Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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In America:

• Women are generally paranoid, anti-social, and stuck up toward others, especially strangers. They interact with others only on an "as needed" basis and do not like to meet new people, and if they do, it's only through mutual friends.
• They have an off-the-chart sense of entitlement that makes them think they're too good for most guys. The majority of available women are gunning for the 20 percent of men at the top, thinking they deserve no less. This leaves around 80 percent of men without choices, forced to be either alone or settle for someone (fat, ugly, plain) that isn't their top pick.
• For some reason, the average female has far more dating choices than the average male, who has little or none. Anyone can see this both in real life and in online personal ads, where women receive hundreds of times more responses than men do. And of course, they are far pickier.
• Women in America nowadays have a negative general view of men and hatred toward them, which is condoned and supported by the media. In fact, some women meet a different man every week and end up hating every single one of them, regardless of their looks or personality.
• Feminism and political correctness have taken over the nation, corrupting women and giving them a false sense of pseudo-power. And the political correctness that shields women from criticism allows them to get away with almost anything with no accountability.
• Rather than being tender, soft and feminine like most women of the world aspire to be, they act overly tough and behave like Nordic warriors.
• To make things even worse, obesity has become an epidemic, and fashion standards have dropped, decreasing the number of attractive women so that unattractive females now outnumber attractive ones.
• Sex with attractive women is very hard to get in America. (And for me, sex with unattractive women is hard to get too) You have to be a very specific category type and hang in very specific groups or cliques. But even then, your choices are limited and dependent on timing and opportunity.
• The whole US social scene is cliquish, closed, exclusive, and isolationist by nature, with work and consumerism being the only constants. A weird "ice barrier" exists between strangers in the US. People are disconnected from each other and interact on an "as needed" basis only. They do not generally like to meet people, and if they do, it's only through mutual friends. Hence, the average person's social circle is severely limited to a few. (In fact, the US is the only country I know of where you can be outgoing and sociable yet have no friends)
• Friendships tend to be superficial and short term. They grow apart very easily, and are often a mere facade that lacks any true human bond or connection. Furthermore, most of your so called "friends" do not even really like you for you. And of course, most of them do not stick with you through thick and thin. Thus, it's no wonder that so many Americans say that "true friends are hard to find".

In most countries abroad:

• Women do not put up unnatural defensive barriers toward men or strangers, but are open, approachable, sociable, and talk to strangers as if they already know them. They love meeting new people, and are not anti-social or paranoid.
• They are happy, not angry or hateful, and act more humble and modest. They do not think that men are creeps or that women are superior to men and can do no wrong.
• They enjoy flattery and compliments, and like being "hit on" or pursued, finding it manly and charming rather than "creepish".
• They are usually thin or height/weight proportionate and enjoy being feminine, acting feminine and dressing feminine. Obesity is rare and the attractive women outnumber the unattractive ones.
• Contrary to dysfunctional US females, they really do like NICE GUYS, supported by their ACTIONS not just their words. They stick with them, love them, and sleep with them.
• Basically, they are the way women were meant to be, which is refreshing to the Western male.
• Best of all, normal men (decent guys with no mental problems) actually have CHOICES among attractive women in other countries, either just as many as the women do, if not more. There are not millions of lonely depressed guys with no social life or female companionship and unable to do anything about it like there are in the US (which is probably the loneliest country in the world).
• Sex with attractive women is generally easier to get overseas, ranging from a little easier in some countries (Western Europe, Australia), to a lot easier in others (Russia, Eastern Europe, South America, Mexico), and overflowing in others (Philippines, Thailand, China).
• The social environment is naturally inclusive, so that one does not feel inherently disconnected from everyone else, even if they're alone (whereas in the US, you can be around hundreds of people yet feel totally alone, and you can also be outgoing and sociable yet be excluded and have no friends, unbelievably).
• People generally like to meet new people, and social interaction is not limited to cliques or through mutual friends. Instead, it flows naturally and smoothly. It is normal to meet people in public situations. There is not a weird "ice barrier" between strangers like there is in the US. And people generally talk to strangers with a comfortable natural demeanor, as if they already know them. Thus, if you are outgoing and sociable, you are guaranteed to make friends.
• Friendships tend to be deeper, more sincere and close-knit. They are also more long-lasting and enduring, with a truer human bond and connection. With foreign friends, a more natural camaraderie develops or is often instant. They are closer to the kind of ideal friendships you read about and cherished as a child in wholesome fictional stories that hold a place in your heart and memories. And of course, it is easy to find people that like you for you. In fact, "true friendships" develop more naturally and smoothly.
 

