Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sharp]

Was listening to Keyshia Cole's new album over the weekend, and she has this song called "I Choose You" which has some interesting lyrics and in my opinion explains everything that is wrong with relationships. Here's a lyric snippet

So many things he does for me
Such a provider he cares for me
Wish I could give him all of me
But I can't, can't let you go
I tried hating you, but I just love you more
Compared him to you, but he can't match your score
In this game of love, there's no rules
When it comes to us, I choose you.



This is a prime example of how women think. Here she acknowledges that the new dude treats her good, yet she can't commit to him because she's in love with the ex who apparently did something to her in the past. And then she goes on to say that no matter how good this new guy treats me, he will never compare to the ex.

You have to stay away from women like that. WOmen who have ex's that they've been with for a long time are bad investments. You would want to date women who have been single for quite some time who have no attachments to former boyfriends.

She just broke up with her ex 2 months ago.... eh, you might just want to casually date or remain friends with her.

Her ex is constantly emailing her, sending her things, stopping by her house even though she claims she is through with him...... eh, you might want to let that one go.

Trying to compete with him for her is a waste of time... History over who treats her better. This is the criteria of most women.

 

[MikelArteta]

Since I've been on my avoidance for like two months I've been at peace, I recommend every man even for a month ignore women the happiness in your life will increase greatly.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Was listening to Keyshia Cole's new album over the weekend, and she has this song called "I Choose You" which has some interesting lyrics and in my opinion explains everything that is wrong with relationships. Here's a lyric snippet

So many things he does for me
Such a provider he cares for me
Wish I could give him all of me
But I can't, can't let you go
I tried hating you, but I just love you more
Compared him to you, but he can't match your score
In this game of love, there's no rules
When it comes to us, I choose you.



This is a prime example of how women think. Here she acknowledges that the new dude treats her good, yet she can't commit to him because she's in love with the ex who apparently did something to her in the past. And then she goes on to say that no matter how good this new guy treats me, he will never compare to the ex.

You have to stay away from women like that. WOmen who have ex's that they've been with for a long time are bad investments. You would want to date women who have been single for quite some time who have no attachments to former boyfriends.

She just broke up with her ex 2 months ago.... eh, you might just want to casually date or remain friends with her.

Her ex is constantly emailing her, sending her things, stopping by her house even though she claims she is through with him...... eh, you might want to let that one go.

Trying to compete with him for her is a waste of time... History over who treats her better. This is the criteria of most women.

Good post, I'm going to DL the album now.. Textbook hypergamy/solipism in those lyrics there..

 

[MikelArteta]

Was listening to Keyshia Cole's new album over the weekend, and she has this song called "I Choose You" which has some interesting lyrics and in my opinion explains everything that is wrong with relationships. Here's a lyric snippet

So many things he does for me
Such a provider he cares for me
Wish I could give him all of me
But I can't, can't let you go
I tried hating you, but I just love you more
Compared him to you, but he can't match your score
In this game of love, there's no rules
When it comes to us, I choose you.



This is a prime example of how women think. Here she acknowledges that the new dude treats her good, yet she can't commit to him because she's in love with the ex who apparently did something to her in the past. And then she goes on to say that no matter how good this new guy treats me, he will never compare to the ex.

You have to stay away from women like that. WOmen who have ex's that they've been with for a long time are bad investments. You would want to date women who have been single for quite some time who have no attachments to former boyfriends.

She just broke up with her ex 2 months ago.... eh, you might just want to casually date or remain friends with her.

Her ex is constantly emailing her, sending her things, stopping by her house even though she claims she is through with him...... eh, you might want to let that one go.

Trying to compete with him for her is a waste of time... History over who treats her better. This is the criteria of most women.

Even that new Rihanna and Chris brown song, women rarely know what love is just infatuation addiction.

Chicks will mess with the worst men on the planet get a good guy and sill fawn over the dude who almost beat her to death or cheated on her

The best thing you can do as a man is mot care if your in that situation run, women cannot be saved or their mind change.

I've been there I've been left and cheated on for the abusive ex, enjoy that black eye and the constant drama I say.

When you get to that point as a man when you no longer care

 

[MikelArteta]

Let me tell you about t weekend, on Saturday I couldn't sleep I got up 5am, grabbe my passport got in my car and drove a hour and a half to Niagara Falls, crossed the border did some shopping hit up the casino, gambled, went shopping and headed back home at about 2pm, watched football for the rest of the day till about 1am. And slept in till 12 pm on Sunday.

