Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Update.

Asked her to karaoke, she's replies 2 days later that she's travelling. When I asked what day she was free before travelling, she mentions that she has a boyfriend in Japan, and if we were to hang out her friend will come along and she can't do this week cause she got exams next week. But I thought she said was travelling? She ain't it brehs. I don't know if I should reply her or just ignore her as she's clearly not feeling me?

Gotta leave her alone. If a girl has your number, she'll hit you up. If not, don't press it. She's not attracted.

Don't chase these women guys. Just small talk, charm her up every time, keep it short, and move on. The shorter you keep it the more room she has to imagine all the things you can potentially do to her, if she's interested.

Love is a battlefield, and in battle you're either a winner or a loser.

 

[Silkk]

Update.

Asked her to karaoke, she's replies 2 days later that she's travelling. When I asked what day she was free before travelling, she mentions that she has a boyfriend in Japan, and if we were to hang out her friend will come along and she can't do this week cause she got exams next week. But I thought she said was travelling? She ain't it brehs. I don't know if I should reply her or just ignore her as she's clearly not feeling me?

Keep It Moving

 

[98Ntu]

Thats how it happen to you

Details breh

TL;DR- I let a chick use me. She said some fukked up shyt and went back to her creep of an ex. I wasted months of my life. I thought I was done simping but I learned the hard way, I got growing to do. I’m officially done looking for love. I’m letting it come to. I’m done putting girls on pedestals. Learned my lesson and working on maturing now.


Full story: Like six months ago, a Puerto Rican chick and I matched on Tinder. I realized we go to school together. So that was convenient and kinda cool. We started talking and got on real quick. I don’t usually catch feelings so fast but breh I was feeling her deep.

We started talking every night and hanging out often. I thought shyt was good. I was ready to turn my shyt upside down for her. I was gonna get an apartment for us two

And then she just kinda ghosted me after cutting communication over time. Now, I’m pretty confused cuz this girl and I seemed close. I saw her around campus from time to time but never confronted her until like three weeks ago, I grew a pair and asked what the fukk happened.

She started juelzing but eventually came clean and told me she cared about me, but her borderline abusive ex mattered more and he was back in her life. I told her she’d Amount to nothing just like her mother (this was foul af) and then she went off. She took sensitive information about my mental health, my past and insecurities and said some heinous shyt. Basically told me that she pitied me and that’s why she as fukking with me. She called me a sad, weak person who’ll probably end up alone and hanging myself in my Moms basement someday

Now, mind you this girl is sweet as pie (on the surface). She comforted me so much. I didn’t see this coming

Or more honestly, I chose not to see the millions of red flags

Breh, I let a girl use me as an emotional rest stop

I legit cried. Not because of her but because I let myself get played. I was going to introduce to my fam

I’m not proud of this story but I’m only telling it for other brehs to remind them that getting infatuated and ignoring the signs of dysfunction will get you fukked up.

Im also broke rn. So instead of crying over a relationship that never even existed in her mind, I got to move on and move wiser.

I thought I was over being foolish with women. But I’m young, I guess smh

The wage of simping is emotional death

 

[Majestic]

I feel like a ho

Need to avoid hook ups and date women

Need some dignity back

What's poppin in Canada breh?

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

What's poppin in Canada breh?

I'm in Europe until April

 

[Silkk]

TL;DR- I let a chick use me. She said some fukked up shyt and went back to her creep of an ex. I wasted months of my life. I thought I was done simping but I learned the hard way, I got growing to do. I’m officially done looking for love. I’m letting it come to. I’m done putting girls on pedestals. Learned my lesson and working on maturing now.


Full story: Like six months ago, a Puerto Rican chick and I matched on Tinder. I realized we go to school together. So that was convenient and kinda cool. We started talking and got on real quick. I don’t usually catch feelings so fast but breh I was feeling her deep.

We started talking every night and hanging out often. I thought shyt was good. I was ready to turn my shyt upside down for her. I was gonna get an apartment for us two

And then she just kinda ghosted me after cutting communication over time. Now, I’m pretty confused cuz this girl and I seemed close. I saw her around campus from time to time but never confronted her until like three weeks ago, I grew a pair and asked what the fukk happened.

