Be between 6"0-6"6, make $100,000+, be handsome and in shape, and hope that Boris Kodjoe or someone from the top 1% doesn't start sending your girl direct messages on twitter.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Be between 6"0-6"6, make $100,000+, be handsome and in shape, and hope that Boris Kodjoe or someone from the top 1% doesn't start sending your girl direct messages on twitter.
I think men are a lot more realistic in what they want, I mean this thread is a testament to that. Most dudes just want a "7" who cooks, is pleasant to be around, doesn't cheat and won't leave them if they lose their job. And yes, everybody wants the best, but I think the scale that defines that is broken when it comes to what women want. Nah, there's no need to be born 60-70 years ago when there are cultures around the world that still have those old values.
I don't know fam, even those super rich athletes usually settle for a female that is no where near them in terms of social status, money or power. How often do you see a woman marrying down? A dude that is a Doctor will marry a nurse or someone well below them, a female doctor will be married to like a senator
Nah dog, the countries that have similar values to ours have ridiculously high divorce rates. Other countries with strong feminist movements and dudes simping like crazy have high divorce rates as well. In countries where the women do the simple shyt and take a secondary role men are not leaving or getting divorced. It's been said many times we are more loyal than them and love harder than them and I believe it.
I look at it like this, if you need to leave the US to fukk then something is wrong, but if you leave it to find a woman you want to marry then I can't knock that.
Whitney and Amy
Lol joking but seriously your 100 percent correct.
philmonroe
Superstar
I sorta agree but the thing is you got this same shyt being pumped by chicks too and nobody getting nowhere cause everybody acting like bytches scarred to get hurt. I'm not saying not to be careful but I don't feel like everybody is trying to use me cause I have faith in my judgement. If I'm wrong I can accept that but I don't/can't play scarred.
Your right men have a realistic view in you know what it takes to get certain type of woman oftentimes and they know they don't have that while women are stuck on stupid. From that I'll agree with you but alot of dudes really want better (at least looks wise) but "settle" with the 7. Women they are kinda silly in that regard more often then men imo. The athletes that don't have the "bad" wives usually had them chicks before the $$$ and I respect that. Most of the ones that come in single shyt they usually have some "bad" ones. Also I know people hate the "nature" thing but I really don't like the male/female money topic. In my world it wouldn't matter and be more fair but in the real world guys don't care about a chicks money like they do about ours. The 60-70 yrs ago was about the US (guess I didn't type clear enough apologies) cause a vast majority ain't leaving the country to find no wife.I think men are a lot more realistic in what they want, I mean this thread is a testament to that. Most dudes just want a "7" who cooks, is pleasant to be around, doesn't cheat and won't leave them if they lose their job. And yes, everybody wants the best, but I think the scale that defines that is broken when it comes to what women want. Nah, there's no need to be born 60-70 years ago when there are cultures around the world that still have those old values.
I don't know fam, even those super rich athletes usually settle for a female that is no where near them in terms of social status, money or power. How often do you see a woman marrying down? A dude that is a Doctor will marry a nurse or someone well below them, a female doctor will be married to like a senator
Nah dog, the countries that have similar values to ours have ridiculously high divorce rates. Other countries with strong feminist movements and dudes simping like crazy have high divorce rates as well. In countries where the women do the simple shyt and take a secondary role men are not leaving or getting divorced. It's been said many times we are more loyal than them and love harder than them and I believe it.
I look at it like this, if you need to leave the US to fukk then something is wrong, but if you leave it to find a woman you want to marry then I can't knock that.
In regards to divorce I won't argue that but I never said anything about other countries at all. I said people are relationship addicts so I'm not surprised to see this happening. In countries similar to the US I'm not surprised they have high divorce rates either if they on this relationship drug shyt so many are on nowadays. I can agree with loyalty for the most part even though I know some serious cheaters. I don't necessarily think dudes love harder just that we get content more quicker. I can speak for myself like you said give me a 7 hell even a 6 (I don't even do this number shyt either you look good to me or not ) and I'm good. Women will be good but think they can get better even if they can't while dudes sometimes even if they know they can get better they wont cause they are good.