No responsibilities, no nagging chick telling me we need to save, no crying little baby, I just got up felt like doing something and did it.

Next week I may head down to Detroit if I feel like it, maybe ill just hop on a megabus to New York City and spend a few nights in a time square hotel.

 

[MikelArteta]

I remember the girl i dated senior year. in hindsight, she was horrible person. rotten to the core but, she had body and the sex was her moms adored me, like she used to invite me over for dinner all the time, ask what I liked to eat Became my second mom basically one day, I drove her to the store and she was just like "what you doing with my daughter?" "You a good, young man but, I know my daughter and she just gonna fukk it up. Do yourself a favor"



Should've been a huge glaring sign but, I was caught up on her looks. Alot of moms can pick out the good ones better than their daughters cuz they know which nikkas gonna grow up to be jokers and which ones got they head right If I could've packaged her mom into my ex's body, she would've been perfect

I mentioned this earlier in this thread moms can pick out great men. Especially if their daughter has always been dating horrible guys once she gets a good guy she will start asking really nice to that guy, will bring out her daughter doesn't deserve you to make you feel special and more than likely her daughter will f it up


Out of say the 3 major relationships in my life that lasted over a year I still talk to 2/3 mothers

 

[sixsixtwo]

"Yes, marriage in America is fukked up, like everything else in American society. But there are other countries in this world. Marriage-related disenchantment stems from unrealistic expectations. If a man marries a woman for the right reasons (e.g., she has good genes, good health, good values, money, ability to birth children and be a good mother), then marriage is wonderful. What fukks up marriage? Unrealistic expectations such as:

•marrying because one's in love: sorry, but marriage is about parenting and property. People marry people of similar means and values. The caste system never truly went away.

•marrying because one's horny: sorry, but marriage is about parenting and property. If you're horny, get a mistress. Fall in love with her, fall out of love. Get a new mistress. Rinse and repeat. Be discreet about such infidelity. Do not bring shame to your family.

•marrying because one's lonely: echoing Gordon Gekko, get a dog. A woman can never be a true friend. A woman is a baby-factory, a sex-provider, or the mother of your children. If you desperately need companionship, get housemates.


This is how things used to work: marriage is business, love is leisure. Mixing the two is unprofessional."

Source: Marriage is for Pussies

 

[winb83]

The thing most guys gotta come to terms with is while woman are attracted to men and want a good man typically their number one priority is running shyt test to see if they can leverage their vagina into free stuff and preferential treatment.

women want a good man like a morbidly obese person whats the body of Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime. yeah they would love to have that but deep down the effort it takes to achieve it is too much and they ain't putting in that kinda work.

this shyt is all about taking your emotions and your ego out of the game and only thinking logically. once emotions and ego come into play you're likely to do shyt that's gonna get you taken advantage of. i don't even see it as malicious intent. women take advantage of men because society conditions them to not take responsibility for themselves and feel entitled to shyt because they have a vagina. it happens the moment you first meet her and go out on that date. she deep down feels like she shouldn't have to pay for her way. the attitude carries its way all the way to her feeling like you should take several months of your hard earned wages and buy a ring and get down on one knee and ask her to consider accepting to enter a binding legal agreement with you that carries stiff penalties on you if you exit it. it carries past that to the eventual divorce where she feels like she should get the house, get the car, get paid just because she said yes to your previous gesture and it didn't work out.

the attitude i've adopted and i'll have this for the rest of my life is cynicism. i'm always looking for what they're trying to get out of me. i don't blame them for trying but i know its coming and i expect it. this is the only way to deal with women and not get taken for what you got.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[Doctor Wily]

Alright here is my situation , my best friend of 10 years caught feelings after we has sex
We never even entertained the thought cause I always looked at her like a little sister (shes exactly 5 years younger than me we share the same birthday).



Problem is she was with a dude she never really took serious until dude got into a car accident and fell into a coma... Now she wants to start a family and all that fluffy shyt.

Funny shyt is ... The day he got into the car accident we had sex that night plus the day after.

I guess she felt guilty :Manny: now that shes with him full time weve hardly spoken the past two months other than emails.