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shyt is real. That's why I'll look through a chick's phone every single time. The thing that disturbs me the most is how Maury ran to her to comfort her and defended her from him.

women got them passcodes on, and keep their phone to them closer than anything.

girls lie so much its crazy, example i was talking to this chick and she told me oh i dont talk to alot of guys i just have like 10 total contacts in my phone:leon:, then she got a new phone and didn't know how to retrieve her contacts so i helped her all is ee is like 50 contacts niggs like adam, chris, damien etc.

another time when i was just fwb with thsi chick she brought out the your the only black guy ive ever been with:troll: or would talk to:beli:

well were watching a movie at her place and her phone rings i quickly glance over and it says Jamal is calling, now i never met a white jamal in my life:shaq:

she quickly pressed end and acted like nothing happaned i said nothing:leon:


the only time a chick will actually let you go through her phone or let you see it, or leave it by accident because she knows you will go through it, is when she has removed all text messages, cleared her browser, and knows 100% you wont find anything
 

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In America:

• Women are generally paranoid, anti-social, and stuck up toward others, especially strangers. They interact with others only on an "as needed" basis and do not like to meet new people, and if they do, it's only through mutual friends.
• They have an off-the-chart sense of entitlement that makes them think they're too good for most guys. The majority of available women are gunning for the 20 percent of men at the top, thinking they deserve no less. This leaves around 80 percent of men without choices, forced to be either alone or settle for someone (fat, ugly, plain) that isn't their top pick.
• For some reason, the average female has far more dating choices than the average male, who has little or none. Anyone can see this both in real life and in online personal ads, where women receive hundreds of times more responses than men do. And of course, they are far pickier.
• Women in America nowadays have a negative general view of men and hatred toward them, which is condoned and supported by the media. In fact, some women meet a different man every week and end up hating every single one of them, regardless of their looks or personality.
• Feminism and political correctness have taken over the nation, corrupting women and giving them a false sense of pseudo-power. And the political correctness that shields women from criticism allows them to get away with almost anything with no accountability.
• Rather than being tender, soft and feminine like most women of the world aspire to be, they act overly tough and behave like Nordic warriors.
• To make things even worse, obesity has become an epidemic, and fashion standards have dropped, decreasing the number of attractive women so that unattractive females now outnumber attractive ones.
• Sex with attractive women is very hard to get in America. (And for me, sex with unattractive women is hard to get too) You have to be a very specific category type and hang in very specific groups or cliques. But even then, your choices are limited and dependent on timing and opportunity.
• The whole US social scene is cliquish, closed, exclusive, and isolationist by nature, with work and consumerism being the only constants. A weird "ice barrier" exists between strangers in the US. People are disconnected from each other and interact on an "as needed" basis only. They do not generally like to meet people, and if they do, it's only through mutual friends. Hence, the average person's social circle is severely limited to a few. (In fact, the US is the only country I know of where you can be outgoing and sociable yet have no friends)
• Friendships tend to be superficial and short term. They grow apart very easily, and are often a mere facade that lacks any true human bond or connection. Furthermore, most of your so called "friends" do not even really like you for you. And of course, most of them do not stick with you through thick and thin. Thus, it's no wonder that so many Americans say that "true friends are hard to find".

In most countries abroad:

