Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

yeah man, problem is you got too many people cosigning the NONSENSE that a lot of these modern women are engaging in and nobody checking them and putting them onto the real. You got too many charlatans who are telling women pleasing trash. It reminds me of this Bible verse:

Romans 16:18
New International Version (NIV)
18 For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people.

You have too many smooth speaking charlatans out there telling women what they want to hear instead of what they NEED to hear in order for relationships to really work. You got people telling women that it's ok to get knocked up and have babies out of wedlock because being a single mother by choice is 'string and independent', you got women telling other women to have gaggles, you got women with starter husbands. Joint is disgusting. A lot of women act this way because nobody says anything to them, because simp negroes are afraid of offending them because they are afraid they are going to lose access to romantic interest with her, which they never end up getting anyways.

 

[My neck and my back]

Catherine Kieu Castrates Husband, WOMEN LAUGH - YouTube

This video just goes to show you the virulent attitude in this country. Imagine men sitting around on a talk show... an audience filled with men and several male hosts all laughing at a story of some woman getting her sexual organs cut off. Sad that the only one that really stood up was the lesbian.

i love this video...this shows women without their bullshyt persona's...just being the despicable vile creatures that they are naturally...keep this vid in mind when you're dealing with any of these bytches that this is behind that "innocent" act

 

[Turbulent]

Approaching a new woman every day for a month

for your experiment, what's your opinion on approaching girls with the goal of sleeping with them on the same day? granted you'd probably have to approach more than one girl on the same day, maybe you could take one or two of the remaining days where you have lots of free time to try it or maybe wait til december (if it's an interesting idea to you of course)

 

[Lil' Kartwheel]

To be honest I think a lot of these chicks simply want to have an encounter with a guy they can go back and clown or complain about. They will nitpick and find all kinds of faults with a dude just so they can have something negative to say to their girlfriends and big themselves up in the process.

As I get older, I can sus these females out more and more.

Dated a chick like that for a year and 3 months. Never again, breh. I dumped her days before Valentine's Day and her friend's wedding that I was invited to. One of the most satisfying moments I ever had was seeing her break down sobbing as soon as I ended things.

The fukked up thing is that she made no attempt to do better or say that we can work it out (which I wasn't willing to do). She wanted me to stay with her till after the wedding so she wouldn't look bad in front of her friends and her people.

It is what it is...I plan to get some traveling in and really see what "real women" are about.

 

[cleanface coney]

To the 18-21 year olds, if I could go back to that age, this is what I would have done knowing what I know now.


- Save every last disposable dollar I had, splurge only when needed (clothes).
- Never bought the nice car with the depreciating value, took forever to sell and it didn't really bring any added joy to my life.
- Would have learned a second language in college, several at that, it expands your horizons and opens up new opportunities.
- Never would have had a girlfriend beyond a 1 year relationship from the ages of 21-25.
- Would've gotten the absolute cheapest apartment I could find, maybe even rented a damn single room in someones house.

Why would I have done all of this? Because by the time I reach 35-40, I would have been able to retire in another country with all the money I've saved. I would have been able to work a part time job in any number of "paradise" beach locations and simply live out the rest of my life however I wanted to. Whether that is Southeast Asia somewhere, or South America, I could have bought a condo or house outright.

Do you want to live to work, or do you want to simply live? Don't get caught up in the bullshyt material things, save your money, invest and stack as much money as you can so you don't have to work until you're 75 years old.

Why are Americans in such a hurry to get married? At 24 years old people are already thinking of marriage, it's ridiculous to me. Take your time, build you career, travel the world, really figure out who you are before you even think of marriage. I'm not even saying one has to sleep around and all of that, but I just don't think people truly realize what marriage is. That's why divorce rates are so high.

Sorry for that rant y'all but I needed to get that off my chest

I mean goddamn I had 3 middle aged married white women hit on me this week, I feel bad for their husbands really




I love getting advice like this

So much truth here I don't even know where to begin.

I think its also important to add to know when and where to put people in their place. Too many people at from the age of 18-25 put too much stock in what their friends say. You guys need to be prepared to dump all your friends at the drop of a hat because when it all comes down to it...you will be lucky to even meet 5 of them who would really help you out if needed.

To spin it around a bit and focus on the females...you guys have to learn at a really young age to be ready to walk out on a female at a moments notice. You can only care about her so much, listen to her problems for so long, deal with her ups and downs on a monthly basis before you realize that either: A - things are never going anywhere. B - she might be using you. C - she thinks you are a potential mate in the future...after she has all her fun first. You don't EVER...EVER limit your options and focus in on one female especially at that young age. These are the important years of your life...build as many positive relationships you can with females during this time and a couple will come crawling back. Trust us...every guy who was not some crazy introvert and actually socialized a bit has stories about females. Read some of my posts in other pages...its a numbers game and you are better served to keep those numbers high so that when you are in your late 20's you are not some of those sad dudes who latch on to whoever gives them attention on match.com or eharmony.

I have been on my own since I was 19 with not much help because I decided it was best for me to move far away from NY. Was it the best move? Probably not at the time, but I didn't have the upbringing some of you are lucky enough to have...soak in that knowledge from pops if he is still around and you will have a leg up on the competition...have a leg up on guys like me when I was in my late teens and early 20's.