When I tell you me & her were as close as two people could be without being with each other its crazy...our familes are close ... We even share accounts fb/financial almost everytging.


she does none of that with her man , shyt is confusing cause she trusts me with everything & always had.... Until recently.
I honestly think that if we never fukked then we'd still be close , but I suppose this is a reason why its wise to never fukk your best friend.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Women Are Like Bread

 

[Yuzo Lightheart]

Protectors, Providers, Nazis and Prostitutes.... - YouTube

ether

 

[CrossBones]

Chad Ochocinco's Baby Momma Wants Him In Jail Over Late Child Support! - YouTube

"Bobby Sherrill, a Lockheed employee in Kuwait from North Carolina, was captured by Iraqis and spent nearly five months as an Iraqi hostage. Sherrill was arrested the night after his release for not paying $1,425 in child support while he was a hostage.[6][7][8]


Clarence Brandley, a Texas high school janitor, was wrongly convicted in 1980 of murder. [9] After spending many years in prison and on death row,[10] he was released in 1990 and he then sued the state of Texas for wrongful imprisonment in 1993.[11] The state then responded with a bill for nearly $50,000 in child support that had not been paid while in prison.[12] Dianna Thompson of The American Coalition of Fathers and Children told the Houston Chronicle that federal law makes it illegal for states to forgive child support payments regardless of circumstance. [13] Michael McCormick, of the American Coalition of Fathers and Children said, concerning child support payments, "I'm not aware of any state where it says a wrongly convicted individual is relieved of their obligation." [14] Despite paying child support every month since his release via wage garnishment, Brandley's child support total reached $73,000 in 2003, when a judge reduced his total to $22,000; however, this amount is still more than triple the $7,000 in back child support Brandley owed at the time of his arrest in 1980. [15] Recently, Brandley lost his job in the economic downturn in 2008; he has since lost his car and house as the child support bills and interest keep coming.[16]


Taron James, a U.S. Navy veteran from California, was forced to continue to pay child support until 2006, even after the child was demonstrated by DNA test in 2001 to be not his; James paid $12,000 in such payments.[17][18][19] A California District Court of Appeal eventually set aside the paternity judgment against James in 2006, but the same court denied James' request to have his child support payments reimbursed."

Bradley Amendment - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

this shyt is crazy! what the f

look, if a man serves the military, comes back to a disloyal spouse, and gets locked up for a few gs in child support to his EX, let me ask you something...

did that baby die in this supposed time where those thousands of dollars werent paid to the ho? did the woman starve, otherwise have to damn near commit a crime to take care of this child and herself (which would make her an unfit parent and a socially irrisponsible woman, reagardless)? or did this person manage to live, take care of her WON OVER responsibility, and prove that the whole thing is just a scam?


I thought bytches were independant. thats why theyre up and leaving so much. now they leave a man and say they cant handle it on their own, filing false claims on him to get his dough. the fukk you look like financing an extravagant lifestyle for someone who left you? making him pay the mother straight cash in excess like they were still together is stupid.

at the most it should only be money from the man that is transferred into paying a percentage of the food card and to the state for school expenses for the kid. giving cash is dumb. you never know WHERE the shyt is really going to. thats irresponsible. I say no shoe money for these hoes. taking care of living and clothes shold be the owmans role. thats all theyre mostly good at anyways. give the kid enough on a card to be straight with food and school. we need to get the mothers to be accountable for her own responsibilites too. let her handle her own problems. shyt it was her choice to leave him. should leave all that candy and gold behind too. give her nothing. give the kid a card to buy food and help him stay in school and thats it.

 

[Yuzo Lightheart]

Alright here is my situation , my best friend of 10 years caught feelings after we has sex
We never even entertained the thought cause I always looked at her like a little sister (shes exactly 5 years younger than me we share the same birthday).



Problem is she was with a dude she never really took serious until dude got into a car accident and fell into a coma... Now she wants to start a family and all that fluffy shyt.

Funny shyt is ... The day he got into the car accident we had sex that night plus the day after.

I guess she felt guilty :Manny: now that shes with him full time weve hardly spoken the past two months other than emails.

When I tell you me & her were as close as two people could be without being with each other its crazy...our familes are close ... We even share accounts fb/financial almost everytging.


she does none of that with her man , shyt is confusing cause she trusts me with everything & always had.... Until recently.
I honestly think that if we never fukked then we'd still be close , but I suppose this is a reason why its wise to never fukk your best friend.

if you care about human life, you should tell him that story

 

[Doctor Wily]

if you care about human life, you should tell him that story

I might not ever meet this cat , I live in NY they live in Orlando.

besides ... She will break up with him either by February or b4 the next time she comes back up north in January.

Shorty is trying in vain to change but will realize that i've been the only consistent & reliable person shes had in her life.

I love her with out a doubt .. So it's probably best that I dont tell her man (I do have his # & email cause she gave it to me )


Sad ... Cause she's used dude since day one...