Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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This nikka here
for getting what you wanted tho
How it happen?
I went out salsa dancing by myself. She showed up about a half hour later, it looked like she was by herself also. I'll try to keep it short, a bachata song came on
bachata's my shyt so I asked her to dance. She's hella grinding on me all sensual like how good bachata's go. For the next song, I asked her to dance Kizomba (if you don't know what it is, it's the shyt! Even more sensual than bachata.) We might as well have been fukking already.
We only danced a few times and she said she needed to leave. So I'm like aight, deuces.
She said she needs a ride home. Keep in mind she has her own car, how did she get here and need a ride? But instead of saying some dumb shyt about that I just gave her a ride home and she invited me inside
Learn how to dance y'all, this shyt a game changer. It doesn't have to be latin dance, just find your lane. I speak Spanish so I can go to a latin dance club and feast
So AFTER our first date is when you're out here dropping these bombshells on me
-She has two kids
-She's heavily in debt
-She either stays with friends/or in her van
This. In the past several weeks I've had to literally ignore women who aren't on my level and in life where I am.
Three girls who fit what you said but initially they thought THEY were high value because they are 6-8s in looks. After trying to demotivate me talking about "i'm looking for good chemistry" after one date lol
or "I'm looking to date someone long term who wants me for something other than my body" 
They all came back calling and asking if I'd like to go back out on another date.
No thanks! None of yall own your houses, have any other intangibles to command what you want and the worst shyt ever is I'm not just looking to have sex. Lady, when you vibe and enjoy each other's company the sex is the next logical step as you kicking it and yes, vibing.
Same girl who said that shyt was talking about having threesomes and shyt on the first date. Yall asses is confused! 
George Gooney
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I went out salsa dancing by myself. She showed up about a half hour later, it looked like she was by herself also. I'll try to keep it short, a bachata song came on
For the next song, I asked her to dance Kizomba (if you don't know what it is, it's the shyt! Even more sensual than bachata.) We might as well have been fukking already.
We only danced a few times and she said she needed to leave. So I'm like aight, deuces.
She said she needs a ride home. Keep in mind she has her own car, how did she get here and need a ride? But instead of saying some dumb shyt about that I just gave her a ride home and she invited me inside
Learn how to dance y'all, this shyt a game changer. It doesn't have to be latin dance, just find your lane. I speak Spanish so I can go to a latin dance club and feast
Standing in line to checkout and this lil bad ass darkskin curly haired chick was walking out and I couldn’t get at her. Had this lil tight ass sundress on hugging that ass perfectly
She was one of them chicks so nice I would just get at off gp, no time to even have nerves build up and shyt
She was one of them chicks so nice I would just get at off gp, no time to even have nerves build up and shyt
Those types are rareStanding in line to checkout and this lil bad ass darkskin curly haired chick was walking out and I couldn’t get at her. Had this lil tight ass sundress on hugging that ass perfectly
She was one of them chicks so nice I would just get at off gp, no time to even have nerves build up and shyt
I went out salsa dancing by myself. She showed up about a half hour later, it looked like she was by herself also. I'll try to keep it short, a bachata song came on
For the next song, I asked her to dance Kizomba (if you don't know what it is, it's the shyt! Even more sensual than bachata.) We might as well have been fukking already.
We only danced a few times and she said she needed to leave. So I'm like aight, deuces.
She said she needs a ride home. Keep in mind she has her own car, how did she get here and need a ride? But instead of saying some dumb shyt about that I just gave her a ride home and she invited me inside
Learn how to dance y'all, this shyt a game changer. It doesn't have to be latin dance, just find your lane. I speak Spanish so I can go to a latin dance club and feast
Guess who matched with me???
That sexy mixed chick that i was
about early this year...that i smashed for like 3 weeks n than she started actn funny
That sexy mixed chick that i was
about early this year...that i smashed for like 3 weeks n than she started actn funnyJhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
Acting funny how?Guess who matched with me???
That sexy mixed chick that i was
First off shes bad n had the best body i ever been with...Basically she was just using me for dikk...but sayn she wants a relationship...caught her creeping on another dating site...she was also actn mad flaky towards the end...
She just finished college n was traveling all over south america for summer n now shes back..