I also strongly recommend dorming for at least 1 year in college...I don't care if you don't even graduate. The time on campus will teach you things you don't even realize while you are in there....plus the numbers argument I keep bringing up to you guys.

I wish I can get more personal on here, but I think most will catch on to what I am saying. Focus on YOURSELF, all that other nonsense that is being fed to you that you NEED to be doing doesn't hold true. A woman is interested in wealth, your appearance, and your inner circle once they get to know you. You can have a degree, but have no financial stability and she wont see herself with you because she feels you are so tied up in your obligations that she wont give you the time or day. Its cold, but its real...I have seen it. Many of my fellow peers have their degrees...one of my best friends has an IQ of 160...smart ass dude, in shape, got his degrees and everything, but his money is not right. What is he up to these days? He fishes on POF and throws his degrees on the description like trophies...yet still cant bring in AAA women because once they know his financial situation...its a wrap. Me? Well I can't get too personal in here, but rest assured that I don't have to go to POF to start seeing what is out there.

man not even tryna be funny
but every young dude that has goals and ambitions should read this
i was reading this shyt and notcied my heart rate was speeding up
and my palms got sweaty

releast shyt i ever read on this website and probably my life outside of learning about my history

 

[sixsixtwo]

The Wall «

 

[sixsixtwo]

Mom Was Wrong – A Personal Narrative « The Private Man

 

[Liquid]

Mom Was Wrong – A Personal Narrative « The Private Man

See thats the problem

In retrospect he should have asked his father, but so many of us don't have our dad around growing up...shyt is heartbreaking breh.

 

[Tony_Siegel]

this:

VS.

this:

 

[MikelArteta]

I always chuckle when females break up and then the same ol
Generic quotes and songs they use

No matter how good you look your just not wifeable, dudes will use you for a 2-3 month trial period and then move on

Haha

 

[MikelArteta]

See thats the problem

In retrospect he should have asked his father, but so many of us don't have our dad around growing up...shyt is heartbreaking breh.

The days of emasculating men

 

[MikelArteta]

Mom Was Wrong – A Personal Narrative « The Private Man

It's not even about sex, being nice to women can leave you poor and desolated, manipulated, in jail, credit ruined and even death

It's always funny the girls you treat with the most respect who I was nice to and there for them are the ones who toss you outside, the ones who cheat on you and use you

The girls you treat like crap are the ones blowing you in their car, calling and texting you after saying they will never talk to you again , giving it up easily, buying you stuff.

 

[Liquid]

The thing is that a mom USUALLY changes her views once she becomes a mom. So in her current state of mind, yes she herself would want a nice man to take care of her and her kid after daddy left. Ask the mom in her teen years when she had guys going after her? Might be a completely different story...I am witnessing that myself and I am assuming others around my age are as well.

All of a sudden the girls who were after the "trouble makers" or "bad guys" are looking for a good man to take care of her. In fact, one of my friends sister hit me up YESTERDAY and some of her exact words were "Women usually make the wrong choices in men that's why we end up screwed in the end". That came up because one of the girls from my past that I think I brought up in here could not figure out why I never let her back in.

Some get it and some don't. The girl who wanted to get back into my life...no kids. My friends sister - 4 kids...she will tell her sons to be a nice guy and get a nice girl.

Its easy to put these things together.

 

[sixsixtwo]

The Comedy of Female Hypergamy « The Chase

 

[CrossBones]

The thing is that a mom USUALLY changes her views once she becomes a mom. So in her current state of mind, yes she herself would want a nice man to take care of her and her kid after daddy left. Ask the mom in her teen years when she had guys going after her? Might be a completely different story...I am witnessing that myself and I am assuming others around my age are as well.

All of a sudden the girls who were after the "trouble makers" or "bad guys" are looking for a good man to take care of her. In fact, one of my friends sister hit me up YESTERDAY and some of her exact words were "Women usually make the wrong choices in men that's why we end up screwed in the end". That came up because one of the girls from my past that I think I brought up in here could not figure out why I never let her back in.

Some get it and some don't. The girl who wanted back to get back into my life...no kids. My friends sister - 4 kids...she will tell her sons to be a nice guy and get a nice girl.

Its easy to put these things together.

LOL. you right. so its like theyre giving out advice on finding a women who has already made her mistakes earlier and needs to make a change. the thing is, to actually have a worthy and loyal man, a woman has to be of the same pedigree.

its one thing to KNOW what you need to do differently, its another to be good at it and bring it to life.

an obese person knows they could eat healthier, lose weight, and get the body they want. now actually putting in that work, and making it happen...?

they could be ordering salads and running everyday, but theyre used to eating three value meals and passing out on the couch with their hands in the bag of chips. trying to find a refined, disciplined woman who is good at relationships and puts in the effort is not easy.

we tell each other to dodge women with kids because theyve essentially showed the world that their first choice was to be off point. to be attached to someone who isnt there for you anymore.

everyone can change, but the odds are really against certain types. the typical obese person doesnt turn into a health fitness model