Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Bro I got a trick for avoiding rejection. When you ask for her name, don't automatically give her yours. Wait until she asks you.

If she doesn't ask, just end it. Because 9 times out of 10, she's not interested in you or whatever you're saying to her.

I've tested this shyt thoroughly. It might be different depending on the situation--classmate, coworker, etc.
But most of the time it's accurate.

Remember though, if she does ask for your name, she might just be super polite, but that also means she'll be more receptive.
Ima try this shyt.:ohhh:
 

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Ima try this shyt.:ohhh:
My craziest recent example:

I had two different broads give me their number without me asking for the number first. I thought everything was going great. One of them even made plans with me.

Once I started texting them, they both kept one-wording me and then ghosted (I ended up flipping one around eventually)

Then it hit me. These bytches didn't even know my name at the time of the first interaction. I gave them my name through text.

I already knew of this phenomenon, but I thought this would be an exception since they gave me their number first.

Turns out there are almost no exceptions. A person's name is the most basic info necessary for a relationship.
 

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Any bruh ever try eating the box then going back to what you were doing before? And at the same time watching what your lady does?

Did it sunday while i was watching godzilla.she was sitting on the other side of the living room. I got up and went over to her (she was only wearin a long shirt) ,didnt say a word. just lifted her waist up on my chest and went to work.

When i got done i got up and went right back to the couch and finished watch the movie . Looked over and she went from



:ohhh:



:takedat: .


I looked back her like:russell:









:russ:
 

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Breh... why would she specify y’all chill in the day time? She’s trying to tell you something. To me, that would be a clear sign I need to drop this one. But hey, if you wanna keep pursuing, it’s your life. Just my perspective.

I think this is women being coy. On our first date we were getting mad touchy feely...like you couldn't even deny she wasn't feeling the boy

Anyway, as I type this she just hit me up getting all mad flirty. At this point I'm getting straight to the point.

Side note: This one chick I went out with last year just hit me up saying she wants to do something fun this weekend and last time we went out she had a good time. We didn't even have a fallen out. I just never texted her again :russ:

I'm thinking about going to the same spot I took this other shawty too. It's 5 mins from my house and they got some good food :yeshrug:
 

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Sunday:
Me: hey you wanna do happy hour on Tuesday around 6:30pm?
Her: yeah sure, that sounds cool

Today:
Me at 4pm: hey, just wanted to make sure we are still on for happy hour today

Her: Hey I didn’t think we were going anymore because I didn’t hear from you earlier today so I agreed to do some stuff at work that I have to get out today. Might be a late night


Me: :dwillhuh: :snoop:
 
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I work in fine dining as a cook, 9am-7pm five days a week. By the time i get home in the evening, it's time for bed. This shyt is killing my body and soul.

Met a Christian woman a year and a half ago volunteering at a charity, fell in love with her at first sight, and made a promise to pursue no one else but her. Problem is, by the time I gathered up the courage to ask her out (few weeks ago), she had been accepted to a graduate program in another city. :mjlol:

What's worse, after i asked her out, she told me she was concerned about me and gave me a list of drop in therapists that i could see.

After not seeing her for a min, I realized I was only into her bc she was the only person who showed me kindness during a rough period in my life. I really shut down/rejected around 5 female coworkers who want/wanted to fukk. For no reason other than this weird delusion i had that me and this chick were going to end up marrying each other.
:yeshrug::sadcam:

Love makes a man do weird things, brehs. I wish i was a dog but I'm just a softie.
 

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Sunday:
Me: hey you wanna do happy hour on Tuesday around 6:30pm?
Her: yeah sure, that sounds cool

Today:
Me at 4pm: hey, just wanted to make sure we are still on for happy hour today

Her: Hey I didn’t think we were going anymore because I didn’t hear from you earlier today so I agreed to do some stuff at work that I have to get out today. Might be a late night


Me: :dwillhuh: :snoop:

what did you do :lupe:
 

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I work in fine dining as a cook, 9am-7pm five days a week. By the time i get home in the evening, it's time for bed. This shyt is killing my body and soul.

Met a Christian woman a year and a half ago volunteering at a charity, fell in love with her at first sight, and made a promise to pursue no one else but her. Problem is, by the time I gathered up the courage to ask her out (few weeks ago), she had been accepted to a graduate program in another city. :mjlol:

What's worse, after i asked her out, she told me she was concerned about me and gave me a list of drop in therapists that i could see.

After not seeing her for a min, I realized I was only into her bc she was the only person who showed me kindness during a rough period in my life. I really shut down/rejected around 5 female coworkers who want/wanted to fukk. For no reason other than this weird delusion i had that me and this chick were going to end up marrying each other.
:yeshrug::sadcam:

Love makes a man do weird things, brehs. I wish i was a dog but I'm just a softie.

you can be a softie but never show it
and never put all your eggs into one basket

If you are single never reject or shut down a chick because you are hoping to get with another chick.
 

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I cant even lie I take offence when these girls don’t let me waste their time like these other brehs:gucci:


bytches be giving their ex 100 chances but wanna cut you off after one fukk up :comeon:

yep its amazing when you sit and listen to these chicks stories

,my ex was horrible he was a cheater, abuser, just used me for money or for sex.

how long were you were together :lupe:

3 years

you with this chick for a few months treating her well and ish and maybe you go a few days without calling her because work is busy and then

it just goes to show you it's all about how much a woman "feels about you"

you can cheat lie, abuse, impregnate other chicks, be a piece of sh*t and she'll stick by you if her emotions for you are strong

you can treat her well, take her to paris for her birthday, give her a kidney but you had to cancel a date because of 10cm of snow and black ice sorry its just not going the way i want it


And it's reasons like that while I'll never simp again,
 

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was sort of a a$$hole today :heh:


forgive me brehs for i almost sinned. The coffers have been empty so i matched with this sexy ass chick didn't even check her profile got to talking.
I tell her on saturday lets meet up she says tuesday at 8 works for her.

Then on sunday she tellls me she has two kids with two seperate dudes :picard:.

I said oh and then said absolutely nothing the past few days figuring out a way how to get out of this without being a azzhole

she just hit me up with the message so much for the meetup. I said you never said anything :russ:

she said you're the man

I said what is this 1948:mjlit: you're a grown adult if you really wanted to you could have said something

she said the man is suppose to make the plans and finalize

I said i guess i'm not that man:yeshrug:

she said bye it was nice talking to you


:whew:



btw yes I do make plans and finalize with chicks I actually want to meet up with :whoa:
 

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Sunday:
Me: hey you wanna do happy hour on Tuesday around 6:30pm?
Her: yeah sure, that sounds cool

Today:
Me at 4pm: hey, just wanted to make sure we are still on for happy hour today

Her: Hey I didn’t think we were going anymore because I didn’t hear from you earlier today so I agreed to do some stuff at work that I have to get out today. Might be a late night


Me: :dwillhuh: :snoop:


:martin::patrice:

I know you wont be contacting her back breh.

She could have easily checked with you this morning if she was actually wanting to go.

Did she offer up another day to make up for bailing?
 

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:martin::patrice:

I know you wont be contacting her back breh.

She could have easily checked with you this morning if she was actually wanting to go.

Did she offer up another day to make up for bailing?
Nope, she just left it at that, which lets me know that she’s a dub, and I gotta bush her. Not even going to dignify her excuse with a response.
 
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