She started juelzing but eventually came clean and told me she cared about me, but her borderline abusive ex mattered more and he was back in her life. I told her she’d Amount to nothing just like her mother (this was foul af) and then she went off. She took sensitive information about my mental health, my past and insecurities and said some heinous shyt. Basically told me that she pitied me and that’s why she as fukking with me. She called me a sad, weak person who’ll probably end up alone and hanging myself in my Moms basement someday

Now, mind you this girl is sweet as pie (on the surface). She comforted me so much. I didn’t see this coming

Or more honestly, I chose not to see the millions of red flags

Breh, I let a girl use me as an emotional rest stop

I legit cried. Not because of her but because I let myself get played. I was going to introduce to my fam

I’m not proud of this story but I’m only telling it for other brehs to remind them that getting infatuated and ignoring the signs of dysfunction will get you fukked up.

Im also broke rn. So instead of crying over a relationship that never even existed in her mind, I got to move on and move wiser.

I thought I was over being foolish with women. But I’m young, I guess smh

The wage of simping is emotional death

How you gonna buss at her and then get upset when she buss back tho breh?

Should've just kept it moving

Im hoping you at least got a few months of sex out of it

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

TL;DR- I let a chick use me. She said some fukked up shyt and went back to her creep of an ex. I wasted months of my life. I thought I was done simping but I learned the hard way, I got growing to do. I’m officially done looking for love. I’m letting it come to. I’m done putting girls on pedestals. Learned my lesson and working on maturing now.


Full story: Like six months ago, a Puerto Rican chick and I matched on Tinder. I realized we go to school together. So that was convenient and kinda cool. We started talking and got on real quick. I don’t usually catch feelings so fast but breh I was feeling her deep.

We started talking every night and hanging out often. I thought shyt was good. I was ready to turn my shyt upside down for her. I was gonna get an apartment for us two

And then she just kinda ghosted me after cutting communication over time. Now, I’m pretty confused cuz this girl and I seemed close. I saw her around campus from time to time but never confronted her until like three weeks ago, I grew a pair and asked what the fukk happened.

She started juelzing but eventually came clean and told me she cared about me, but her borderline abusive ex mattered more and he was back in her life. I told her she’d Amount to nothing just like her mother (this was foul af) and then she went off. She took sensitive information about my mental health, my past and insecurities and said some heinous shyt. Basically told me that she pitied me and that’s why she as fukking with me. She called me a sad, weak person who’ll probably end up alone and hanging myself in my Moms basement someday

Now, mind you this girl is sweet as pie (on the surface). She comforted me so much. I didn’t see this coming

Or more honestly, I chose not to see the millions of red flags

Breh, I let a girl use me as an emotional rest stop

I legit cried. Not because of her but because I let myself get played. I was going to introduce to my fam

I’m not proud of this story but I’m only telling it for other brehs to remind them that getting infatuated and ignoring the signs of dysfunction will get you fukked up.

Im also broke rn. So instead of crying over a relationship that never even existed in her mind, I got to move on and move wiser.

I thought I was over being foolish with women. But I’m young, I guess smh

The wage of simping is emotional death

fukk DAT HO

 

[Majestic]

I'm in Europe until April

word? where exactly?

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

word? where exactly?

I'll remain discreet for now. Too many pawgs

I miss my Toronto Caribbean gyaldem

 

[Majestic]

I'll remain discreet for now. Too many pawgs

I miss my Toronto Caribbean gyaldem

My guess is Germany or England

 

[mortuus est]

It gotta be a scientific reason why u attract a CERTAIN type of woman.

Myself, I notice I attract mostly VERY intelligent women and women with BIG breasts.

for real, must be something, or the stars as the say

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

TL;DR- I let a chick use me. She said some fukked up shyt and went back to her creep of an ex. I wasted months of my life. I thought I was done simping but I learned the hard way, I got growing to do. I’m officially done looking for love. I’m letting it come to. I’m done putting girls on pedestals. Learned my lesson and working on maturing now.


Full story: Like six months ago, a Puerto Rican chick and I matched on Tinder. I realized we go to school together. So that was convenient and kinda cool. We started talking and got on real quick. I don’t usually catch feelings so fast but breh I was feeling her deep.

