fukking DEAD @ your avatar breh....WTF
fukking DEAD @ your avatar breh....WTF
don't even worry about that. the important thing is to not spend money on them in order to gain their affection. Seems to me like you just felt like going to eat and you felt like she was good company. nothing wrong with that. It's all about the intent behind it.Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 19:
I got laid again this afternoon. It was the 20 year old hipster girl from the thrift store. Dayum do I love them hipster chicks. They wanna bang like they're proving some political point or something. More to come on this at the end.
The "new" girl I approached today was a decently cute chick that I had seen briefly Saturday night but didn't really get a chance to chat up. Turns out that we go to the same law school. She was at the birthday event that I was also at, but we were both so distracted by other things we didn't really get a chance to talk. I asked her if she was at the event, just to be sure it was her and not all of a sudden start talking to a stranger about something that she knew nothing about, but as it turned out, my intuition was correct so I decided to keep going.
She was very receptive to everything that I was doing. She was looking at me like I was some sort of amazing person, so I had to hide the fact that it was giving me such a gigantic ego boost. Also, I think that I may have been shooting a little below the mark, because although she was cute, I think that I could do better. She seemed a little too excited to be talking to me, and I think that with my recent weight loss and my recent boost in confidence, I'm putting off a way more attractive aura than I have been before.
As we were chatting and we ended up talking about our mutual friend, this guy that she was apparently not into at the club where we were all partying on Saturday, and she was looking for someone to study with. It was a good excuse as any to exchange numbers, so I figured, why the hell not?
Anyway, the girl I was talking about before was the hipster girl from the thrift store from before. She was an adorable little redhead with an amazing, sweet, tight little body with a nice round ass. It was picture perfect. Mm, mm, mm. She referred to me as the "hot older guy" she really liked. Whatev. I was okay with it. I'm only 26, so I wasn't going to let my ego about my age stop me.
I caught her "by accident" at the end of her shift at the thrift store and asked what she was doing. I was done with my work tasks for the day, so I figured that it would be a good idea to ask what she was doing because I had nothing to do up until I had to go to class later. She said she was doing nothing so I jumped on the opportunity and told her that I knew a cool place in Ocean Beach she'd like.
There's a place by Sunset Cliffs here in San Diego that's kind of like a mini cove. I bring girls back there to hook up with them because they think it's romantic, it's really secluded, and nobody knows about it except me (I hope). The rocks there are covered in a relatively thick moss so it doesn't hurt when you bang because of the cushioning it provides.
Honestly, I really enjoyed her company today. I feel like I'm slowly beginning to learn that I can have brief trysts with girls and still really respect them, which is really, really exhilarating. I would love nothing more than to look back on the roster of girls that I've slept with and hope that they all went on to lead happy lives after our time together.
We went to sushi after. I know that I'm not supposed to spend too much money on girls, but I was feeling generous and I'm paid way better than she is. After that I drove her home. She was turned on by my car because she's used to cats that drive busted ass pieces of shyt. Fawk yeah!
That's new girl #2 from this experiment. Again, learn from what I'm doing right and ESPECIALLY what I'm doing wrong, and beat my score! I'm rooting for you to beat my score!!
Another thing im gonna put yall up on. I had a conversation with a woman and she was just talking.I wasnt interested in nothing. Talking to women is becoming entertainning,because they always tell on themselves.Long story short.Well this woman started talkin about her watch and then she says how she will get somebody to buy her Michael Kors pocketbooks and watches. Im letting you cats know about that name. If a woman tells you to buy or anything about Michael Kors watch out. He is a fashion designer and goldiggers menton that name alot.Whats sad is if she is tellin me this,this lets me know guys out there are spending their last dollars impressing women and women are clowning behind their back.One more time...if not wifey DO NOT buy expensive things or gifts at all for these women.