• Women do not put up unnatural defensive barriers toward men or strangers, but are open, approachable, sociable, and talk to strangers as if they already know them. They love meeting new people, and are not anti-social or paranoid.
• They are happy, not angry or hateful, and act more humble and modest. They do not think that men are creeps or that women are superior to men and can do no wrong.
• They enjoy flattery and compliments, and like being "hit on" or pursued, finding it manly and charming rather than "creepish".
• They are usually thin or height/weight proportionate and enjoy being feminine, acting feminine and dressing feminine. Obesity is rare and the attractive women outnumber the unattractive ones.
• Contrary to dysfunctional US females, they really do like NICE GUYS, supported by their ACTIONS not just their words. They stick with them, love them, and sleep with them.
• Basically, they are the way women were meant to be, which is refreshing to the Western male.
• Best of all, normal men (decent guys with no mental problems) actually have CHOICES among attractive women in other countries, either just as many as the women do, if not more. There are not millions of lonely depressed guys with no social life or female companionship and unable to do anything about it like there are in the US (which is probably the loneliest country in the world).
• Sex with attractive women is generally easier to get overseas, ranging from a little easier in some countries (Western Europe, Australia), to a lot easier in others (Russia, Eastern Europe, South America, Mexico), and overflowing in others (Philippines, Thailand, China).
• The social environment is naturally inclusive, so that one does not feel inherently disconnected from everyone else, even if they're alone (whereas in the US, you can be around hundreds of people yet feel totally alone, and you can also be outgoing and sociable yet be excluded and have no friends, unbelievably).
• People generally like to meet new people, and social interaction is not limited to cliques or through mutual friends. Instead, it flows naturally and smoothly. It is normal to meet people in public situations. There is not a weird "ice barrier" between strangers like there is in the US. And people generally talk to strangers with a comfortable natural demeanor, as if they already know them. Thus, if you are outgoing and sociable, you are guaranteed to make friends.
• Friendships tend to be deeper, more sincere and close-knit. They are also more long-lasting and enduring, with a truer human bond and connection. With foreign friends, a more natural camaraderie develops or is often instant. They are closer to the kind of ideal friendships you read about and cherished as a child in wholesome fictional stories that hold a place in your heart and memories. And of course, it is easy to find people that like you for you. In fact, "true friendships" develop more naturally and smoothly.
Man dude could have made this whinning bullshyt alot more simpler by saying I can't get women in America and its easier to get "out of my league chicks" overseas. Most of that America shyt you can say about both sexes so what is the problem? These whinning types need to step their game up for real yall cant cosign these lames shyt make us all look bad.
 

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Man dude could have made this whinning bullshyt alot more simpler by saying I can't get women in America and its easier to get "out of my league chicks" overseas. Most of that America shyt you can say about both sexes so what is the problem? These whinning types need to step their game up for real yall cant cosign these lames shyt make us all look bad.

I guess i never thought of it like that..
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i cant even speak on it from experience cuz i havent traveled like that to know the difference.. sounds like the general consensus from what dudes in this forum say though :yeshrug:
 

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Man dude could have made this whinning bullshyt alot more simpler by saying I can't get women in America and its easier to get "out of my league chicks" overseas. Most of that America shyt you can say about both sexes so what is the problem? These whinning types need to step their game up for real yall cant cosign these lames shyt make us all look bad.

yeah thats why i just cant cosign the "going overseas" to get a broad consensus that has been so prevalent in this thread.

if yall n1ggas ever start dating chicks that are of high commodity (big ass, thick thighs, cute/pretty), yall should just learn to treat as a jumpoff from the getgo and quit trying to cuff them. that'll save yall a lot of heartache.
 

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I guess i never thought of it like that..
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i cant even speak on it from experience cuz i havent traveled like that to know the difference.. sounds like the general consensus from what dudes in this forum say though :yeshrug:
Honestly with no bias go down that American list and tell me you haven't saw most of those things from everybody. You will probably see where I'm getting at. I think sex from women is easy its hard to find one that fit what your looking for but some dudes like to do like chicks and overrate themselves too. You got male equivalents of a 3/4 talking like if a chicks is super bad and doesn't give him play she crazy. Nah son its you.
 

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Man dude could have made this whinning bullshyt alot more simpler by saying I can't get women in America and its easier to get "out of my league chicks" overseas. Most of that America shyt you can say about both sexes so what is the problem? These whinning types need to step their game up for real yall cant cosign these lames shyt make us all look bad.
So you don't feel like American society corrupts and enables women? As a man if i fail in American society i'm a bum but if a woman fails she deserves sympathy and people knock themselves over trying to justify it and or help her.

Vagina is too strong a comity in this country. its valued so highly that its gotten to a point where men don't seem to have the balls to stand up and say what needs to be said because they're afraid they might lose a shot at it.

