama and them, sister, cousin, yo yuck mouth teeth! fukk yo whole existence bytch! I was born a man and no woman emasculates me! Next I see you I’m whipping out my dikk and I expect you to jump down and suck it good too

 

[Abraxus]

Facetime/Video call her before y'all meet.

I always Video call females before we meet to avoid catfished or wasting time & money on a date with someone I dont have chemistry with

Dude I video chatted this ugly mf who looked like a modern art masterpiece. I was silent for a few minutes as she had diarrhea at the mouth kept thinking to myself this mf so ugly she can’t be real. Gotta be an alien or something she was real. And horny body was like a 8+ Damn, I shuddered as I rolled off her ugly ass at 4am. She sucked me off for a min before I left though

 

[Wise]

For the first time I have recently read the book 'power of the subconscious mind' by Joseph Murphy. I've had this book for years but never got round to it until the other day.

I've been applying some of the things suggested and can already feel a shift in my energy and have got a lot of things done in a short space of time.

I'd definitely recommend it for brehs as it can help you in all facets of your life.

i need advice from men..

i met this guy off of Bumble, he was pursuing and putting kinda pressure on me to meet up and hang out, even though I was hesitant also because i’m financially strapped. he insisted anyways and offered to pay. and realized i probably shouldn’t be on a dating app since i’m trying to heal from my ex and our abusive relationship that was traumatizing to me. We made plans to hang out then i explained my situation to him and he appreciated my honesty but still encouraged me to at least give it a chance and told me not to over complicate things.

So we met up at a local bar, had a few drinks. We hit it off really well in my opinion, he was kind, a gentleman, funny, easy to talk to. He worked in finance on wallstreet and left that to become a golf pro. Were kinda opposites in terms of upbringing. But still had a lot in common. Anyways, about 12 he asked me if i was up for learning black jack because he mentioned he’d teach me prior to meeting up.

We ended up playing black jack until like 3:30-4 am, after we sat in his car and talked for awhile.

We flirted, kissed. etc he wanted to take it further and go back to his place and “watch a movie” but i stopped that and knew what it was he wanted. And i wasn’t trynna to sleep with him as casual sex isn’t my thing and i hold myself to higher standards now. Anyways, so i had him bring me to my car, thanked him for taking me out and we split ways..

and texted him a couple hours ago, wishing him a nice day at work. no response, before we hung out, he was the one texting me, getting no responses, kinda not taken seriously given my ex situation etc..

am i overthinking this? or over complicating it?

i was really into him. someone who had to convince me to even go out, but i really ended up enjoying my time with so if he dubs me i’ll be disappointed

i’ll let him pursue me. if he’s interested in seeing me again he’ll show it but it’s hard to not wonder what i did wrong or maybe i’m just being insecure or anxious

Re: your abusive ex

Wasn’t this some really religious cat who did bible study everyday ?

 

[NotaPAWG]

Re: your abusive ex

Wasn’t this some really religious cat who did bible study everyday ?

yup

 

[Wise]

I use to feel a type of way of not getting the feedback I wanted but I stopped stressing. Reading a few books from the list a few of you guys put up,I had the concept of energy being reciprocated all fukked up. You give your energy to someone, your tank is empty but you have to refill it yourself.

My issue is where do I cut my losses? I like to give my all with but if interest isn’t there. I immediately it toss to the bushes which I feel is my issue. My patience gets thin trying to get a girl into a setting where she gets comfortable to be open but you can’t force that. I’m lost brehs

Where’s the list?

 

[Wise]

yup

Interesting. Is there a thread on this where you eleborated?

 

[Wise]

This thread is great. That black chauvinist twitter page kills me and is on point

Yall watch AMS and MJ Getitright. If so, yall watch anyone else?

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Wise]

Yall need to follow on Twitter

Pua_dating_tips

So many gems

 

[DaRealness]

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Whether he lives 10 doors, 10 hours or 10 timezones away is irrelevant,you continue to miss the entire point despite me speaking in clear English, why do people struggle so much to comprehend words.

It won't matter to nikkas like you

Im not trying control a chick im just talking to.

If she my girl and hit up a ex or male friend alot that would be diff

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Im not trying control a chick im just talking to.

If she my girl and hit up a ex or male friend alot that would be diff

I never said anything about controlling a girl you are just talking to, so I don't understand why you have even felt the need to say the bold.

 

[young yeesh]

This thread is great. That black chauvinist twitter page kills me and is on point

Yall watch AMS and MJ Getitright. If so, yall watch anyone else?

Stephon Clinkscales if you ready for that channel

Book of Alpharonomy is strong too

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Typical coli response, when there's is no retort claim you didn't read. Never seen nikkas so proud of the fact they don't like to read

I love reading. Didn’t feel like reading what you wrote. That being said you were right—wasn’t a friendship like I thought. I fukked up.I shouldn’t have messed around with the ex.

Still, I don’t think my situation applies to your point about women with male friends, since this was an ex. But like I said, we can agree to disagree. It’s all good.