Kenny West
Veteran
You gotta get hoes. Basically bytches want the same nikkas other bytches want. It's oxymoronic but Chris Rock said "Who knew the secret to getting women was getting a woman?"
Otherwise you just gotta be on some trill shyt. Betray any conventional knowledge/instincts you think about women. Whatever she expects, do the opposite. Be a man, take charge....that should be enough for you to crawl into the top 25%. The rest is a matter of lifestyle
What is it with women threatening to run to law enforcement/authorities for EVERY LITTLE THING that happens?
Your trying to be civilized in an argument and being professional and they can go on about "im gonna go to the precint" for the smallest thing if you end up saying the wrong thing. No damn backbone at all.
The shyt is so frustrating. And this is especially with the younger girls. Like seriously grow up. I"m surprised we don't hear about more of them threatening their own fathers.
And about the whole Non American women praise we are speaking about in here, I agree to an extent. But don't think for a second that women over in DR or BRazil aren't giving these problems in relationships. The MAIN DIFFERENCE would just be that it happens less over there but that is obviously due to numerous reasons.....one obviously being the much lower population.
So we can't be too naive to keep using them as a model TOO MUCH. I mean did we not learn from the whole Secret Service incident in Colombia months ago? I have been guilty of doing it once in a while but not this much as some guys in here. As men we need to tone down the hyperbole about these other countries now because we are going overboard now.
Your trying to be civilized in an argument and being professional and they can go on about "im gonna go to the precint" for the smallest thing if you end up saying the wrong thing. No damn backbone at all.
The shyt is so frustrating. And this is especially with the younger girls. Like seriously grow up. I"m surprised we don't hear about more of them threatening their own fathers.
And about the whole Non American women praise we are speaking about in here, I agree to an extent. But don't think for a second that women over in DR or BRazil aren't giving these problems in relationships. The MAIN DIFFERENCE would just be that it happens less over there but that is obviously due to numerous reasons.....one obviously being the much lower population.
So we can't be too naive to keep using them as a model TOO MUCH. I mean did we not learn from the whole Secret Service incident in Colombia months ago? I have been guilty of doing it once in a while but not this much as some guys in here. As men we need to tone down the hyperbole about these other countries now because we are going overboard now.
Our requirements are just a lot more simple than theirs, we don't even "settle" for the 7. I know plenty of dudes that are happy with chicks that aren't the best looking and they could get a better looking female, but with that comes more problems. Would they fukk a more attractive female if they could get away with it? probably, but would they leave their girl for that chick, doubt it. Yeah ahtletes usually have a main chick prior to getting rich, but they were probably "the man" as early as their freshman year in HS. But, the ones that don't still end up settling for someone, if I were an NBA player I'd only be messing with R&B chicks or musicians like Esperanza Spadling, but these dudes are wifing up broads who make like $30,000 a year as video models
Also, the vast majority of men aren't leaving the US because people are afraid of change and they're knee deep in debt.
Men definitely love harder, you will hear countless stories of men dying for their families and loved ones all the time, you rarely hear the same about women. They say it, we actually do it
There are relationship problems everywhere, and all women nag since it's in their DNA, but in different cultures women have different roles which in turn produces different results. This isn't about the women really, it's about the environment and what the culture produces, it's why dudes will stress not coming back to the US if you marry a foreign woman. Our culture produces ME first, small nuclear families, get yours by any means and never settle for less than the best. That isn't really present in a lot of other cultures.
You'll also notice I don't really mention marrying a Dominican woman that much, yeah my chick is one, but she comes from an educated well off family and isn't the average. I know how a lot of Dominican chicks get down, they are very much similar to American women, most of them will want to live in the US as well.
Incognita6833 I like playing with children, photography, yo
@melta speaking of entitlement look at this profile from pof..remind you shes got a kid and looks flabby as fukk..average white female
look at her requriements
WHAT Incognita6833 WANTS in a man:
- Confident but not obnoxious!