Another thing im gonna put yall up on. I had a conversation with a woman and she was just talking.I wasnt interested in nothing. Talking to women is becoming entertainning,because they always tell on themselves.Long story short.Well this woman started talkin about her watch and then she says how she will get somebody to buy her Michael Kors pocketbooks and watches. Im letting you cats know about that name. If a woman tells you to buy or anything about Michael Kors watch out. He is a fashion designer and goldiggers menton that name alot.Whats sad is if she is tellin me this,this lets me know guys out there are spending their last dollars impressing women and women are clowning behind their back.One more time...if not wifey DO NOT buy expensive things or gifts at all for these women.
Another thing im gonna put yall up on. I had a conversation with a woman and she was just talking.I wasnt interested in nothing. Talking to women is becoming entertainning,because they always tell on themselves.Long story short.Well this woman started talkin about her watch and then she says how she will get somebody to buy her Michael Kors pocketbooks and watches. Im letting you cats know about that name. If a woman tells you to buy or anything about Michael Kors watch out. He is a fashion designer and goldiggers menton that name alot.Whats sad is if she is tellin me this,this lets me know guys out there are spending their last dollars impressing women and women are clowning behind their back.One more time...if not wifey DO NOT buy expensive things or gifts at all for these women.
michael kors purses and christine loubutin shoes
and like i always tell men keep quiet, let women do the talking stories wont match up, and they will blabber on and on
That's what's disgusting to me. They are clowning the guys who decide to treat them generous. Instead of looking at receiving a gift from a guy as something generous and to appreciate, they will actually clown the guy and look on him as scum... and the crazy thing about it is these women will start to cry and complain when men no longer pay them attention and buy them things that they never appreciated. It's kind of like how some men will play sweet and tell a woman anything she wants to hear until he can sleep with her, and then he treats her bad afterwards or never sees her again. Women are like that except with material items.
Best to learn to say no to buying females things unless she's stayed down for you for a while.
It's sad that you have women openly plotting to manipulate men to get material possessions, and upon receiving them, they look at those men like scum of the Earth. But then again I guess women look at your time and your material resources at how a man looks at a woman's sexuality. The more stingy you are with it, the higher you are looked upon.
Thats the thing. It goes back to the nice guy-bad guy issue. Hold door open for them,buy them flowers,gifts. You get clowned and taken advantage of. Ignore them,show up with a different woman she will love you.its crazy man...women love drama and arent happy unless they are unhappy.I think deep down women love material things more then men. You could be in a relationship with her for months and tell her "baby i think you need to save the $100 and not buy the shoes". All of a sudden she will ignore your advice,buy the shoes and then dump you.Its sad man..
That's what's disgusting to me. They are clowning the guys who decide to treat them generous. Instead of looking at receiving a gift from a guy as something generous and to appreciate, they will actually clown the guy and look on him as scum... and the crazy thing about it is these women will start to cry and complain when men no longer pay them attention and buy them things that they never appreciated. It's kind of like how some men will play sweet and tell a woman anything she wants to hear until he can sleep with her, and then he treats her bad afterwards or never sees her again. Women are like that except with material items.
Best to learn to say no to buying females things unless she's stayed down for you for a while.
It's sad that you have women openly plotting to manipulate men to get material possessions, and upon receiving them, they look at those men like scum of the Earth. But then again I guess women look at your time and your material resources at how a man looks at a woman's sexuality. The more stingy you are with it, the higher you are looked upon.
(Funny story: I once agreed to meet one guy from Match for lunch; so I showed up to the restaurant and wait by the bar. He ends up being 20 minutes late after our original time was already pushed back an entire half hour; and he literally rode his bike from NJ to meet me in Chelsea, so here I am decked out in Chanel and Gucci, and this guy rolls up in a sweaty bike-riding outfit of a t-shirt and some old jeans and beat up sneakers. Our lunch, turned out to solely be drinks...it gets worse but long story short - when I say that I stress first impressions and presentation; trust that I mean it! Please, if you're trying to meet me, at least look presentable.)