i was delusional and trying to convince myself he wasn’t a scumbag, i was bragging about him but the truth is a lot of the coli posters saying he was just using me and was good with his mouth and all that were right, but he does that with every women. he made up completely lies to the side women saying a bunch of bullshyt to get what we wanted and needed out of her. i knew it back then, i just didn’t wanna face the truth and it was very hard to accept that the person he pretended to be, so sweet, loving, disciplined etc for a few months until he true self cane out was just a mask. only a few days after someone made the thread about “allowing” him to have a side chick, i broke up with him after he hit me in the face and busted my lip because i don’t know how to “shut up” because i was crying. i found out back in nov, only a few months into dating him he was cheating and stuck around like a idiot