Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

DaRealness

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Never be afraid to let a chick walk. Had to drop two this morning over some dumb shyt. When they start making threats, call their bluff. You start pleading, you’ve already lost. It’s nothing really to find replacements. Already got my workout in for the day, so this shyt doesn’t bother me at all.

This is more important than most people realise. I was talking to an older woman over the weekend who was telling me how there's too much of a disposable culture nowadays where people are just ending relationships over the smallest things. I told her I see it more as people paying more attention to red flags and cutting things off before it gets progressively worse. When you realise your self worth and respect yourself, then all this talk about riding it out no matter how disrespectful the other person can take a jump. Many of us were in the situations we were in because we didn't bush that person from day one. Case in point the video above I just posted.
 

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This is more important than most people realise. I was talking to an older woman over the weekend who was telling me how there's too much of a disposable culture nowadays where people are just ending relationships over the smallest things. I told her I see it more as people paying more attention to red flags and cutting things off before it gets progressively worse. When you realise your self worth and respect yourself, then all this talk about riding it out no matter how disrespectful the other person can take a jump. Many of us were in the situations we were in because we didn't bush that person from day one. Case in point the video above I just posted.
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This is more important than most people realise. I was talking to an older woman over the weekend who was telling me how there's too much of a disposable culture nowadays where people are just ending relationships over the smallest things. I told her I see it more as people paying more attention to red flags and cutting things off before it gets progressively worse. When you realise your self worth and respect yourself, then all this talk about riding it out no matter how disrespectful the other person can take a jump. Many of us were in the situations we were in because we didn't bush that person from day one. Case in point the video above I just posted.

I see her point to an extent...

There are yellow flags and red flags...

Everything cant be a code red...

Let me stress that there are some red flags that are automatically a no go
 

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Never be afraid to let a chick walk. Had to drop two this morning over some dumb shyt. When they start making threats, call their bluff. You start pleading, you’ve already lost. It’s nothing really to find replacements. Already got my workout in for the day, so this shyt doesn’t bother me at all.

Happened to me last night. I'd not really seen her this month as I have been busy and she was constantly messaging. Tried to see her on Tuesday. She was like it's late. Let's do another day. I was like OK

:jbhmm:

Usually she'll see me mega late, so that had my interest piqued...

Two days later she sends a sarcastic message asking if I'll be seeing her at any point this year. She messages me over the weekend saying all the back and forth texting is pointless told her I'd come round that night as I had to drop her tripod off.

I could tell straight away she was in a mood. But she soon warmed up. Then told me she was mad at me and so she'd slept with a guy a few days earlier as she wanted to get me back as he'd shown her attention. (Keep in mind, we're not even exclusive)

Didnt even phase me. So she asks what should we do? Remain fukk buddies, try to be friends etc

Anyway the subject turned to another woman I see. She asked when I last saw her. I told her last week we went to the cinema together. This chick lost it. Told me I'd never taken her out. That I should go and fukk myself. That's she's just p*ssy to me and nothing else.

Basically told me she was going to bed. I told her well I'll leave you be and got going.

Her main problem is she wanted a relationship with me and she admitted I told her upfront what I was doing I.e not doing relationships.

But for me to know to get back at me she'd go fukk the first guy to show her some attention has put me totally off.

Happy she did it though. Can clear her from the roster. I'll miss the chats with her. But I wont have someone try and force me to get with them.
 

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I see her point to an extent...

There are yellow flags and red flags...

Everything cant be a code red...

Let me stress that there are some red flags that are automatically a no go

I see her point too, but it usually starts with the little things being ignored and not nipped in the bud straight away. Everything can't be a code red but you always know what your gut is telling you.
 

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Not everybody likes slanging random dikk all the time player:wow:

I prefer having a girlfriend because I like the feeling it gives me, I might be a simp but it is what it is.
Its not about wifing a girl in general, its about wifing THAT skeezer. I feel like you’re joking but those who don’t hear will feel if you’re serious.
 

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My girlfriend of 8 months, her ex that she dated for 5 years popped up back in the picture, dude wants her back. Now my girl acting confused & not sure about her decision:francis:

I just downloaded Hinge again, since she acting confused.

These women these days are very Transitional

It's a done deal...:mjcry:

Just end it now...
 
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