Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[philmonroe]

Alright here is my situation , my best friend of 10 years caught feelings after we has sex
We never even entertained the thought cause I always looked at her like a little sister (shes exactly 5 years younger than me we share the same birthday).



Problem is she was with a dude she never really took serious until dude got into a car accident and fell into a coma... Now she wants to start a family and all that fluffy shyt.

Funny shyt is ... The day he got into the car accident we had sex that night plus the day after.

I guess she felt guilty :Manny: now that shes with him full time weve hardly spoken the past two months other than emails.

When I tell you me & her were as close as two people could be without being with each other its crazy...our familes are close ... We even share accounts fb/financial almost everytging.


she does none of that with her man , shyt is confusing cause she trusts me with everything & always had.... Until recently.
I honestly think that if we never fukked then we'd still be close , but I suppose this is a reason why its wise to never fukk your best friend.

I keep it 10000% when I say this you were never friends with this chick to begin with and I don't care what you say. I 10/10 times think cats like this are just scared to tell a chick how they feel and/or get rejected and stay in the friend zone hoping for this exact situation to happen. Thats why a chick talking that she got shyt loads of men as friends cancel that bytch word to Nino. Now that thats said its nothing really to do unless you going to tell the bf what happened otherwise keep it moving.

 

[Yuzo Lightheart]

I might not ever meet this cat , I live in NY they live in Orlando.

besides ... She will break up with him either by February or b4 the next time she comes back up north in January.

Shorty is trying in vain to change but will realize that i've been the only consistent & reliable person shes had in her life.

I love her with out a doubt .. So it's probably best that I dont tell her man (I do have his # & email cause she gave it to me )


Sad ... Cause she's used dude since day one...

my fault it seemed like you were trying to say she was about to try to get dude to marry her and start a family i was like damn hes about to have his whole entire life ruined. i dont know your situation or this person but girl seem like a snake. confirm or deny

but it seems like youre trying to rationalize to yourself that shes not. thats mistake number 1, every single time

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[winb83]

Protectors, Providers, Nazis and Prostitutes.... - YouTube

Briffaults law is why I pretty much fell back on the dating scene. Paraphrased it states that all males are tools to a woman. means to an end and nothing you do for her her outside of your purpose for her dealing with you matters and once she determines that you will no longer fulfill your role as a tool or she can obtain better services elsewhere or more services elsewhere she will either terminate the relationship or and this is my addition continue the relationship under false pretense (cheat on you).

i figured out that law on my own and read it on the internet after the fact. that law is the reason "Nice guys finish last."

 

[sixsixtwo]

Pure gold from brother @Shameonyou:


"1. All women care about themselves more than anyone else....in some sort of way they express it differently, but in terms of self sacrifice for a significant other....its impossible for a woman (in my lifetime) to be 100 percent cooperative with the term "THIS IS A TEAM"...this is why they can come up with random shyt in the relationship and frame it as "being bored"...when its not that their bored, but they arent mentally mature enough to realize that life is 90 percent "RESPONSIBILITY" and 10 percent "FUN".....when they get in relationships, they switch the numbers on that equation...which proves that long term relationships with women these days are pointless.

2. They have too many options to be sneaky, to be promiscuous, and to also be disloyal. And when they do choose to be disloyal, they have the system and peers behind them to validate their disloyalty....The man loses even when hes the victim. Love is not something that has to be controlled by conditions. They can cheat, have male friends, the whole 9, and still be a victim somehow, and its ok. If the man does it, its a wrap period. Not appealing to me......

3. They dont value a true emotional bond between two people, and they cannot accept a man for who he is, because THEY CANT EVEN ACCEPT THEMSELVES....their nature is always self conscious in a way where they are always unsatisfied with who they are, so they find different mediums to change themselves. They are unstable people by nature....to think you can have a stable relationship with someone who is by nature unstable, and LIVES IN A SOCIETY that makes it easy to get away from self improvement, and introspection, makes it a stupid investment as a man to take.

I have had so many experiences of women having something real with me, to only fukk it up because they "werent ready for something that serious" or were playing mind games with their interest.

I as a man am done looking for a queen. Im just going to continue to enjoy the woman for who they are. Entertainment purposes. Thats what they want to be treated as, and their words dont say it, its their actions.



Romantic Love is not something I believe in."

 

[winb83]

I liken relationships and marriage to your car. You drive your car on a daily basis you probably like it ok but you aren't loyal to that car. if you had more money, better means, the car you're driving now would probably belong to someone else that thought it was the best they could get. hell you might have never even purchased it. you'd be driving something better and it would be nothing personal you could just do better so you did.

most people drive the best car they can afford most people marry or date the best partner they think they can get. people like to look at relationships and marriage through tinted lenses that hide the ugliness of them.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Mangina drivel:

 

[philmonroe]

I liken relationships and marriage to your car. You drive your car on a daily basis you probably like it ok but you aren't loyal to that car. if you had more money, better means, the car you're driving now would probably belong to someone else that thought it was the best they could get. hell you might have never even purchased it. you'd be driving something better and it would be nothing personal you could just do better so you did.

most people drive the best car they can afford most people marry or date the best partner they think they can get. people like to look at relationships and marriage through tinted lenses that hide the ugliness of them.

