"I'm not gonna have sex with you" = I'm going to have sex with you if you don't fukk this up
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
"This is a bad idea" / "I'm not sure about this" = I've been thinking about doing this all week
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Breh it stings at first but I at least appreciate those kind of women. Less timewasting and grey area stringing you along.
Straight up I've said the same to chicks who I felt were going to do it to me. Sometimes it flips them and they work hard to try to prove their worth to you.
But in most cases wish them well and Kim. Some come round and you can smash. Others you'll never see again.
Be confident
Keep good eye contact
Try to smile
Dont say nothing stupid
It's just bout timing more than anything imo
If ur gonna compliment keep it original too
Say something she not use to hearing but mean it cuz it's truly what u feel
I've done a cold approach just for a simple reason
I said excuse me my name is so and such but I came over simply to say ur smile is captivating (which I meant) and she blushed hella hard and said thank you and I walked away literally that's all I had to say
She briefly stopped me to introduce herself and I said nice too meet u and well I better get going
She was sorely mistaken if I was trying to get at her tho I do that compliment and walk away shyt more than I holler at a female
The only difference when I'm hollering at a female is I ask her out in the process
How i approach a female is random and varies cuz each women is different i say what i feel and mean what i say but what's consistent is my confidence and eye contact and not saying stupid shyt
What might work with girl A wont work with girl B on the convo keep that in mind
U dont have to compliment either I only do that shyt if I want to which is random and subjective depending on the female I hollered at
Killigraphy
Banned
You must be new here...well to this thread....search my name around it, and you'll find plenty of gems.
Or if you're in NY, we can cold approach plenty of women. I've already put plenty of coli members in their place about picking up, and getting women. I've shared plenty of photos of 8' and 9's (I don't believe in 10's), I've crushed down here, and well, the rest should be self evident....
Though if you think telling someone to be the best version of themselves, and to be excellent at something in their own life is bad advice....then you need to take a break, come back, and realize how much of an idiot you look like, when you're favoring p*ssy over your own growth and well being. Now before reading this and replying like an angry squirrel, actually read what I said, and use it in the context of becoming a better man.
Breh, you basically said do nothing.
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
There is a lot of ego and low-self-esteem in the male gender.
Lots of men use hooking up with women as validation hoping it brings value to their existence.
Some men ego brings entitlement and in some ways, fear is welcomed.
This is why self-improvement is heavily promoted.
Who are you?
What's your personality type?
Where are you in life?
What's your social status?
Who are the people you surround yourself with?
What type of women do you like?
You have to invest in you because it will reflect on the women who enter your life.
Let me give concrete examples:
1. A friend of mine is in the military, divorced, has a kid.- his rotation consists of divorced or single parent moms.
2. I have been in community college/ university for years now-- my last two GF's are from school.
You hang out with people who have the same hobbies, circumstances, personalities, and interests as you.
This is why I feel like men lack validation and have too much ego. Dudes try to holler at anything or anyone and no high ground of self-awareness.
You could be a 21-year-old attending college with the hobbies of staying in on weekends watching movies, listening to music, talking, and drinking wine and that could match with that random lady in your class who's 30.
You could be that 29-year-old guy about to go into his thirties where all of his friends are all married and have children now. To fit in you settle down and try to start something serious. But deep down you know you enjoy the party/drinking life on weekends and it bleeds into your relationship so you resent the woman you tried to start a life with.
Maybe that chick who rejected you wasn't so bad? Maybe if you were self-aware you would realize that rejection was a blessing in disguise because that female was known for drama, something you never participate in.
If she likes traveling, hiking, and all that outdoors shyt, then why would she be down to be with you if all you like to do is stay at home and watch horror flicks?
Get someone to match your wave length
get to know yourself brehs.
Lots of men use hooking up with women as validation hoping it brings value to their existence.
Some men ego brings entitlement and in some ways, fear is welcomed.
This is why self-improvement is heavily promoted.
Who are you?
What's your personality type?
Where are you in life?
What's your social status?
