Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DapMeUp!]

How do you deal with women who expect you to read their minds. Aka "be thoughtful". Do yall stay away? Explain some men dont think like that? What do yall do?

Women are like children breh

 

[MikelArteta]

So one of my boys is staying with me for a couple weeks after basically throwing his life away for a woman(moving towns without a job)

essentially the same shyt that sent my life in a downward spiral a couple years back, but at least I've put my life back together so I can help him.

It's why I always tell young brehs to get that first heartbreak over as young as you can. The older you are when you have your first love the harder you fall

I agree when you are armed with experience you just be juking and stiff arming these would be tacklers

 

[Fresh Prince of Evil]

I mean breh that was your moment to say some slick shyt to go inside

That or just get out the car and walk up to the crib like you were already invited..if she didn't want you in she'd

Breh. It was an easy set up.
She text me in the early morning that she was bored. Told her we can be bored together and she said Nah. I thought whatever and went to the gym and had nice workout. Took a pic and posted on Instagram and went to Chick-fil-A to get some grub. She follows me on Instagram so she probably saw it because I get a text from her 20 minutes later and she asking me questions about the gym and all that. We kept texting back and fourth but she sounded depressed and I joke that she needs a hug, some food, or a massage

She hit me with passive aggressive "Not like you would bring me that stuff anyways. "
I told her it was no big deal and she was like another time. But I remembered this chick was Vegen and I just so happened to buy a salad and some fruits with my chicken sandwich. I snapped a pic of them and she sent me her address.

This was probably the best moment to smash.
I drive about 17 mins there. Tell her I'm outside and she comes out in booty shorts, a tube top, and no bra
We talk a little and flirt. I ask what she was doing and she said she was just watching something on Netflix. I said we could just chill together
But she said nah she ain't up to it
She said thanks for the food and hugged me and went back inside to watch Bates Motel

She friend zone me and took half my grub. And it was such an easy set up. It was like God himself was a quarterbacking her into my lap.
I'm just gonna take my L and not bother with her anymore.
At least she got a cute Asian friend I could smash.

 

[Balla]

Wait, don’t tell me really on these apps with boyfriends.

I can see their ig In they profile and they got pics of them and they nikkas from like a few weeks ago.

Even if they broke up, why she ain’t take the pics down.

 

[Silkk]

School library or a party.

Basically anything on a college campus.

Gimme some tips breh

Some places easier than others, class is probably easiest imo cause you get in by making friends with them over some BS

Library would be hard AF, unless yall outside or something.

 

[Lhark]

They got all the excuses in the book, once I had a girl tell me her daughter played with her phone and deleted all her contacts. Left me waiting in the Red Lobster parking lot.

 

[Silkk]

They got all the excuses in the book, once I had a girl tell me her daughter played with her phone and deleted all her contacts. Left me waiting in the Red Lobster parking lot.

Man, these chicks don’t give a single fucck.


Thats why whenever I even begin to feel bad for a chick I always watch this shyt



And I immediately feel instead

 

[African_brehda]

Breh. It was an easy set up.
She text me in the early morning that she was bored. Told her we can be bored together and she said Nah. I thought whatever and went to the gym and had nice workout. Took a pic and posted on Instagram and went to Chick-fil-A to get some grub. She follows me on Instagram so she probably saw it because I get a text from her 20 minutes later and she asking me questions about the gym and all that. We kept texting back and fourth but she sounded depressed and I joke that she needs a hug, some food, or a massage

She hit me with passive aggressive "Not like you would bring me that stuff anyways. "
I told her it was no big deal and she was like another time. But I remembered this chick was Vegen and I just so happened to buy a salad and some fruits with my chicken sandwich. I snapped a pic of them and she sent me her address.

This was probably the best moment to smash.
I drive about 17 mins there. Tell her I'm outside and she comes out in booty shorts, a tube top, and no bra
We talk a little and flirt. I ask what she was doing and she said she was just watching something on Netflix. I said we could just chill together
But she said nah she ain't up to it
She said thanks for the food and hugged me and went back inside to watch Bates Motel

She friend zone me and took half my grub. And it was such an easy set up. It was like God himself was a quarterbacking her into my lap.
I'm just gonna take my L and not bother with her anymore.
At least she got a cute Asian friend I could smash.

