So here's the situation from this past weekend. Met this one shawty, Ashley, Friday night/Saturday morning at this late-night diner spot after coming back from this Afro-Caribbean club. Chatted with her for a bit and the vibes were good. She asked how I old I was, I said 25 (I'm 24 but turning 25 in a few so eh). She was like I'm a child, that she's 29 turning 30 in a week. I'm like it's whatever, no harm, no foul. We talk a bit more (she lives close by, is a “homebody” etc) Anyway, I get her number and head out.
FF to Saturday mid-day. I facetime her and let her know I'm gonna be checking out this lounge/bar close by and asked if she wanted to come. She was like she’ll see when it’s closer to then. I’m like cool.
Now it's Saturday night. I get to the lounge and it’s a good spot. A lot of nice-looking ladies and the music was on point. She arrives a little later and we post up at the bar. After a couple drinks, some dirty dancing and mad flirting she’s like she’s tryna leave. I’m like cool, lemme pay and I'll walk you to your car.
Walk her to her car and I'm like let's head out she’s like nah, she ain’t ready yet. She had a good time but she’s not with it tonight. This is after all that dirty dancing and talk about “oh she’s gonna show me things since I’m still a young one” like mad teasing. Feeling on my Johnson, kissing my neck, the whole 9 yards. Anyway, I pried a little bit more but then I let it go. Went back to the lounge, got some food – and the number of this cute waitress – and head home.
Sunday afternoon, I called her just to make sure she home safe. No response. She hits me back a couple hours later. We exchange pleasantries e.g. how was your day, did you get home safe etc. She said she had fun last night and would want to hang out again during the
day, lol. I told her I’d hit her up this week to set something up.
I’m kinda wondering if I’d be spinning my wheels to try and set something up again. Part of me feels like she may have just been tryna play a little hard to get (you know women), another part of me feels like she might be tryna string me on and get free drinks. I dropped $55 on drinks at the lounge, not crazy, but it adds up.
It’s her birthday this week so I may try again. I’m just thinking about the lowest cost activity at the moment. I’m good in the kitchen so I might try to plan a home date
@Silkk