Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

just had to white out where i work but yeah its crazy

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See how home girl asked "isn't it sad [that yall prolly wouldnt have met in real life]". Girls like ...and on average are just waiting to meet a handsome gentleman in real life. Guarantee you if i worked at yall hospital or was a patient there, and went up to her and hollaed on some polite, confident and professional shyt that I'd trump you (no disrespect) and probably leap anyone shes met online within the last couple weeks.

But mans like @Killigraphy and @The Odum of Ala Igbo are saying not to approach or introduce yourself to women in real life. If youre a celebrity cool, if not good luck. That's clown / sucka shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

pics?

I'll pm you

 

[HARLEM AL]

The world sure does have a sick way of playing games with you

About a month or 2 ago I deleted my main girl's number from my phone so I could just move on,
I go out last night, have a great time. Added another potential to the roster into my phonebook.
On my way back home I see a car slow down. What do you know it's her and a couple of her friends Stopped to chat for a minute and kept it moving.

When I stopped messing with her, I started to really realize there isn't shyt out here. So many girls I have dealt with since but nothing as meaningful as with her.
She was a good girl but I just wasn't ready to commit at the time so she moved on.

I really miss that bytch but I can't fold

don't fold. There is better out there. You’ll get over it.

 

[MikelArteta]

See how home girl asked "isn't it sad [that yall prolly wouldnt have met in real life]". Girls like ...and on average are just waiting to meet a handsome gentleman in real life. Guarantee you if i worked at yall hospital or was a patient there, and went up to her and hollaed on some polite, confident and professional shyt that I'd trump you (no disrespect) and probably leap anyone shes met online within the last couple weeks.

But mans like @Killigraphy and @The Odum of Ala Igbo are saying not to approach or introduce yourself to women in real life. If youre a celebrity cool, if not good luck. That's clown / sucka shyt.

I'd never approach a chick at work Though

 

[Ohene]

I'd never approach a chick at work Though

same. but id make an exception in a special case...like with my current gf for example. if i worked with her i'd have to play the long game and eventually ask her out after getting to know her slowly. she's that beautiful.

alternatively i'd keep a girl at bay then ask her out if/when i leave that job for a new one. I've done that before with this Jamaican girl who used to work on the same floor as me. unfortunately she was taken but i left the firm and dont have to see her so it isnt like its awkward. no harm no foul

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

See how home girl asked "isn't it sad [that yall prolly wouldnt have met in real life]". Girls like ...and on average are just waiting to meet a handsome gentleman in real life. Guarantee you if i worked at yall hospital or was a patient there, and went up to her and hollaed on some polite, confident and professional shyt that I'd trump you (no disrespect) and probably leap anyone shes met online within the last couple weeks.

But mans like @Killigraphy and @The Odum of Ala Igbo are saying not to approach or introduce yourself to women in real life. If youre a celebrity cool, if not good luck. That's clown / sucka shyt.

In this me too era - not worth it

I meet new women through friends all the time or through school. I’ve no need to approach strange women on the street

 

[phcitywarrior]

same. but id make an exception in a special case...like with my current gf for example. if i worked with her i'd have to play the long game and eventually ask her out after getting to know her slowly. she's that beautiful.

alternatively i'd keep a girl at bay then ask her out if/when i leave that job for a new one. I've done that before with this Jamaican girl who used to work on the same floor as me. unfortunately she was taken but i left the firm and dont have to see her so it isnt like its awkward. no harm no foul

Only time where I'd get with someone at work.

 

[Ohene]

In this me too era - not worth it

I meet new women through friends all the time or through school. I’ve no need to approach strange women on the street

thats cool then. if you have a big friend net work or are in school its a diff story. my friends arent out there like that though and dont have many girls they can introduce me to

take advantage of school youngin. Im speaking more to the post undergrad/grad school age group and to people who have close knit circles


as far as work is concerned. i only see a problem approaching at work if it is the same floor or department. otherwise to me it isnt a problem. It isnt something I do, but for the right woman I would shoot my shot as long as the above werent an issue

 

[Brandsdale]

There is a lot of ego and low-self-esteem in the male gender.
Lots of men use hooking up with women as validation hoping it brings value to their existence.
Some men ego brings entitlement and in some ways, fear is welcomed.

This is why self-improvement is heavily promoted.
Who are you?
What's your personality type?
Where are you in life?
What's your social status?
Who are the people you surround yourself with?
What type of women do you like?

You have to invest in you because it will reflect on the women who enter your life.

Let me give concrete examples:

1. A friend of mine is in the military, divorced, has a kid.- his rotation consists of divorced or single parent moms.

2. I have been in community college/ university for years now-- my last two GF's are from school.


You hang out with people who have the same hobbies, circumstances, personalities, and interests as you.

This is why I feel like men lack validation and have too much ego. Dudes try to holler at anything or anyone and no high ground of self-awareness.

You could be a 21-year-old attending college with the hobbies of staying in on weekends watching movies, listening to music, talking, and drinking wine and that could match with that random lady in your class who's 30.

You could be that 29-year-old guy about to go into his thirties where all of his friends are all married and have children now. To fit in you settle down and try to start something serious. But deep down you know you enjoy the party/drinking life on weekends and it bleeds into your relationship so you resent the woman you tried to start a life with.

Maybe that chick who rejected you wasn't so bad? Maybe if you were self-aware you would realize that rejection was a blessing in disguise because that female was known for drama, something you never participate in.

If she likes traveling, hiking, and all that outdoors shyt, then why would she be down to be with you if all you like to do is stay at home and watch horror flicks?

Get someone to match your wave length

get to know yourself brehs.

Takes a bit of vulnerability too. Some nikkas are legit scared to open up to male friends or take on healthy advice because it might disrupt their own ego

 

[Brandsdale]

 

[Jhoon]

Out making money. Getting dikked down by the creme. This is a good time to be a woman.

Bad time for an underemployed, single male.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Out making money. Getting dikked down by the creme. This is a good time to be a woman.

Bad time for an underemployed, single male.

They definitely have more options readily available to them once they leave college/uni. If you're an attractive woman, a lot of doors are open to you.

However, a lot more benefits are available for men --- we just have to take it. It's when people step out of the West they realize that by and large, for lack of better words, it's a man's world.

 

[MikelArteta]

another interesting day on tinder, matched with this black chick from london today who works at KPMG. Two hours later I met her and were at a park near her place

Just was thinking how in my twenties i remember it was a damn struggle sometimes to even get a damn date now its like picking apples from a tree

 

[Killigraphy]

In this me too era - not worth it

I meet new women through friends all the time or through school. I’ve no need to approach strange women on the street

This.

Again, a lot of guys on here who think they have game, will crumble under any real situation of picking up by trying too hard. Dudes are over here giving out their full resume's and carfax, just to get laid from the average bird from the local watering hole.

 

[Killigraphy]

how old are you?

i swear ...nikkas forgot what it means to be a man..and to go for what you want in life. these feminists got yall fukked up

Aaaaaaand way to go missing the entire point of my post.


Let me help you out, since you fail at reading comprehension.

-Be excellent; Excel at something you're good at. Let the world know who you are, become undeniable.

-Be desireless; Women can smell agenda, like flies to shyt. A date/pick up should never be about the p*ssy being the end game. She's working up for you, not the other way around. Your worth is more important. As is your time.

-Be gone; don't stay there giving out your resume or trying to justify who you are or what makes you a "man" to a stranger. She should be trying to join your club, not you hers. Don't sit there thirsting over one girl.


Easy enough to understand kiddo?