I don't see the easy setup breh

Imo, she was leading you on because she was bored, and turned down your advances...it's not like you had it on a platter and you fukked up

 

[Chris Cool]

Been texting a girl I met through my brothers girl last month, we haven't actually met though. If i text her she'll hold a conversation, I'll have her laughing and sending pictures and shyt, but she's never initiated the shyt. We were supposed to hang out, she flaked morning of with no explanation. Told her the week before last we would hang out last week. We were having a convo last week, i text her are we hanging out? She responds back 2 hours later (2am) "my bad all late", i send her a meme referencing how she left me hanging, no response. I text her few days later saying I'll take that as a no, no response, haven't texted her since.

We're both introverted so i was kinda looking forward to meeting her, but do i need to just move on? I know i can get her if we hung out though.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Ethiopian?

Technically, yes. But from the Ogaden so she’s a Somali nationalist

 

[DapMeUp!]

Been texting a girl I met through my brothers girl last month, we haven't actually met though. If i text her she'll hold a conversation, I'll have her laughing and sending pictures and shyt, but she's never initiated the shyt. We were supposed to hang out, she flaked morning of with no explanation. Told her the week before last we would hang out last week. We were having a convo last week, i text her are we hanging out? She responds back 2 hours later (2am) "my bad all late", i send her a meme referencing how she left me hanging, no response. I text her few days later saying I'll take that as a no, no response, haven't texted her since.

We're both introverted so i was kinda looking forward to meeting her, but do i need to just move on? I know i can get her if we hung out though.

There you go breh...you answered your own question within the question

Most of the time we already know the answer and just want confirmation.
Brehs...I beg of you, please stop making excuses when the lack of interest is right in your face.
Girls who have high interest do not display this type of behaviour.

 

[Chris Cool]

There you go breh...you answered your own question within the question

Most of the time we already know the answer and just want confirmation.
Brehs...I beg of you, please stop making excuses when the lack of interest is right in your face.
Girls who have high interest do not display this type of behaviour.

I believe in myself, breh.

 

[pickles]

Breh. It was an easy set up.
She text me in the early morning that she was bored. Told her we can be bored together and she said Nah. I thought whatever and went to the gym and had nice workout. Took a pic and posted on Instagram and went to Chick-fil-A to get some grub. She follows me on Instagram so she probably saw it because I get a text from her 20 minutes later and she asking me questions about the gym and all that. We kept texting back and fourth but she sounded depressed and I joke that she needs a hug, some food, or a massage

She hit me with passive aggressive "Not like you would bring me that stuff anyways. "
I told her it was no big deal and she was like another time. But I remembered this chick was Vegen and I just so happened to buy a salad and some fruits with my chicken sandwich. I snapped a pic of them and she sent me her address.

This was probably the best moment to smash.
I drive about 17 mins there. Tell her I'm outside and she comes out in booty shorts, a tube top, and no bra
We talk a little and flirt. I ask what she was doing and she said she was just watching something on Netflix. I said we could just chill together
But she said nah she ain't up to it
She said thanks for the food and hugged me and went back inside to watch Bates Motel

She friend zone me and took half my grub. And it was such an easy set up. It was like God himself was a quarterbacking her into my lap.
I'm just gonna take my L and not bother with her anymore.
At least she got a cute Asian friend I could smash.

How was it an easy set up when she was giving you all the clues from the jump?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I realized that when it comes to dating, I don't want too big of a challenge otherwise I'm turned off. I'm not big on those relationships where I gotta jump through hoops just to bag. You know those relationships where the girl is like, "I wasn't feeling him at first but he grew on me", yeah fukk all that. It feels like consolation prize where she cashed in on the best she can get. I like women who see me and immediately get the urge to fukk. That's sexy to me. At the end of the day, if a girl had an opportunity for Idris Elba or Ghost for Power or whoever their dream guy is, they aren't presenting a challenge and making him chase. The difference between a bytch that's on your dikk for real and the bytch who settled for your dikk is like night and day and I'm kinda at the point where it's like if a girl isn't really into me I'd rather date someone who is. I don't care how bad she is.

 

[sfgiants]

i lose interest way too fast.
maybe i need to settle down