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Did you still smash?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Did you still smash?Goon for hire
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Told yall being focused on my business got my tolerance LOW AF
She was lying with no shame
Yeah this was a chick I was already fukking.
Everything was going good and she was acting right the first month, then she started with the bullshyt so I dipped on her. Then her crazy ass want to come chasing & trying to act right. Been blocked since June
Had a BAAAAAD ASS darkskin chick who I didn’t fukk try that shyt on me back in May I think. She didn’t flake like that, but she kept trying to switch our dates on the day of. Gave her two chances, on the third she was too
tooI remember when I was scouting out my new roster some chick telling me I had to have patience, compromise, and learn how to wait 
Texted her
“I ain’t gotta wait on shyt”
Then she got the
Listening to all them damn AMS videos and actually getting on my shyt 100% got me like this. I don’t give a fukk
Texted her
“I ain’t gotta wait on shyt”
Then she got the
Listening to all them damn AMS videos and actually getting on my shyt 100% got me like this. I don’t give a fukk
You lucky, you coulda easily blew your chances on that one.
last nite i was drunk
i text my ex told her that i miss her
her : are u fo real
me : yup
her : since we have been honest i missed you since the break up
me : woow im surprised , yea but i couldnt show it , i want to see you and i see that booty getting fatter
her : the booty still here lol , this week i will be busy but im definitely gonna see you on the weeknd
me : wink emoji
her : kiss emoji
WE BROKE UP LIKE 1 YEAR AGO , THAT p*ssy WAS A1 , OUR SEX CHEMISTRY WAS AWESOME
IS IT A GOOD IDEA FOR US TO SMASH AGAIN?
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You already know damn well it’s not a good idea
VertigoKnight
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Told yall being focused on my business got my tolerance LOW AF
These chicks still think we're going to chase and beg. When we have shyt to do.
That moment they realise you aint "checking in" with them and have gone ghost.
A chick has to swallow her pride and think up a reason for why she hasn't messaged.
VertigoKnight
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Why did you break up?
shyt is retarded AF cause this was a chick I was feeling like a mofo, we clicked great, I actually enjoyed being around her, etc.
These chicks still think we're going to chase and beg. When we have shyt to do.
That moment they realise you aint "checking in" with them and have gone ghost.
A chick has to swallow her pride and think up a reason for why she hasn't messaged.
Then she started taking a nikka for granted and pulling back. Guess she thought I was gonna be pursuing her forever cause when I stopped then she wanted to come back full throttle. Nope, once im done im done
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Listening to all them damn AMS videos and actually getting on my shyt 100% got me like this. I don’t give a fukk
This is the beast mode era. The 90s R&B days are long gone. The music was good, but we off that. The game has changed and you have to be savage cos everybody else is in their own way. I still slap myself for not bushing some chicks who should have been kicked to the curb long ago, but you live and you learn.
we just got tired of each other
she was 19 and i was 26
it wasnt easy dealin with a young chick had to show her everything
but i just wanna hit and quit
is it dangerous ??
Maaaaaaan after last year and dealing with that “celibate” chick I’ll never make that damn mistake again. Especially if it’s early on, the sooner I catch a red flag the sooner I nip it. Definitely live & learn. Whole different man than I was just 4-5 months ago let alone a year.
This is the beast mode era. The 90s R&B days are long gone. The music was good, but we off that. The game has changed and you have to be savage cos everybody else is in their own way. I still slap myself for not bushing some chicks who should have been kicked to the curb long ago, but you live and you learn.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
That was one of my biggest flaws - ignoring the red flags and that shyt always cost me in more ways than one. Even later when I've bushed certain people I didn't do it soon enough.
I'm at the point where as soon I feel the slightest negative vibe, it's bushes. No more of that "benefit of the doubt" bullshyt or second chances.
Straw Hat Luffy
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I think I picked up an interest in communication/ how people interact with one another. I'm going to say this though, I don't care if you have a couple of women talking to you or if you have a girlfriend. When I see shyt like "just focus on yourself and the women will come" or "I talked to a girl 6 years younger than me and boy... most of these women nowadays have nothing valuable or interesting to say" this screams you're not a charismatic person with actual goat social skills as you think you are, in my opinion.
I'm not even saying those quotes are invalid. I'm just saying I can tell by those statements a person only has like 4 to 5 friends they only fukk with. I'm not even telling you bros to switch up because I'm sure you are all doing fine with the women and are cool with the friends you got. I just want to point out the observations I notice because this post isn't strictly a female post. This is a social skills post.
If a dude has an unlimited amount of friends then he's most likely the ultimate ladies man. And when I mean an unlimited amount of friends, I'm talking friends that don't fit your box/characteristics. If you're the dude who's friends with people from the hood, frat boys from college, the socially awkward guy in class, the 55 year old white man from your job, your former teachers, and the person everyone in your town hates and finds annoying, then there is no way you have a female problem.
People, in general, are super selfish. This thread is the perfect example. YOU post here to find out how YOU can get laid. YOU are looking through the pages to find tips on how to get girls to like YOU. YOU post self-brag posts on how YOU don't put up with females nonsense, letting us know YOU cut off people easily. The truth is it's never what the other person in the situation wants because you never even thought of their wants and needs, everything boils down to you. And that shyt blends into friends as well. YOU don't hit up your friends anymore because they don't ever hit up YOU. YOU don't put any effort to making new friends because YOU only fukk with people with the same interests. And if someone really wants to be friends with YOU they will try.
