Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[young yeesh]

Why is nikkas approaching bytches that ain’t giving choosing signals? Cold approaching is asking for an autograph

 

[Abraxus]

Cold approached two girls today on campus. (Both black)


Got shut down by both of em

Lol they will be the same ones who notice you out and bring up “hey, didn’t we meet?” bytch, naw. You shut me down

but to me it’s funny now lol I just lmao if a girl gives me no opening. I look at it like hey, I shot my shot and came up empty. I won’t ever get the chance to slide up in her if I keep my mouth closed. They didn’t choose me that day. Tomorrow though? That’s another motherfukking day

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Damn brehs

So dentist lady stayed the night last night, and we went out tonight before I dropped her home. We went out to a restaurant/bar first, then dancing at a club. We're having a good time, and she feels comfortably enough to ask me that question at the restaurant.

"What are we? What's your relationship history?"

So I give a short answer of course. "I had a relationship that lasted two and a half years, that ended last year. I've dated here and there since but nothing serious."

I'm thinking that she'll give me some banal answer in response, but she drops two bombs on me.

Bomb #1 "I was married at 20, divorced at 21"

Bomb #2 "I had an on and off relationship after the divorce, that's lasted until this year April. But I'm over him."

So I'm like

Whatever you brehs are thinking right now, is what I was thinking then

So...we head out to the club afterwards. Having a good time, and we go to the bar to get drinks. While we're waiting for our drinks she shows me a video on youtube. Then I see two text messages in succession from a breh named Randy

"Heyyy "

"Yooo...what you doing right now?

I said nothing, and she exited out the messages right quick.

I'm now looking at a lady who's done her best to get into that girlfriend action as a bit sketchy now. I think I will go out with that teacher tomorrow now

She hasn't been entirely truthful breh, you know that on and off relationship, its with Randy and its currently on right now. Well at least he thinks it is, she mentally checked out around April.

Girls don't do anything righteously, there's a pretext to everything. No girl leaves a relationship without the substitute guy already with his kit on standing at the side of the pitch.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

This is gonna be the shortest and most to the point post i'll ever make on here. And y'all take it for what it is:


I met a great woman when i was 30 (late bloomer, only had one girlfriend prior to her).


Technically she was my first true relationship because the girl i was dating before still lived with her ex.


During our 5 year relationship, i was a dirt bag (infidelity on my end, with about a dozen women, i would travel by myself internationally, not defend her when people spoke ill of her weight, etc). She never did me wrong, was always there for me (opened up the door every single time when i would come home at 3 a.m., sometimes after chillin with other bytches).


Broke it off with her because i had to be honest with my self (i was no longer attracted to her) and thought the grass would be greener on the other side.



It's been 2 years and two months and life has been miserable. The women have been fukkin horrible... deplorable. Baggage, attitudinal, flakier than a factory of kellogg's cereal... just bad times overall.



She was supposed to be the mother of my chul'ren, but i was too clouded by immaturity and selfishness.



In restrospect, i had it great. I was her king and i never reciprocated the feelings.



Now i wake up every fukkin day with remorse and regret.



She was my savior when I was care taking for my ill mother (god rest her soul). She been thru it all because her father passed away of MS. Who could have empathized and knew what i was going thru better than her?




On the week of our two year break up... i was balling. My eyes just didn't stop tearing up. And i was on vacay with the homies too.



Perhaps cuz i knew what i had and it was gone forever (yes, i messaged her hello on the 4th of july. There were no sparks in my celebration that night... the response was nil).





If this is the cosmo's way giving me karma... then i have to accept it.




Nowadays, i hide behind material things and just work 6 days a week to keep my mind occupied... party heavy on the weekends knowing that i've been taking meds for my liver damage.




I'm really really fukkin sorry for the things i've done... i just never could bring myself to really tell her, be honest with her...




And this is what i'm gonna have to live with.





Staring at "What coulda been" through my rearview when i drive drunk at night. The family we coulda had. The life we coulda enjoyed.