American women are sort of like rich children that grow up in money they never had to earn but can spend whatever they want. coming up like that changes your views on money as they develop. the problem isn't that guys can get American women its that their options are there's a bucket of 50 apples and there's 10 non-poisonous ones in it and the rest are poison. find a good apple with nothing but your wit and instinct to assist you.
 

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So you don't feel like American society corrupts and enables women? As a man if i fail in American society i'm a bum but if a woman fails she deserves sympathy and people knock themselves over trying to justify it and or help her.

Vagina is too strong a comity in this country. its valued so highly that its gotten to a point where men don't seem to have the balls to stand up and say what needs to be said because they're afraid they might lose a shot at it.

American women are sort of like rich children that grow up in money they never had to earn but can spend whatever they want. coming up like that changes your views on money as they develop. the problem isn't that guys can get American women its that their options are there's a bucket of 50 apples and there's 10 non-poisonous ones in it and the rest are poison. find a good apple with nothing but your wit and instinct to assist you.
I feel like America got everybody looking for sympathy and/or excuses to be honest. I do feel like women are enabled I've said as much but I also feel alot of men do just as much bytching which isn't a good look. Lame p*ssy thirsty dudes are just as much of the problem as these chicks. You wanna blame a chick for getting big headed but its usally a reason and truth be told most people can't handle being gassed up its just most dude will never see in their life so the mad and don't know why. Alot of guys secretly want the same easy attention from women that most women get from men. Certain rules are catered to women and I'm not for that as I would like the things that can be fair to be fair. As far as worrying about americans viewing me you as a failure fukk em. I'm doing what I gotta do if I'm not successful it is what it is but I refuse to worry about things like that and I feel as though everybody should too. That small shyt in the grand scheme what others think negatively about you. Like I said fukk em cause whether you do great or awful somebody going to have something to say so I leave you with this link at the bottom. Lol

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Man dude could have made this whinning bullshyt alot more simpler by saying I can't get women in America and its easier to get "out of my league chicks" overseas. Most of that America shyt you can say about both sexes so what is the problem? These whinning types need to step their game up for real yall cant cosign these lames shyt make us all look bad.



Here's the thing, most women in other countries have more realistic expectations and don't have such a sense of entitlement. To these women, if you have a job, support the family and don't cheat you're the man for her. Our culture makes everyone believe they deserve the absolute best, even when that isn't the case and why you see women divorcing dudes over such bullshyt reasons. Also, I don't even think it's necessarily easier, in my experience the women in the countries I visited were a lot more friendly but not really "easy" sexually.

I advocate men leaving this country to be more cultured, the women are secondary but there is a huge difference between western women and those that aren't from cultures like ours. With divorce favoring women so much in our country, I don't blame any man that dips out on this bytch.
 

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In America:

• They have an off-the-chart sense of entitlement that makes them think they're too good for most guys. The majority of available women are gunning for the 20 15 percent of men at the top, thinking they deserve no less. This leaves around 80 percent of men without choices, forced to be either alone or settle for someone (fat, ugly, plain) that isn't their top pick.

Learned this at a very young age. How do I become top 15%???
 

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Here's the thing, most women in other countries have more realistic expectations and don't have such a sense of entitlement. To these women, if you have a job, support the family and don't cheat you're the man for her. Our culture makes everyone believe they deserve the absolute best, even when that isn't the case and why you see women divorcing dudes over such bullshyt reasons. Also, I don't even think it's necessarily easier, in my experience the women in the countries I visited were a lot more friendly but not really "easy" sexually.

I advocate men leaving this country to be more cultured, the women are secondary but there is a huge difference between western women and those that aren't from cultures like ours. With divorce favoring women so much in our country, I don't blame any man that dips out on this bytch.
I hear that about realistic expectations but when you don't have to/or think you don't have to your not in most cases. Dudes would love to be unrealistic but how the dynamic is in America getting props for basic stuff as a dude them days over. Thats the realm of females and their simp, differently raised, p*ssy thirsty guys. Should have been born 60-70 yrs ago where that was enough. See at least you see everybody thinks they deserve the best not just women thats always my problem when cats sit here and make like women have super standards when most guys if they were honest feel similar they just know/feel thats not realistic for them. When guys are famous, rich, athletes, aka they can act super choosy lik chicks don't they usually wield that power? I feel dudes are mad they not in that top percentile to be choosy but instead of whinning shyt in America you can take steps as a dude to get to that level.

