Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So I’m with this chick and we’ve been “dating” I guess you could say, I’ve hit it a couple of times but these weeks - girl been too busy with class and shyt so I’ve started talking to this other chick:shaq:

And she tells me today she’s into me

My inner scumbag is telling me to fukk around with both at the same time but a small part of me is feeling guilty just thinking about it :unsure:
Unless the first one made it clear she wants to be exclusive then you are just limiting yourself.
 

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Been a while since I posted here but in order for a man to actually be sane in functioning with today's dating world, A man has to have to have options. These females aren't giving two fukks.. I had a female friend today who told me that she's trying to choose in dating between 2 guys.She got one dude whom is Guy A. buying and take her to dinner and got the other dude Guy B whom basically blowing her back out. None of them know bout one another. The nikkah whom is "courting her" and trying to get to know her by taking her to dinner is catching the big L because the other dude is tapping that ass with little effort.

The cold part is most guys are pretty much Guy A and that's whats leading to frustration amongst men. I was Guy A myself before and I vowed to never put myself in that situation again.

Another thing is I learned is sometimes you can be doing everything RIGHT and the bytch can just drop out of sight.. We can't always blame ourselves for what these flake bytches do. This is why threads like this is important and I salute yall.


AWALT - All women are like that. Always expect them to do one thing all the time...be flakes. Women don't know what they want, only want they like.

With that posted, its best to work on yourself, women are byproduct of a good life well lived, not the reward.
 

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AWALT - All women are like that. Always expect them to do one thing all the time...be flakes. Women don't know what they want, only want they like.

With that posted, its best to work on yourself, women are byproduct of a good life well lived, not the reward.

The bolded is gospel to paul breh:salute::salute::salute:

i had to open up my notepad app and write that shyt down. Ive been chasing women, when really, they should be chasing me. Thanks for the moment of clarity
 

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You tried to hit?
Creh, this shyt wasn't happening. Didn't even get to that point. I aint holding on for hope, my time and energy are better spent going elsehwere

**Treating a fine bytch like she's the only fine bytch in the world is the opposite of what we need to be doing outchea**
 
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See thats the problem, we're quick to call ourselves scumbags because we naturally hunt prey. Cut that shyt out. You're a man, a leader, name one thing the average girl is better than you at? You want to know scumbag behavior? Leading simps on with pictures of your ass on the internet. My having options is clever, not scummy. If you're ever feeling guilty, realize that the women you're sleeping with, have several options available to them at all times in their DMS and PMs.
i had to bold and upsize this. my pops instilled this in me when i was a little one. :wow:

and its something most dudes fail to grasp. a lot of us dont realize our value or our worth

the next time you see a fire ass broad and that cold, tight feeling fills your chest and youre afraid to approach her...

or that dime that you met is flaking and playing games and she's got you feeling needy and off your square...

remind yourself that youre a man. you got the spirit of pharoahs, warriors, leaders and emperors in your dna. youre in the gym, stackin your paper, working on that promotion, getting your degree, reading books, building a business, mastering a craft/skill, eating healthy, bettering your social circle, getting your passport inked up. and if youre not on this path...you should be

and then ask yourself why youre scared of this bytch who works at chik-fil-a, pushes a '14 charger thats out for repo, and stays in her aunties spare bedroom on an air mattress?

all because she got a tight ass body and a pretty face? :rudy:

its rare to meet an exceptional chick.

most girls aint bringing shyt to the table besides p*ssy. and truth be told, many just lay there while we put in the work

so ask yourself again...name one thing the average girl is better than you at?

and if you can...its time to put in work breh :youngsabo:
 
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i had to bold and upsize this. my pops instilled this in me when i was a little one. :wow:

and its something most dudes fail to grasp. a lot of us dont realize our value or our worth

the next time you see a fire ass broad and that cold, tight feeling fills your chest and youre afraid to approach her...

or that dime that you met is flaking and playing games and she's got you feeling needy and off your square...

remind yourself that youre a man. you got the spirit of pharoahs, warriors, leaders and emperors in your dna. youre in the gym, stackin your paper, working on that promotion, getting your degree, reading books, building a business, mastering a craft/skill, eating healthy, bettering your social circle, getting your passport inked up. and if youre not on this path...you should be

and then ask yourself why youre scared of this bytch who works at chik-fil-a, pushes a '14 charger thats out for repo, and stays in her aunties spare bedroom on an air mattress?

all because she got a tight ass body and a pretty face? :rudy:

its rare to meet an exceptional chick.

most girls aint bringing shyt to the table besides p*ssy. and truth be told, many just lay there while we put in the work

so ask yourself again...name one thing the average girl is better than you at?

and if you cant...its time to put in work breh :youngsabo:


What greater being is there than man? And who are we not to be great? Who are we to deny greatness? If we would deny it to ourselves, we would deny it to the entire world.....


and we will not be denied.

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i had to bold and upsize this. my pops instilled this in me when i was a little one. :wow:

and its something most dudes fail to grasp. a lot of us dont realize our value or our worth

the next time you see a fire ass broad and that cold, tight feeling fills your chest and youre afraid to approach her...

or that dime that you met is flaking and playing games and she's got you feeling needy and off your square...

remind yourself that youre a man. you got the spirit of pharoahs, warriors, leaders and emperors in your dna. youre in the gym, stackin your paper, working on that promotion, getting your degree, reading books, building a business, mastering a craft/skill, eating healthy, bettering your social circle, getting your passport inked up. and if youre not on this path...you should be

and then ask yourself why youre scared of this bytch who works at chik-fil-a, pushes a '14 charger thats out for repo, and stays in her aunties spare bedroom on an air mattress?

all because she got a tight ass body and a pretty face? :rudy:

its rare to meet an exceptional chick.

most girls aint bringing shyt to the table besides p*ssy. and truth be told, many just lay there while we put in the work

so ask yourself again...name one thing the average girl is better than you at?

and if you cant...its time to put in work breh :youngsabo:

Needed this.
 

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i had to bold and upsize this. my pops instilled this in me when i was a little one. :wow:

and its something most dudes fail to grasp. a lot of us dont realize our value or our worth

the next time you see a fire ass broad and that cold, tight feeling fills your chest and youre afraid to approach her...

or that dime that you met is flaking and playing games and she's got you feeling needy and off your square...

remind yourself that youre a man. you got the spirit of pharoahs, warriors, leaders and emperors in your dna. youre in the gym, stackin your paper, working on that promotion, getting your degree, reading books, building a business, mastering a craft/skill, eating healthy, bettering your social circle, getting your passport inked up. and if youre not on this path...you should be

and then ask yourself why youre scared of this bytch who works at chik-fil-a, pushes a '14 charger thats out for repo, and stays in her aunties spare bedroom on an air mattress?

all because she got a tight ass body and a pretty face? :rudy:

its rare to meet an exceptional chick.

most girls aint bringing shyt to the table besides p*ssy. and truth be told, many just lay there while we put in the work

so ask yourself again...name one thing the average girl is better than you at?

and if you cant...its time to put in work breh :youngsabo:
Wow, I needed to hear this today :wow:
 
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