Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Killigraphy]

They definitely have more options readily available to them once they leave college/uni. If you're an attractive woman, a lot of doors are open to you.

However, a lot more benefits are available for men --- we just have to take it. It's when people step out of the West they realize that by and large, for lack of better words, it's a man's world.

Thailand...dear Zeus, the women there treat you like a king. From making you food, to clipping your toe nails. Everyone I know who's been, says the same thing. "Dating is easier/normal". No trying to qualify for women, no games, just women knowing their respective roles. Same for Brazil.

 

[Killigraphy]

There is a lot of ego and low-self-esteem in the male gender.
Lots of men use hooking up with women as validation hoping it brings value to their existence.
Some men ego brings entitlement and in some ways, fear is welcomed.

This is why self-improvement is heavily promoted.
Who are you?
What's your personality type?
Where are you in life?
What's your social status?
Who are the people you surround yourself with?
What type of women do you like?

You have to invest in you because it will reflect on the women who enter your life.

Let me give concrete examples:

1. A friend of mine is in the military, divorced, has a kid.- his rotation consists of divorced or single parent moms.

2. I have been in community college/ university for years now-- my last two GF's are from school.


You hang out with people who have the same hobbies, circumstances, personalities, and interests as you.

This is why I feel like men lack validation and have too much ego. Dudes try to holler at anything or anyone and no high ground of self-awareness.

You could be a 21-year-old attending college with the hobbies of staying in on weekends watching movies, listening to music, talking, and drinking wine and that could match with that random lady in your class who's 30.

You could be that 29-year-old guy about to go into his thirties where all of his friends are all married and have children now. To fit in you settle down and try to start something serious. But deep down you know you enjoy the party/drinking life on weekends and it bleeds into your relationship so you resent the woman you tried to start a life with.

Maybe that chick who rejected you wasn't so bad? Maybe if you were self-aware you would realize that rejection was a blessing in disguise because that female was known for drama, something you never participate in.

If she likes traveling, hiking, and all that outdoors shyt, then why would she be down to be with you if all you like to do is stay at home and watch horror flicks?

Get someone to match your wave length

get to know yourself brehs.

Always important +1 .

That's usually the problem with old heads or guys who settled. A lot of them don't go into the detail on how they just gave up on themselves, and got with the local ageing thot just because they wanted kids. They'll spew out tired rhetoric like "I'm a man because of x" yet have horrible jobs, bad communication skills, and have no real talents. Forget father figures, these types couldn't pick up a good book or take advice from people already in the game. They oversimplify due to ignorance, and over complicate something like self growth.

 

[DaRealness]

57:24 - 59:30

EXCELLENT POINTS this brotha makes. You have to hold on to your masculinity and stop all this "bestie" nonsense with females.

 

[Balla]

Always important +1 .

That's usually the problem with old heads or guys who settled. A lot of them don't go into the detail on how they just gave up on themselves, and got with the local ageing thot just because they wanted kids. They'll spew out tired rhetoric like "I'm a man because of x" yet have horrible jobs, bad communication skills, and have no real talents. Forget father figures, these types couldn't pick up a good book or take advice from people already in the game. They oversimplify due to ignorance, and over complicate something like self growth.

How you feel about the dudes who said life is over after 30?

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

57:24 - 59:30

EXCELLENT POINTS this brotha makes. You have to hold on to your masculinity and stop all this "bestie" nonsense with females.

I have really good friends who are women, and I just said goodbye to a woman who stayed the night


What’s so bad about that?

 

[DaRealness]

I have really good friends who are women, and I just said goodbye to a woman who stayed the night


What’s so bad about that?

Everybody's gotta go through different learning experiences in life.

Each to their own.

 

[Silkk]

How you feel about the dudes who said life is over after 30?

Sound like they fukked up somewhere in life to me.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Killigraphy]

How you feel about the dudes who said life is over after 30?

For me that's what I call the "DLC years"....not only should you be more experienced and learned, now girls want you for the "dad vibes" you give them. So a horde of sluts with daddy issues are now approaching you at this age. Its truly beautiful. Young women will look to you for guidance, and older women will have no other choice but to listen. This is of course, if you learned from your pick up/dating experiences, and understand your worth not only as man, but as a human being. If you're behaving like a cuck at 30....there's no hope for you.

 

[MikelArteta]

Don't want to jinx it but I've been on a roll
Met up a chick yesterday after talking to her for a hour

Met up with the chick I work with today for lunch in the Caf

Meeting another chick tonight for some jazz ish

 

[MikelArteta]

How you feel about the dudes who said life is over after 30?

I'm 34 dating has never been easy

This year alone I've prob been out with more than 30 different women from the ages of 24-35


If this is life being over then

 

[HearNoEvil]

If you're willing to get through 10 no's to get to 1 yes, then you deserve her.

If not, then stay home.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Out making money. Getting dikked down by the creme. This is a good time to be a woman.

Bad time for an underemployed, single male.

Trust me that shyt will get out quick.

I don’t why women try to fight biology.

 

[Balla]

This chick wrote in her bio “don’t be under 5’10 cuz I beat lil nikkas asses”

Lmfao

This why short nikkas be angry, I wonder what would happen if a black bagel man saw that.

 

[VertigoKnight]

5 weeks ago I met this very cute black chick at this anti-racism seminar I had to attend for this volunteer project I do. She was leading the session.

I was being professional so pushed any illicit thoughts to the back of my head and at the break, we got on and chatted as the only two black people there. She told me she was born in Toronto but moved to Nova Scotia when she was five.

Anyway, last week I see she swiped me on Tinder. Chick is sexy as hell, big old titties real curly hair, in shape. And more importantly engaging mind wise.

The only thing that held me back is I know some of her friend group here and they are ultra shea butter. The kind to put their sexuality before their ethnicity. Yet hang around with no straight black men at all. When I met her at the seminar she told us her sexuality is 'fluid'. she must want some dikk atm

I wanna hit, but she would also be an incredible resource as a friend so I'm in two minds. I get the feeling she'd be upfront with fukking even though she's got the classic no hookups in her profile



I actually saw her on Bumble as well. She's definitely looking to get into a few things.