I really wish the divorce thing wouldn't fukk dudes up cause you would see they would be leaving at similar rates. I talk to guys who aren't happy but because of the stuff thats been mentioned in here they don't leave. Some just do like chicks and cheat but still come home cause thats the norm. People are relationship addicts nowadays on both sides its just more benefical for women to roll only thing that stops it from being more even and imo dudes don't like to break up with women. They will act like an a$$hole so the woman will leave so you have to factor that in too.
 

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I feel like America got everybody looking for sympathy and/or excuses to be honest. I do feel like women are enabled I've said as much but I also feel alot of men do just as much bytching which isn't a good look. Lame p*ssy thirsty dudes are just as much of the problem as these chicks. You wanna blame a chick for getting big headed but its usally a reason and truth be told most people can't handle being gassed up its just most dude will never see in their life so the mad and don't know why. Alot of guys secretly want the same easy attention from women that most women get from men. Certain rules are catered to women and I'm not for that as I would like the things that can be fair to be fair. As far as worrying about americans viewing me you as a failure fukk em. I'm doing what I gotta do if I'm not successful it is what it is but I refuse to worry about things like that and I feel as though everybody should too. That small shyt in the grand scheme what others think negatively about you. Like I said fukk em cause whether you do great or awful somebody going to have something to say so I leave you with this link at the bottom. Lol

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More men need to be vocal about this shyt.

I wish at 21-22 i understood what i did about women now. i used to believe back then that there was a shortage of good men and that if you were one you'd separate yourself from the crowd and be sure to lock up a good woman.

now i know that there is no shortage of good men. many women meet solid stable men and get bored because the relationship doesn't have enough drama and entertainment value. you can be good to her till you're blue in the face and it means nothing.

this shyt isn't about stepping your game up. its really about coming to terms that the fact that you should probably be cynical of all women and assume they're out to use you for something and treat them accordingly.
 

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I hear that about realistic expectations but when you don't have to/or think you don't have to your not in most cases. Dudes would love to be unrealistic but how the dynamic is in America getting props for basic stuff as a dude them days over. Thats the realm of females and their simp, differently raised, p*ssy thirsty guys. Should have been born 60-70 yrs ago where that was enough. See at least you see everybody thinks they deserve the best not just women thats always my problem when cats sit here and make like women have super standards when most guys if they were honest feel similar they just know/feel thats not realistic for them. When guys are famous, rich, athletes, aka they can act super choosy lik chicks don't they usually wield that power? I feel dudes are mad they not in that top percentile to be choosy but instead of whinning shyt in America you can take steps as a dude to get to that level.

I think men are a lot more realistic in what they want, I mean this thread is a testament to that. Most dudes just want a "7" who cooks, is pleasant to be around, doesn't cheat and won't leave them if they lose their job. And yes, everybody wants the best, but I think the scale that defines that is broken when it comes to what women want. Nah, there's no need to be born 60-70 years ago when there are cultures around the world that still have those old values.

I don't know fam, even those super rich athletes usually settle for a female that is no where near them in terms of social status, money or power. How often do you see a woman marrying down? A dude that is a Doctor will marry a nurse or someone well below them, a female doctor will be married to like a senator :laugh:

I really wish the divorce thing wouldn't fukk dudes up cause you would see they would be leaving at similar rates. I talk to guys who aren't happy but because of the stuff thats been mentioned in here they don't leave. Some just do like chicks and cheat but still come home cause thats the norm. People are relationship addicts nowadays on both sides its just more benefical for women to roll only thing that stops it from being more even and imo dudes don't like to break up with women. They will act like an a$$hole so the woman will leave so you have to factor that in too.

Nah dog, the countries that have similar values to ours have ridiculously high divorce rates. Other countries with strong feminist movements and dudes simping like crazy have high divorce rates as well. In countries where the women do the simple shyt and take a secondary role men are not leaving or getting divorced. It's been said many times we are more loyal than them and love harder than them and I believe it.

I look at it like this, if you need to leave the US to fukk then something is wrong, but if you leave it to find a woman you want to marry then I can't knock that.
 
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