Average ass woman whose 36 gets 50 dates just like that 
Meet the Toronto woman challenging herself to go on 50 dates | CBC Radio
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YOGEBEAR09
RAM Gang. Horns up
I'm more sad bout my team
Look at it like this, Yall shouldn't have even been in the gameI'm more sad bout my team
And at least you not a USC fan you spoiled b*stard. You ain't got NOTHING to be crying about. FUCCK CLAY HELTON
This might sound cruel but fukk being her friend. I mean it’s bad the things she’s been through but she has to deal with that shyt. You have your own life to live.Honestly, I have just so much on my mind about this situation I posted.
There's so much uncertainty and it's just about the way my feelings work too. When I like someone... I'm pretty much all about trying to be with them, etc. I don't really see myself trying to see other people right now because I just can't find the right places for that and I've tried online dating already, being unsuccessful.
I don't wanna wait too long, either. Sitting here waiting for her is just gonna kill me inside and feel sad about it, and who knows if she'll feel the same later, especially since she's at the low point and is still trying to figure out how to get over her trauma and baggage. I'm going to try and remain in her life as a friend, but she's difficult at opening up to people since she's so guarded and doesn't know who to trust after trauma.
I know I need to take care of myself too, and let go of the past. I still feel alone constantly, and need to seek out more therapy methods since I can't go to my old one anymore (graduated from school), and seriously consider getting diagnosed and tested for clinical depression.
This shyt kills me inside man... so much shyt can happen and I'm just sitting here hoping it all works out in the end, but I just don't know...
On the real you seem like a decent dude, but a female will sense that and will eat you alive.
I meant to say this same shyt. Keep that shyt moving.
I don’t know how some of you brehs do with this online dating shyt.
The last couple of women I contacted through online dating are batshyt crazy.
I use dating apps, but yeah, most of them are nuts
YOGEBEAR09
RAM Gang. Horns up
Dahell you mean we shouldn't be in the game if the saints deserved it they would have been thereLook at it like this, Yall shouldn't have even been in the game
And at least you not a USC fan you spoiled b*stard. You ain't got NOTHING to be crying about. FUCCK CLAY HELTON
This chick I met recently on tinder, blocked me on Snapchat because I didn’t send her a Snapchat pic with the quickness. Then she unblocked me a week later out of the blue.I use dating apps, but yeah, most of them are nuts
She sent me a message about maybe meeting up last weekend, she ignored my message basically checking if she still was down to meet up.
Last night she hit me up out of the blue just to say “Hi”. I asked her are we still meeting up and she replied with “I thought we established we wouldn’t get along “
And all of that from one chick
NO disrespect at all, but are you a female?
If not and you're a man, then maybe you need to get at certain type of chicks due to the bolded..most modern day women I feel don't appreciate men who only wanna be with them...
You sound a little clingy also .
Nah, I'm a guy. I'm just real emotional type.
I try not to be, I don't really feel clingy though? Like, with this girl I don't really need to have her around. I'm perfectly fine talking to her over text and not being like, a wreck. I mean, I do have feelings but I still talk to her like a friend and shyt.
I'll see where the road takes me. She has a WILD ass lifestyle right now and I don't know if I can match that. I'm a huge ass nerd who goes to cons and tournaments, and that's really about it. She's one too, but her lifestyle is a little too wild atm. She said some real wild shyt when we were getting vulnerable too, saying she'd wife me up and all that, I was like
Honestly, since I've stopped seeing therapy (I can't anymore because I'm not a student at my college since I graduated) I've felt consistently more depressed and I'm trying to find places that take my insurance so I can continue.
I'm not afraid of like talking to other females, but there's shyt I gotta do with myself before I go down that road again.
We're alike in certain aspects...I'll see where the road takes me. She has a WILD ass lifestyle right now and I don't know if I can match that. I'm a huge ass nerd who goes to cons and tournaments, and that's really about it. She's one too, but her lifestyle is a little too wild atm. She said some real wild shyt when we were getting vulnerable too, saying she'd wife me up and all that, I was like
Honestly, since I've stopped seeing therapy (I can't anymore because I'm not a student at my college since I graduated) I've felt consistently more depressed and I'm trying to find places that take my insurance so I can continue.
I'm not afraid of like talking to other females, but there's shyt I gotta do with myself before I go down that road again.
I dated one of them wild broads...those kinds need a dude to constantly put and keep them in check. For that to happen they gotta respect you and saying shyt like "she'd wife you up" is some masculine disrespectful behavior on her end.
I feel you on the last part..we all have to learn how to be single and deal with our emotions first before getting involved with others.
I recommend doing things that makes you happy...I myself am starting up training again in Jiu Jitsu...for me a big part in my self esteem and how I feel as a man is
being able to defend myself and others around me.That and I live at home with my mom at the moment, that alone makes me feel insecure at times and I don't want that energy around chicks....
Though they still be choosing
REMEMBER, WE AS MEN IT'S NEVER TOO LATE FOR US...WE CAN TAKE OUR TIME AND GET OUR MIND RIGHT,RESOURCES UP AND WOMEN WILL ALWAYS BE THERE.
We're alike in certain aspects...
I dated one of them wild broads...those kinds need a dude to constantly put and keep them in check. For that to happen they gotta respect you and saying shyt like "she'd wife you up" is some masculine disrespectful behavior on her end.
I feel you on the last part..we all have to learn how to be single and deal with our emotions first before getting involved with others.
I recommend doing things that makes you happy...I myself am starting up training again in Jiu Jitsu...for me a big part in my self esteem and how I feel as a man is
being able to defend myself and others around me.That and I live at home with my mom at the moment, that alone makes me feel insecure at times and I don't want that energy around chicks....
Though they still be choosing
REMEMBER, WE AS MEN IT'S NEVER TOO LATE FOR US...WE CAN TAKE OUR TIME AND GET OUR MIND RIGHT,RESOURCES UP AND WOMEN WILL ALWAYS BE THERE.
She didn't exactly say "wife me up," she said that I'm her endgame and that she's gonna marry me. That shyt had me like
I've been pretty broken up since my past 3 years ago. Though she made me waaaay happier than my last, it's just not realistic right now. Sitting there with feelings sucks though, and I'm not really the type of guy to actually keep trying to talk to other people. Like, I have feelings but I'm fine being her friend and stuff, but I haven't really put forth an effort to see other people outside of online dating.
I need to start doing more physical aspects instead of the electronic aspects in my life. I just feel like I can't do that shyt alone though because I like the guidance before I'm confident enough in myself to continue at it alone. I live from paycheck-to-paycheck at a retail job, and I have to move back with my parents in the summer because I'm tired of them being in my ear at coming home.
That's self defeat right there
Google jiu jitsu/boxing gyms in your area and go take a free class...
If you don't have a friend to go with you it doesn't matter...go anyway.
One of the ways you gain confidence is pushing yourself through adversity...
And there will be trainers at the gym to guide you...
It's natural to have anxiety...shyt it's people I know who have been training for years and still get slightly nervous before stepping into the dojo.