Hitting da club dolo on some fun shyt is good for the soul..
Feels good to break out the normal routine
Feels good to break out the normal routine
Fukked the platonic friend
Sorry I doubted y'all
Babymama Magnet
All Star
I think I picked up an interest in communication/ how people interact with one another. I'm going to say this though, I don't care if you have a couple of women talking to you or if you have a girlfriend. When I see shyt like "just focus on yourself and the women will come" or "I talked to a girl 6 years younger than me and boy... most of these women nowadays have nothing valuable or interesting to say" this screams you're not a charismatic person with actual goat social skills as you think you are, in my opinion.
I'm not even saying those quotes are invalid. I'm just saying I can tell by those statements a person only has like 4 to 5 friends they only fukk with. I'm not even telling you bros to switch up because I'm sure you are all doing fine with the women and are cool with the friends you got. I just want to point out the observations I notice because this post isn't strictly a female post. This is a social skills post.
If a dude has an unlimited amount of friends then he's most likely the ultimate ladies man. And when I mean an unlimited amount of friends, I'm talking friends that don't fit your box/characteristics. If you're the dude who's friends with people from the hood, frat boys from college, the socially awkward guy in class, the 55 year old white man from your job, your former teachers, and the person everyone in your town hates and finds annoying, then there is no way you have a female problem.
People, in general, are super selfish. This thread is the perfect example. YOU post here to find out how YOU can get laid. YOU are looking through the pages to find tips on how to get girls to like YOU. YOU post self-brag posts on how YOU don't put up with females nonsense, letting us know YOU cut off people easily. The truth is it's never what the other person in the situation wants because you never even thought of their wants and needs, everything boils down to you. And that shyt blends into friends as well. YOU don't hit up your friends anymore because they don't ever hit up YOU. YOU don't put any effort to making new friends because YOU only fukk with people with the same interests. And if someone really wants to be friends with YOU they will try.
I want to point out that people with the opposite mindset happen to be some of the most successful people ever. Let me use examples. I'm a randomly pick Nipsey Hussle, Joe Rogan, and Roman Reigns.
Nipsey Hussle- Yes he was tragically murdered by an old friend of his, but the fact his funeral was held at the staples center should speak volumes. The only other person to do something like that was Micheal Jackson, and Nip was never on Micheal's level ever when it comes to importance in music history. However, Nip was loved by everyone. He could be chillen with rappers one minute, hooping with Lebron the next min, and hanging out with random white people like gary vaynerchuk next.
Joe Rogan- He started his podcast just to fukk around with his friends. Then it became something huge because he's genuinely interested in people. Dude has Bernie Sanders one episode, Dr. Cornel West the next episode, next he's smoking with Wiz Khalifa, Joey Diaz after, and then randomly some journalist/writer you never heard of. No matter how famous, uninteresting, or unknown a person is.. Joe posts a photo of them is labels them great. That's why everyone goes to his podcasts and why it's so big.
Roman Reigns- The WWE's face of the company. Yes a lot of fans boo him, but behind the scenes he's the locker room leader whos universally loved by everyone. When he announced he had cancer so many other wrestlers posted stories of a time he showed random act of kindness when he didn't need to based on his status already in the company. IF your friends with the wrestlers, the writers, and the boss himself. You're set for life. Better examples of that is The Rock and John Cena. Two guys who broke out of wrestling and are now successful people that trensended. Both are universally loved by everyone because of how they are outside of wrestling. The rock is best friends with damn near everyone. John Cena out here granting make a wish meeting for children and has done it like 1000 times.
You never had a friend who wasn't built like an athlete or was super famous and rich but he had one of the baddest bytches you have ever seen? You don't even question how he got her because you're like: "dude is one of the coolest people I have ever met I'm glad he has himself a 10/10."
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TL&DR version is this: Work on your social skills in general. You're not that good at communicating with people as you think.
This needs a repost. Nothing but underrated gems
Reminds me of a quote by Warren Buffet who stated that his best investment was investing in a public speaking course which help him on being able to effectively communicate with people. He also stated this little gem too
Having good social and communicational skills can open the door up for you in so many aspects of your life whether it be socially, financially, sexually etc
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