Who are the people you surround yourself with?
What type of women do you like?
You have to invest in you because it will reflect on the women who enter your life.
Let me give concrete examples:
1. A friend of mine is in the military, divorced, has a kid.- his rotation consists of divorced or single parent moms.
2. I have been in community college/ university for years now-- my last two GF's are from school.
You hang out with people who have the same hobbies, circumstances, personalities, and interests as you.
This is why I feel like men lack validation and have too much ego. Dudes try to holler at anything or anyone and no high ground of self-awareness.
You could be a 21-year-old attending college with the hobbies of staying in on weekends watching movies, listening to music, talking, and drinking wine and that could match with that random lady in your class who's 30.
You could be that 29-year-old guy about to go into his thirties where all of his friends are all married and have children now. To fit in you settle down and try to start something serious. But deep down you know you enjoy the party/drinking life on weekends and it bleeds into your relationship so you resent the woman you tried to start a life with.
Maybe that chick who rejected you wasn't so bad? Maybe if you were self-aware you would realize that rejection was a blessing in disguise because that female was known for drama, something you never participate in.
If she likes traveling, hiking, and all that outdoors shyt, then why would she be down to be with you if all you like to do is stay at home and watch horror flicks?
Get someone to match your wave length
get to know yourself brehs.
Mr.bocario
Superstar
Breh I think what they’re getting at, is doing all that shyt in a less than 5 min convo for a chick you don’t know from Eve, is a great way to psyche yourself out
Dudes should be calm, confident and know with each girl they approach their game gets better and better
DaRealness
I think very deeply
I'm confused brehs. Last Monday I was talking to this girl that I'm pretty cool with(who has a bf). Anyway we're deep in conversation and somehow end up talking about abs. I asked her if she has abs and she raises her shirt up to show me. I touch them and tease her a bit.
Anyway she leaves and hits me on my arm. Now Wednesday comes and she's acting a lil bit weird. Still friendly but clearly closed off in her body language. Now I'm like "damn did I creep her out?"
So I decide to apologize to her by sending a text. She then responds with:
"When did you offend me?"
why can't she be straightforward and accept my apology?
She's just playing mind games breh.
Shameonyou
All Star
These hoes ain't shyt foreal
knickscity
Superstar
She is likely seeing someone else, and they weren't available that day. Not even worth being bothered about.
The Odum of Ala Igbo
Hail Biafra!
The world sure does have a sick way of playing games with you
About a month or 2 ago I deleted my main girl's number from my phone so I could just move on,
I go out last night, have a great time. Added another potential to the roster into my phonebook.
On my way back home I see a car slow down. What do you know it's her and a couple of her friends
Stopped to chat for a minute and kept it moving.
When I stopped messing with her, I started to really realize there isn't shyt out here. So many girls I have dealt with since but nothing as meaningful as with her.
She was a good girl but I just wasn't ready to commit at the time so she moved on.
I really miss that bytch but I can't fold
About a month or 2 ago I deleted my main girl's number from my phone so I could just move on,
I go out last night, have a great time. Added another potential to the roster into my phonebook.
On my way back home I see a car slow down. What do you know it's her and a couple of her friends
Stopped to chat for a minute and kept it moving.When I stopped messing with her, I started to really realize there isn't shyt out here. So many girls I have dealt with since but nothing as meaningful as with her.
She was a good girl but I just wasn't ready to commit at the time so she moved on.
I really miss that bytch but I can't fold
Text her “Hey” and see if the door is still openThe world sure does have a sick way of playing games with you
About a month or 2 ago I deleted my main girl's number from my phone so I could just move on,
I go out last night, have a great time. Added another potential to the roster into my phonebook.
On my way back home I see a car slow down. What do you know it's her and a couple of her friends
When I stopped messing with her, I started to really realize there isn't shyt out here. So many girls I have dealt with since but nothing as meaningful as with her.
She was a good girl but I just wasn't ready to commit at the time so she moved on.
I really miss that bytch but I can't fold
