Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That's self defeat right there :ufdup:

Google jiu jitsu/boxing gyms in your area and go take a free class...

If you don't have a friend to go with you it doesn't matter...go anyway.

One of the ways you gain confidence is pushing yourself through adversity...


And there will be trainers at the gym to guide you...

It's natural to have anxiety...shyt it's people I know who have been training for years and still get slightly nervous before stepping into the dojo.

Anxiety is a huge part of it too. shyt just hits me out of nowhere, and doing something with really little to no experience in is gonna make it spike through the roof. It's not like I can't do it, I'm just too anxious and etc. to do so.

Right now I'm feeling better than yesterday, but I'm just trying to get myself together before I hit a downward spiral over this shyt and to keep my situation under control.
 

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I'll see where the road takes me. She has a WILD ass lifestyle right now and I don't know if I can match that. I'm a huge ass nerd who goes to cons and tournaments, and that's really about it. She's one too, but her lifestyle is a little too wild atm. She said some real wild shyt when we were getting vulnerable too, saying she'd wife me up and all that, I was like :wtf:

Honestly, since I've stopped seeing therapy (I can't anymore because I'm not a student at my college since I graduated) I've felt consistently more depressed and I'm trying to find places that take my insurance so I can continue.

I'm not afraid of like talking to other females, but there's shyt I gotta do with myself before I go down that road again.
That’s the right attitude work on yourself before pursuing other women
 

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This picture of her on a date cracks me up. Breh looks like his ready to go.
 

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Haha they are plentiful. Had another date last night, Malaysian chick. She was cool. But as I was so busy fukking other chicks over the weekend. I kept it friendly. This chick seems like a reformed ho though, later on, she texted me and we were chatting and she asked me what I was looking for?
As she doesn't sleep with anybody until after a few dates. I was like
:comeon:

Arranged to go round to hers next Monday for dinner and games night. We'll see how full of shyt she is.
:shaq:

So message this chick this morning. And she's like should we go out this evening?

I was like in this weather?

She said I'd feel more comfortable once I know you better. Tbh I wanna hit it now and I have time this evening, so I'll play along with this charade. I have made sure we're meeting at a nice restaurant below her apartment.

I'm gonna test her hoe this evening.
 
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here's a new one. met a chick through her fam but she don't speak English at all and my spanish is "ok" at best. she like me a lot I can use translate in text/audio convos but face to face it's very difficult, i end up just pointing and saying random words that i know

how y'all approach this :patrice:
 

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here's a new one. met a chick through her fam but she don't speak English at all and my spanish is "ok" at best. she like me a lot I can use translate in text/audio convos but face to face it's very difficult, i end up just pointing and saying random words that i know

how y'all approach this :patrice:

You’re already doing whatever you can. Use whatever Spanish you can and then use google translate on your phone for the rest. Man I knocked down plenty of Portuguese and Braslian joints that spoke absolutely zero English. Body language is what matters most.
 
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You’re already doing whatever you can. Use whatever Spanish you can and then use google translate on your phone for the rest. Man I knocked down plenty of Portuguese and Braslian joints that spoke absolutely zero English. Body language is what matters most.

lol i agree with that and it's lookin like a layup, i just askin if there's a better way :manny:
 
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