- tall, healthy conscious with athletic built but not a gym-workout-everyday kinda guy, blond or fair, but tall, dark and handsome will do too!
- clean-shaven (no mustache or facial hair, pa-lea-ze!). No long hair (I used to like that in the 90's). Now, I even find bald men kinda sexy. Focus on the eyes, mouth and smile!
- can cook, clean and look after himself and his house/apt- can hold a conversation for more than a minute and stand his ground with his convictions but without being disrespectful during a disagreement
- honest, generous and kind to others
- family oriented, who is nice to his parents and even his ex-in-laws!
- who has at least one hobby and his own friends!
- He can make me laugh and who even laughs at my "not so funny sometimes" jokes!
- a man with whom I will share my darkest secrets and who will love me regardless
- a man with whom I will share my biggest fear and who will help me overcome it and not judge me or roll his eyes if I can't do it...
- a man who will be at my side when the going gets rough- who can speak French - je suis française après tout!
- I prefer a man with young children as he will understand the realities of trying to balance it all, not to mention that it would be really be nice to eventually build a 'new family' together!
- I prefer a mature mid-30something to an immature mid-40something!
- I want a man who wants to hold me and who loves to kiss!
- I want a man who will become my best friend!
- I prefer a non-smoker, even if I'm known to have one or two on social occasions (and certainly never in front of children) although, I would prefer not to smoke at all.
you got basic chicks wanting a perfect man
then you got dimes from other parts of the world who rather just be with a guy whos nice and normal
foreign females>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>north america
@melta speaking of entitlement look at this profile from pof..remind you shes got a kid and looks flabby as fukk..average white female
look at her requriements
WHAT Incognita6833 WANTS in a man:
- Confident but not obnoxious!
- tall, healthy conscious with athletic built but not a gym-workout-everyday kinda guy, blond or fair, but tall, dark and handsome will do too!
- clean-shaven (no mustache or facial hair, pa-lea-ze!). No long hair (I used to like that in the 90's). Now, I even find bald men kinda sexy. Focus on the eyes, mouth and smile!
- can cook, clean and look after himself and his house/apt- can hold a conversation for more than a minute and stand his ground with his convictions but without being disrespectful during a disagreement
- honest, generous and kind to others
- family oriented, who is nice to his parents and even his ex-in-laws!
- who has at least one hobby and his own friends!
- He can make me laugh and who even laughs at my "not so funny sometimes" jokes!
- a man with whom I will share my darkest secrets and who will love me regardless
- a man with whom I will share my biggest fear and who will help me overcome it and not judge me or roll his eyes if I can't do it...
- a man who will be at my side when the going gets rough- who can speak French - je suis française après tout!
- I prefer a man with young children as he will understand the realities of trying to balance it all, not to mention that it would be really be nice to eventually build a 'new family' together!
- I prefer a mature mid-30something to an immature mid-40something!
- I want a man who wants to hold me and who loves to kiss!
- I want a man who will become my best friend!
- I prefer a non-smoker, even if I'm known to have one or two on social occasions (and certainly never in front of children) although, I would prefer not to smoke at all.
you got basic chicks wanting a perfect man
then you got dimes from other parts of the world who rather just be with a guy whos nice and normal
foreign females>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>north america
she's fukkin 44 and she hasn't gotten that yet. I think its time to admit she's passed her shelf life and tone all those requirements down.Incognita6833 I like playing with children, photography, yo
@melta speaking of entitlement look at this profile from pof..remind you shes got a kid and looks flabby as fukk..average white female
look at her requriements
WHAT Incognita6833 WANTS in a man:
- Confident but not obnoxious!
- tall, healthy conscious with athletic built but not a gym-workout-everyday kinda guy, blond or fair, but tall, dark and handsome will do too!
- clean-shaven (no mustache or facial hair, pa-lea-ze!). No long hair (I used to like that in the 90's). Now, I even find bald men kinda sexy. Focus on the eyes, mouth and smile!