She was literally the companion/lover version of my mother.




Now they're both gone.





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Man up simp, yea she sounds great but you done messed up, it is what it is and there are billions of other women on the planet, including some like her she ain't unique nikka.

 

[Balla]

Cold approached two girls today on campus. (Both black)


Got shut down by both of em

Good shyt,

What was the convos like? What you approach them with?

 

[Balla]

I don’t see how anyone could really get married, you don’t get anything out of it except a nagging wife who you want to cheat on anyway.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Cold approached two girls today on campus. (Both black)


Got shut down by both of em

nikka I cold approached and got shut down an hour ago it happens. You know lions only have a successful hunt rate of about 20-25%, and they are the kings of the jungle

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

So simple, yet something many of us should have been told a loooong time ago. I've been saying this.

A chick who is really into you FOR YOU would meet you at the local park in the rain. The ones who ask a lot of questions and put out all these stipulations are not interested, so don't waste your time.

Real talk, one of my older homes who smartened me up to game broke this down to me time ago. He used to just take girls to the park and chill talking and playing music. Told me if she will happily do that without complaining and you can have a good time then you know she actually likes you. It was like an acid test he used.

 

[DaRealness]

You brehs will love this one saw this chick was from Toronto and knew I had to post it on here

Dating Apps suck... for women

This little heffer is only 21 imagine her when she's 30 still single and even more bitter

This emo bytch sounds so fukking annoying I don't think my dikk could even get hard after 5 minutes for me to try and hit. Someone like that is the type where you'll excuse yourself to go to the bathroom then sneak right out the building.

Some people just have no business being in the game at all.

Real talk, one of my older homes who smartened me up to game broke this down to me time ago. He used to just take girls to the park and chill talking and playing music. Told me if she will happily do that without complaining and you can have a good time then you know she actually likes you. It was like an acid test he used.

A lot of these girls will show their cards straight away, so it's easy to just turn them down flat and move on. The problem is desparate and eager to impress simps who just come straight out the gate making offers and flashing their wallet when they dont even know the chick's name yet.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Made some rookie mistakes with my last FWB so I’m out the game for a minute

When I return I need more options and decided I’m gonna stick with low quality women

 

[MikelArteta]

Toronto is the worst city for dating


Black women always complain. Then stop liking cacs oh I’m sick of being a fetish but I’ll comtinue liking brad

You brehs will love this one saw this chick was from Toronto and knew I had to post it on here

Dating Apps suck... for women

This little heffer is only 21 imagine her when she's 30 still single and even more bitter

 

[DapMeUp!]

You brehs will love this one saw this chick was from Toronto and knew I had to post it on here

Dating Apps suck... for women

This little heffer is only 21 imagine her when she's 30 still single and even more bitter

She sounds perfect breh

Seriously though, how could she have written that hoe babble, read it back and expect that anyone would find what she typed out appealing.

She sound like an absolute nightmare to deal with. I'm grateful these bytches literally give out disclaimers of why I should avoid them nowadays...

"I'm a lot to deal with but I'm worth it"
"I'm very needy and will probably drive you crazy but it will be worth your while"
"I need a man that will put me in my place when i'm out of line"
If you don't like me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" Etc...All excuses for being a shytty human.

 

[KnowDatImReal]

This is gonna be the shortest and most to the point post i'll ever make on here. And y'all take it for what it is:


I met a great woman when i was 30 (late bloomer, only had one girlfriend prior to her).


Technically she was my first true relationship because the girl i was dating before still lived with her ex.


During our 5 year relationship, i was a dirt bag (infidelity on my end, with about a dozen women, i would travel by myself internationally, not defend her when people spoke ill of her weight, etc). She never did me wrong, was always there for me (opened up the door every single time when i would come home at 3 a.m., sometimes after chillin with other bytches).


Broke it off with her because i had to be honest with my self (i was no longer attracted to her) and thought the grass would be greener on the other side.



