Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Maybe I’m too old school, but I think that’s a guy. Probably an old white guy looking to delve into a character for a book that he’s writing.

Huh? Do you guys consider the fwbs you have or one night stands romantic? People have sex with people they have no real feelings for all the time. The only difference in this case is that this was an ex of mine that I already had sex with, that I’m friends with now. I can’t have sex with men I don’t know very well, so it was nice to be able to have relations with someone I trust for that particular week. But no, there’s no romantic feelings on my end. I enjoy his company, but I’m back home now and I’m good with leaving things as they are and just being friends. I don’t know how that makes me sound like an old white man but ok lol.
 

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Huh? Do you guys consider the fwbs you have or one night stands romantic? People have sex with people they have no real feelings for all the time. The only difference in this case is that this was an ex of mine that I already had sex with, that I’m friends with now. I can’t have sex with men I don’t know very well, so it was nice to be able to have relations with someone I trust for that particular week. But no, there’s no romantic feelings on my end. I enjoy his company, but I’m back home now and I’m good with leaving things as they are and just being friends. I don’t know how that makes me sound like an old white man but ok lol.
I do now but it's probably due to me just maturing, And also because I like going Raw and shooting the club up :heh:


I'm WAAAAAAy different at 28 then I was even at like 23. I don't do one night stands now, and if I have a FWB i'd have to know it could possibly be going somewhere tbh.
 

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I do now but it's probably due to me just maturing, And also because I like going Raw and shooting the club up :heh:


I'm WAAAAAAy different at 28 then I was even at like 23. I don't do one night stands now, and if I have a FWB i'd have to know it could possibly be going somewhere tbh.

I’m grown. I’m in my early thirties. He’s grown too. We both knew before I even came out to philly that week, that it wasn’t going to lead to anything more than what we have already which is friendship. He got caught up because of sex, but I know he’ll be straight. :yeshrug: I am gonna fall back from him for a little while because I just want friendship.

I’ve never done a one night stand or anything like that. This was a one time situation to tide me over for a bit. :yeshrug: That’s why I don’t understand why it’s being called romantic lol.
 
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I’m grown. I’m in my early thirties. He’s grown too. We both knew before I even came out to philly that week, that it wasn’t going to lead to anything more than what we have already which is friendship. He got caught up because of sex, but I know he’ll be straight. :yeshrug: I am gonna fall back from him for a little while because I just want friendship.

I’ve never done a one night stand or anything like that. This was a one time situation to tide me over for a bit. :yeshrug: That’s why I don’t understand why it’s being called romantic lol.


They dont understand this is ur ex and not a random.

U already knew what it was before u went
 

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I’m not on social media. But I am on meetup and LinkedIn. Is the new thing for y’all to use these sites to holler. I keep having random guys try to get with me on these sites. It’s weird. On linked in they do it, by befriending me, then sending me a message. On meetup they hit my inbox. I’m guessing some of y’all try to eat wherever y’all can lol.
 

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They dont understand this is ur ex and not a random.

U already knew what it was before u went

Clearly the ex didn't understand either...

I’m not on social media. But I am on meetup and LinkedIn. Is the new thing for y’all to use these sites to holler. I keep having random guys try to get with me on these sites. It’s weird. On linked in they do it, by befriending me, then sending me a message. On meetup they hit my inbox. I’m guessing some of y’all try to eat wherever y’all can lol.
Yeah, nikkas don't give a fukk :lolbron:
 

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@Colgatebrah I doubt you have a car as a freshman but is it easy enough to get to Chapel Hill dor Durham? If you could hook up with folks and find a black party at Duke/UNC maybe you can expand your roster, especially with girls who may not like everyone knowing their business

Anyway, first semester is bullshyt anyway. Have the relationships are HS leftovers or chicks running to assert their "independence". You may want to keep it casual till Sophomore year unless you meet some real quality and will be an "upperclassman" to a new crop of chicks.
 

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@Colgatebrah I doubt you have a car as a freshman but is it easy enough to get to Chapel Hill dor Durham? If you could hook up with folks and find a black party at Duke/UNC maybe you can expand your roster, especially with girls who may not like everyone knowing their business

Anyway, first semester is bullshyt anyway. Have the relationships are HS leftovers or chicks running to assert their "independence". You may want to keep it casual till Sophomore year unless you meet some real quality and will be an "upperclassman" to a new crop of chicks.
Nah I don’t have a car on campus. My mans that goes to chapel hill is actually on his way to scoop me up right now. He knows some kappas that are apparently throwing a big ass party tonight for Labor Day:mjlit:
I was trying to go to nccu tonight or pull up at one of these nc state parties but my nikka is insisting that this one will be better, he said these chicks will be with it, so I’m gonna see what’s good.


From my experience though black chicks that go to chapel hill and duke are usually boujee, but fukk it I don’t have any other moves tonight:yeshrug:

And yeah I’m not trying to get in any serious relationships until sophomore or junior year because these chicks at state are getting ran through right now:bryan:

Good looks though my g.
 
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