- can cook, clean and look after himself and his house/apt- can hold a conversation for more than a minute and stand his ground with his convictions but without being disrespectful during a disagreement
- honest, generous and kind to others
- family oriented, who is nice to his parents and even his ex-in-laws!
- who has at least one hobby and his own friends!
- He can make me laugh and who even laughs at my "not so funny sometimes" jokes!
- a man with whom I will share my darkest secrets and who will love me regardless
- a man with whom I will share my biggest fear and who will help me overcome it and not judge me or roll his eyes if I can't do it...
- a man who will be at my side when the going gets rough- who can speak French - je suis française après tout!
- I prefer a man with young children as he will understand the realities of trying to balance it all, not to mention that it would be really be nice to eventually build a 'new family' together!
- I prefer a mature mid-30something to an immature mid-40something!
- I want a man who wants to hold me and who loves to kiss!
- I want a man who will become my best friend!
- I prefer a non-smoker, even if I'm known to have one or two on social occasions (and certainly never in front of children) although, I would prefer not to smoke at all.
you got basic chicks wanting a perfect man
then you got dimes from other parts of the world who rather just be with a guy whos nice and normal
foreign females>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>north america
Women have a whole lot of pressure from older family members to marry up across almost all races. I am witnessing this first hand with my sister right now...there are rumblings underneath because the guy does not have a college degree. Yet I have never been with a woman who has got her bachelors degree and I don't hear a word.I think men are a lot more realistic in what they want, I mean this thread is a testament to that. Most dudes just want a "7" who cooks, is pleasant to be around, doesn't cheat and won't leave them if they lose their job. And yes, everybody wants the best, but I think the scale that defines that is broken when it comes to what women want. Nah, there's no need to be born 60-70 years ago when there are cultures around the world that still have those old values.
I don't know fam, even those super rich athletes usually settle for a female that is no where near them in terms of social status, money or power. How often do you see a woman marrying down? A dude that is a Doctor will marry a nurse or someone well below them, a female doctor will be married to like a senator
Nah dog, the countries that have similar values to ours have ridiculously high divorce rates. Other countries with strong feminist movements and dudes simping like crazy have high divorce rates as well. In countries where the women do the simple shyt and take a secondary role men are not leaving or getting divorced. It's been said many times we are more loyal than them and love harder than them and I believe it.
I look at it like this, if you need to leave the US to fukk then something is wrong, but if you leave it to find a woman you want to marry then I can't knock that.
I am not giving women a pass because they can't seem to figure out the balance that I keep bringing up. For the most part women still want a man to take care of them, but the problem is when trying to reach absolute equality in the workforce the minute they feel like they are making more money or in a better situation than a man...then those archaic beliefs come in and start possibly exploring what man can take care of them. Isn't that the reason for wanting total equality tho? It doesn't make any sense at all...I quit looking for that "perfect" female years ago and women can't seem to that just yet. I think it might happen eventually, but it will take a very long time for it to come to light...we will be old or dead when it finally starts to turn for the better.
You do have some other who feel they are beneath you and make it a point to let you know that...those who martyr themselves and that is annoying as well. I am sure I am not the only one who has dealt with that side of the equation as well. This competitive culture we grew up in breaks many people as well. We have a very very fukked up system.
drugxglory
Street Struck
My girl went to L.A to club with her girl bestfriend for the weekend, its her bf birthday. Hit her up last night at 12 am after i got off work, didnt get a response till round 2:30am.
'babyyyy..sorry, i was babysitting (name) shes drunk, i didnt have my phone with me' asked her why, 'it was bout to die so i left it in the car'
...but i told her before they left i was gonna hit her up
or Mayb im just trippin
'babyyyy..sorry, i was babysitting (name) shes drunk, i didnt have my phone with me' asked her why, 'it was bout to die so i left it in the car'
...but i told her before they left i was gonna hit her up
or Mayb im just trippin
That's not acceptable, straight up...chances are she was in the club getting nice and didn't want to be botheredMy girl went to L.A to club with her girl bestfriend for the weekend, its her bf birthday. Hit her up last night at 12 am after i got off work, didnt get a response till round 2:30am.