I want to point out that people with the opposite mindset happen to be some of the most successful people ever. Let me use examples. I'm a randomly pick Nipsey Hussle, Joe Rogan, and Roman Reigns.
Nipsey Hussle- Yes he was tragically murdered by an old friend of his, but the fact his funeral was held at the staples center should speak volumes. The only other person to do something like that was Micheal Jackson, and Nip was never on Micheal's level ever when it comes to importance in music history. However, Nip was loved by everyone. He could be chillen with rappers one minute, hooping with Lebron the next min, and hanging out with random white people like gary vaynerchuk next.
Joe Rogan- He started his podcast just to fukk around with his friends. Then it became something huge because he's genuinely interested in people. Dude has Bernie Sanders one episode, Dr. Cornel West the next episode, next he's smoking with Wiz Khalifa, Joey Diaz after, and then randomly some journalist/writer you never heard of. No matter how famous, uninteresting, or unknown a person is.. Joe posts a photo of them is labels them great. That's why everyone goes to his podcasts and why it's so big.
Roman Reigns- The WWE's face of the company. Yes a lot of fans boo him, but behind the scenes he's the locker room leader whos universally loved by everyone. When he announced he had cancer so many other wrestlers posted stories of a time he showed random act of kindness when he didn't need to based on his status already in the company. IF your friends with the wrestlers, the writers, and the boss himself. You're set for life. Better examples of that is The Rock and John Cena. Two guys who broke out of wrestling and are now successful people that trensended. Both are universally loved by everyone because of how they are outside of wrestling. The rock is best friends with damn near everyone. John Cena out here granting make a wish meeting for children and has done it like 1000 times.
You never had a friend who wasn't built like an athlete or was super famous and rich but he had one of the baddest bytches you have ever seen? You don't even question how he got her because you're like: "
dude is one of the coolest people I have ever met I'm glad he has himself a 10/10."
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TL&DR version is this: Work on your social skills in general. You're not that good at communicating with people as you think.
I'm not even saying those quotes are invalid. I'm just saying I can tell by those statements a person only has like 4 to 5 friends they only fukk with. I'm not even telling you bros to switch up because I'm sure you are all doing fine with the women and are cool with the friends you got. I just want to point out the observations I notice because this post isn't strictly a female post. This is a social skills post.
If a dude has an unlimited amount of friends then he's most likely the ultimate ladies man. And when I mean an unlimited amount of friends, I'm talking friends that don't fit your box/characteristics. If you're the dude who's friends with people from the hood, frat boys from college, the socially awkward guy in class, the 55 year old white man from your job, your former teachers, and the person everyone in your town hates and finds annoying, then there is no way you have a female problem.
People, in general, are super selfish. This thread is the perfect example. YOU post here to find out how YOU can get laid. YOU are looking through the pages to find tips on how to get girls to like YOU. YOU post self-brag posts on how YOU don't put up with females nonsense, letting us know YOU cut off people easily. The truth is it's never what the other person in the situation wants because you never even thought of their wants and needs, everything boils down to you. And that shyt blends into friends as well. YOU don't hit up your friends anymore because they don't ever hit up YOU. YOU don't put any effort to making new friends because YOU only fukk with people with the same interests. And if someone really wants to be friends with YOU they will try.
I want to point out that people with the opposite mindset happen to be some of the most successful people ever. Let me use examples. I'm a randomly pick Nipsey Hussle, Joe Rogan, and Roman Reigns.
Nipsey Hussle- Yes he was tragically murdered by an old friend of his, but the fact his funeral was held at the staples center should speak volumes. The only other person to do something like that was Micheal Jackson, and Nip was never on Micheal's level ever when it comes to importance in music history. However, Nip was loved by everyone. He could be chillen with rappers one minute, hooping with Lebron the next min, and hanging out with random white people like gary vaynerchuk next.
Joe Rogan- He started his podcast just to fukk around with his friends. Then it became something huge because he's genuinely interested in people. Dude has Bernie Sanders one episode, Dr. Cornel West the next episode, next he's smoking with Wiz Khalifa, Joey Diaz after, and then randomly some journalist/writer you never heard of. No matter how famous, uninteresting, or unknown a person is.. Joe posts a photo of them is labels them great. That's why everyone goes to his podcasts and why it's so big.
Roman Reigns- The WWE's face of the company. Yes a lot of fans boo him, but behind the scenes he's the locker room leader whos universally loved by everyone. When he announced he had cancer so many other wrestlers posted stories of a time he showed random act of kindness when he didn't need to based on his status already in the company. IF your friends with the wrestlers, the writers, and the boss himself. You're set for life. Better examples of that is The Rock and John Cena. Two guys who broke out of wrestling and are now successful people that trensended. Both are universally loved by everyone because of how they are outside of wrestling. The rock is best friends with damn near everyone. John Cena out here granting make a wish meeting for children and has done it like 1000 times.
You never had a friend who wasn't built like an athlete or was super famous and rich but he had one of the baddest bytches you have ever seen? You don't even question how he got her because you're like: "
dude is one of the coolest people I have ever met I'm glad he has himself a 10/10."--------------------------------------------------------------------------
TL&DR version is this: Work on your social skills in general. You're not that good at communicating with people as you think.