We started talking every night and hanging out often. I thought shyt was good. I was ready to turn my shyt upside down for her. I was gonna get an apartment for us two

And then she just kinda ghosted me after cutting communication over time. Now, I’m pretty confused cuz this girl and I seemed close. I saw her around campus from time to time but never confronted her until like three weeks ago, I grew a pair and asked what the fukk happened.

She started juelzing but eventually came clean and told me she cared about me, but her borderline abusive ex mattered more and he was back in her life. I told her she’d Amount to nothing just like her mother (this was foul af) and then she went off. She took sensitive information about my mental health, my past and insecurities and said some heinous shyt. Basically told me that she pitied me and that’s why she as fukking with me. She called me a sad, weak person who’ll probably end up alone and hanging myself in my Moms basement someday

Now, mind you this girl is sweet as pie (on the surface). She comforted me so much. I didn’t see this coming

Or more honestly, I chose not to see the millions of red flags

Breh, I let a girl use me as an emotional rest stop

I legit cried. Not because of her but because I let myself get played. I was going to introduce to my fam

I’m not proud of this story but I’m only telling it for other brehs to remind them that getting infatuated and ignoring the signs of dysfunction will get you fukked up.

Im also broke rn. So instead of crying over a relationship that never even existed in her mind, I got to move on and move wiser.

I thought I was over being foolish with women. But I’m young, I guess smh

The wage of simping is emotional death

Trust me breh, a poor quality women is only going to ruin her and someone else's life. Don't let it ruin yours. Just stack your bread up and focus on progression. Stop spending money on girls and telling them your problems

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I keep looking at her fb

 

[360dagod]

TL;DR- I let a chick use me. She said some fukked up shyt and went back to her creep of an ex. I wasted months of my life. I thought I was done simping but I learned the hard way, I got growing to do. I’m officially done looking for love. I’m letting it come to. I’m done putting girls on pedestals. Learned my lesson and working on maturing now.


Full story: Like six months ago, a Puerto Rican chick and I matched on Tinder. I realized we go to school together. So that was convenient and kinda cool. We started talking and got on real quick. I don’t usually catch feelings so fast but breh I was feeling her deep.

We started talking every night and hanging out often. I thought shyt was good. I was ready to turn my shyt upside down for her. I was gonna get an apartment for us two

And then she just kinda ghosted me after cutting communication over time. Now, I’m pretty confused cuz this girl and I seemed close. I saw her around campus from time to time but never confronted her until like three weeks ago, I grew a pair and asked what the fukk happened.

She started juelzing but eventually came clean and told me she cared about me, but her borderline abusive ex mattered more and he was back in her life. I told her she’d Amount to nothing just like her mother (this was foul af) and then she went off. She took sensitive information about my mental health, my past and insecurities and said some heinous shyt. Basically told me that she pitied me and that’s why she as fukking with me. She called me a sad, weak person who’ll probably end up alone and hanging myself in my Moms basement someday

Now, mind you this girl is sweet as pie (on the surface). She comforted me so much. I didn’t see this coming

Or more honestly, I chose not to see the millions of red flags

Breh, I let a girl use me as an emotional rest stop

I legit cried. Not because of her but because I let myself get played. I was going to introduce to my fam

I’m not proud of this story but I’m only telling it for other brehs to remind them that getting infatuated and ignoring the signs of dysfunction will get you fukked up.

Im also broke rn. So instead of crying over a relationship that never even existed in her mind, I got to move on and move wiser.

I thought I was over being foolish with women. But I’m young, I guess smh

The wage of simping is emotional death

We all been there

When you have an emotional argument with a woman, you not gonna win..

Your pain got the best of you and she dropped nuke after nuke once you violated.

Stop pillowtalkin brody...

Every weakness you shared, she returned to your face with the quickness..

I hope you at least got some p*ssy out of this

If you say no..I understand...I been there too

 

[Dreamzeedream]

We all been there

When you have an emotional argument with a woman, you not gonna win..

Your pain got the best of you and she dropped nuke after nuke once you violated.

Stop pillowtalkin brody...

Every weakness you shared, she returned to your face with the quickness..

I hope you at least got some p*ssy out of this

If you say no..I understand...I been there too

He violated her first tho. I could see if she came at him wrong first