'babyyyy..sorry, i was babysitting (name) shes drunk, i didnt have my phone with me' asked her why, 'it was bout to die so i left it in the car'
...but i told her before they left i was gonna hit her up
or Mayb im just trippin
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The Informant
Rookie
My girl went to L.A to club with her girl bestfriend for the weekend, its her bf birthday. Hit her up last night at 12 am after i got off work, didnt get a response till round 2:30am.
'babyyyy..sorry, i was babysitting (name) shes drunk, i didnt have my phone with me' asked her why, 'it was bout to die so i left it in the car'
...but i told her before they left i was gonna hit her up
or Mayb im just trippin
you need to check her bruh
My girl went to L.A to club with her girl bestfriend for the weekend, its her bf birthday. Hit her up last night at 12 am after i got off work, didnt get a response till round 2:30am.
'babyyyy..sorry, i was babysitting (name) shes drunk, i didnt have my phone with me' asked her why, 'it was bout to die so i left it in the car'
...but i told her before they left i was gonna hit her up
or Mayb im just trippin
hmm lol phone died
females make sure their phones are charged before they go out
philmonroe
Superstar
Even though you don't give no passes to the women which is understandable at least you can the dynamics that women have to deal with that men don't. I also kinda laugh cause people on both sides say they want equality or this and that but they often listening to them talk/type sound like they just want the same ole same ole with nobody questioning their judgement.
Yeah you could be trippin cause if you don't trust your girl let the chick go. If this isn't normal for her character maybe she telling the truth maybe she not but if you getting this upset over this let it go man. Nobody will probably agree with me but thats cool too but its been many of nights where I'm been babysitting drunks and I'm not worried about no damn phone right then and there. Just imagine how you would feel if it was you doing the exact same thing and your girl acting like you a fukking liar and a cheater when that has proven not to be in your character. This is why I don't understand some in this thread at times cats are so 1 strike hard on people no wonder they having problems. These perfect women that do everything you want that kiss your ass and say nothing don't exist but they maybe come close in other countries let some tell it.My girl went to L.A to club with her girl bestfriend for the weekend, its her bf birthday. Hit her up last night at 12 am after i got off work, didnt get a response till round 2:30am.
'babyyyy..sorry, i was babysitting (name) shes drunk, i didnt have my phone with me' asked her why, 'it was bout to die so i left it in the car'
...but i told her before they left i was gonna hit her up
or Mayb im just trippin
Long story short if she has shown this night isn't indicitive of who she is why can't you give her a pass like I'm pretty sure you would want in the same situation?Don't scare that man lol. He should know his girl by now but guessing he had to come to this thread maybe he don't and maybe that is the problem alot of guys have anyway. They don't know who the fukk they dealing with outside of her looks. It can never be a continuous problem but if I know what is her usual norm I'll give her a pass just like I would anybody else that has proven that isn't their normal behavior. I can't be the only one that looks at peoples bodies of works on here can't be.
Kenny West
Veteran
"my phone died" has been the A1 excuse for duckin mfs since cell phones came out
So let me get this straight
Her phone was dying so she left it in the car? Instead of bringing it inside where she can charge it? or leaving it in a purse?...even ratchets wearing skintight dresses would put it between they titties.
not saying she did anything since the timing of her hittin you back up is pretty good depending on when clubs end around your way (they close around 2 here)
but you gotta press her. The mistake most nikkas make is they take lil bullshyt lies like that at face value.
So let me get this straight
Her phone was dying so she left it in the car? Instead of bringing it inside where she can charge it? or leaving it in a purse?...even ratchets wearing skintight dresses would put it between they titties.
not saying she did anything since the timing of her hittin you back up is pretty good depending on when clubs end around your way (they close around 2 here)
but you gotta press her. The mistake most nikkas make is they take lil bullshyt lies like that at face value.