I've heard a similar thought before. Tom is that you??? lol

 

[MikelArteta]

I've heard a similar thought before. Tom is that you??? lol

tom leykis

 

[winb83]

I've heard a similar thought before. Tom is that you??? lol

its just the best comparison. a car is something most people have that while they take some level of pride in it they aren't loyal to it. its like if you hit the lotto you'd probably dump your car in a heart beat and not think twice about it.

women view men like we view cars. if this is the best i can get i'll drive it but i'll always look at those better cars out there and want them and if i have a legit chance at getting one i'm gonna trade up. nothing personal that's just life. thing is when many men get traded up they take it personal. many guys look at the cheating girlfriend and say her dude must not have been able to hit it right or he was a lame when really she just traded up.

 

[philmonroe]

its just the best comparison. a car is something most people have that while they take some level of pride in it they aren't loyal to it. its like if you hit the lotto you'd probably dump your car in a heart beat and not think twice about it.

women view men like we view cars. if this is the best i can get i'll drive it but i'll always look at those better cars out there and want them and if i have a legit chance at getting one i'm gonna trade up. nothing personal that's just life. thing is when many men get traded up they take it personal. many guys look at the cheating girlfriend and say her dude must not have been able to hit it right or he was a lame when really she just traded up.

I agree with you 100 its just funny I heard Tom Leykis say something similar a few weeks ago thats all. If its not my 95impala it can be thrown in the bushes quite easily.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 19:

I got laid again this afternoon. It was the 20 year old hipster girl from the thrift store. Dayum do I love them hipster chicks. They wanna bang like they're proving some political point or something. More to come on this at the end.

The "new" girl I approached today was a decently cute chick that I had seen briefly Saturday night but didn't really get a chance to chat up. Turns out that we go to the same law school. She was at the birthday event that I was also at, but we were both so distracted by other things we didn't really get a chance to talk. I asked her if she was at the event, just to be sure it was her and not all of a sudden start talking to a stranger about something that she knew nothing about, but as it turned out, my intuition was correct so I decided to keep going.

She was very receptive to everything that I was doing. She was looking at me like I was some sort of amazing person, so I had to hide the fact that it was giving me such a gigantic ego boost. Also, I think that I may have been shooting a little below the mark, because although she was cute, I think that I could do better. She seemed a little too excited to be talking to me, and I think that with my recent weight loss and my recent boost in confidence, I'm putting off a way more attractive aura than I have been before.

As we were chatting and we ended up talking about our mutual friend, this guy that she was apparently not into at the club where we were all partying on Saturday, and she was looking for someone to study with. It was a good excuse as any to exchange numbers, so I figured, why the hell not?

Anyway, the girl I was talking about before was the hipster girl from the thrift store from before. She was an adorable little redhead with an amazing, sweet, tight little body with a nice round ass. It was picture perfect. Mm, mm, mm. She referred to me as the "hot older guy" she really liked. Whatev. I was okay with it. I'm only 26, so I wasn't going to let my ego about my age stop me.

I caught her "by accident" at the end of her shift at the thrift store and asked what she was doing. I was done with my work tasks for the day, so I figured that it would be a good idea to ask what she was doing because I had nothing to do up until I had to go to class later. She said she was doing nothing so I jumped on the opportunity and told her that I knew a cool place in Ocean Beach she'd like.

There's a place by Sunset Cliffs here in San Diego that's kind of like a mini cove. I bring girls back there to hook up with them because they think it's romantic, it's really secluded, and nobody knows about it except me (I hope). The rocks there are covered in a relatively thick moss so it doesn't hurt when you bang because of the cushioning it provides.

Honestly, I really enjoyed her company today. I feel like I'm slowly beginning to learn that I can have brief trysts with girls and still really respect them, which is really, really exhilarating. I would love nothing more than to look back on the roster of girls that I've slept with and hope that they all went on to lead happy lives after our time together.

We went to sushi after. I know that I'm not supposed to spend too much money on girls, but I was feeling generous and I'm paid way better than she is. After that I drove her home. She was turned on by my car because she's used to cats that drive busted ass pieces of shyt. Fawk yeah!

That's new girl #2 from this experiment. Again, learn from what I'm doing right and ESPECIALLY what I'm doing wrong, and beat my score! I'm rooting for you to beat my score!!

 

[MikelArteta]

its just the best comparison. a car is something most people have that while they take some level of pride in it they aren't loyal to it. its like if you hit the lotto you'd probably dump your car in a heart beat and not think twice about it.

women view men like we view cars. if this is the best i can get i'll drive it but i'll always look at those better cars out there and want them and if i have a legit chance at getting one i'm gonna trade up. nothing personal that's just life. thing is when many men get traded up they take it personal. many guys look at the cheating girlfriend and say her dude must not have been able to hit it right or he was a lame when really she just traded up.

im content with my reliable toyota corolla

 

[kevm3]

This video just goes to show you the virulent attitude in this country. Imagine men sitting around on a talk show... an audience filled with men and several male hosts all laughing at a story of some woman getting her sexual organs cut off. Sad that the only one that really stood up was the lesbian.

 

[DaRealness]