It's been 2 years and two months and life has been miserable. The women have been fukkin horrible... deplorable. Baggage, attitudinal, flakier than a factory of kellogg's cereal... just bad times overall.



She was supposed to be the mother of my chul'ren, but i was too clouded by immaturity and selfishness.



In restrospect, i had it great. I was her king and i never reciprocated the feelings.



Now i wake up every fukkin day with remorse and regret.



She was my savior when I was care taking for my ill mother (god rest her soul). She been thru it all because her father passed away of MS. Who could have empathized and knew what i was going thru better than her?




On the week of our two year break up... i was balling. My eyes just didn't stop tearing up. And i was on vacay with the homies too.



Perhaps cuz i knew what i had and it was gone forever (yes, i messaged her hello on the 4th of july. There were no sparks in my celebration that night... the response was nil).





If this is the cosmo's way giving me karma... then i have to accept it.




Nowadays, i hide behind material things and just work 6 days a week to keep my mind occupied... party heavy on the weekends knowing that i've been taking meds for my liver damage.




I'm really really fukkin sorry for the things i've done... i just never could bring myself to really tell her, be honest with her...




And this is what i'm gonna have to live with.





Staring at "What coulda been" through my rearview when i drive drunk at night. The family we coulda had. The life we coulda enjoyed.




She was literally the companion/lover version of my mother.




Now they're both gone.





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try get her back?

 

[Goon for hire]

Good shyt,

What was the convos like? What you approach them with?

Asked the first one for directions to class, said she was going to the same building and that she would show me, we started walking there and started talking about basic shyt (majors, year, liking the school) when we got there I told her I thought she was cute and asked for her snap. She told me thanks but she had a boyfriendand that she would see me around

Second one I tried she just straight up ignored the kid. I’m too pretty for bytches to be ignoring me breh

shyt like this why I’m gonna start pawging again. To make it worse I basically passed up a white chick to try to get at the second girl

 

[360dagod]

So here's the situation from this past weekend. Met this one shawty, Ashley, Friday night/Saturday morning at this late-night diner spot after coming back from this Afro-Caribbean club. Chatted with her for a bit and the vibes were good. She asked how I old I was, I said 25 (I'm 24 but turning 25 in a few so eh). She was like I'm a child, that she's 29 turning 30 in a week. I'm like it's whatever, no harm, no foul. We talk a bit more (she lives close by, is a “homebody” etc) Anyway, I get her number and head out.

FF to Saturday mid-day. I facetime her and let her know I'm gonna be checking out this lounge/bar close by and asked if she wanted to come. She was like she’ll see when it’s closer to then. I’m like cool.

Now it's Saturday night. I get to the lounge and it’s a good spot. A lot of nice-looking ladies and the music was on point. She arrives a little later and we post up at the bar. After a couple drinks, some dirty dancing and mad flirting she’s like she’s tryna leave. I’m like cool, lemme pay and I'll walk you to your car.

Walk her to her car and I'm like let's head out she’s like nah, she ain’t ready yet. She had a good time but she’s not with it tonight. This is after all that dirty dancing and talk about “oh she’s gonna show me things since I’m still a young one” like mad teasing. Feeling on my Johnson, kissing my neck, the whole 9 yards. Anyway, I pried a little bit more but then I let it go. Went back to the lounge, got some food – and the number of this cute waitress – and head home.

Sunday afternoon, I called her just to make sure she home safe. No response. She hits me back a couple hours later. We exchange pleasantries e.g. how was your day, did you get home safe etc. She said she had fun last night and would want to hang out again during the day, lol. I told her I’d hit her up this week to set something up.

I’m kinda wondering if I’d be spinning my wheels to try and set something up again. Part of me feels like she may have just been tryna play a little hard to get (you know women), another part of me feels like she might be tryna string me on and get free drinks. I dropped $55 on drinks at the lounge, not crazy, but it adds up.

It’s her birthday this week so I may try again. I’m just thinking about the lowest cost activity at the moment. I’m good in the kitchen so I might try to plan a home date

@Silkk

She got a man or something to that effect?