I don't know the situation but brehs need to block and delete numbers. Y'all just be feeding women egos. Do better next time.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I don't know the situation but brehs need to block and delete numbers. Y'all just be feeding women egos. Do better next time.
now you know to never do it again
all those texts and reaching out after a time never end well ad you always kick yourself
on the other hand somtimes its a good nail in the coffin
Dreamzeedream
Banned
With people in general. I had to learn that later on. I was the quiet type
PewPew
I came from nothing
Took a couple painful Ls recently so I thought I’ll share what I learned.
1. Never try to buy a women’s attention/affection with money. If she likes you, she will want to spend TIME with you, and not just when you’re wining and dining.
2. Never let a chick know you’re feeling her unless she makes it painfully obvious that the feeling is mutual. When you let them know you’re feeling them first is when you’ve lost all leverage.
3. Never be all the way honest with a chick that you’re not in a relationship with. As far as they know, you should always be doing well in life and at work.
4. Stay in the gym. Even if you have ZERO game, being in shape makes you stand out more than the other out of shape men.
5. Never ask for anything from them more than once. For example, a date. If you ask and they say anything else but yes, dead the whole conversation and don’t bring it up again until they mention something about it.
6. Know when to walk away. At some point, there’s only so many shots you can shoot at the basket. Learn how to walk away and stay away. Either they come back to you first and you keep fukking, or they don’t and you move on with your life.
7. Learn to say no, even if/when you have the capability to fulfill their request.
8. Don’t believe anything they say, just listen and watch their actions. Their actions will tell you more about how they feel towards you then their words every will.
I’m Lowkey going into hibernation. Going to focus on work, working out, and saving money until my birthday in February.
It’s funny, I got a white bytch who only wants me to smut her out. She gets off on being my personal cum slut, but the crazy part is that she has a boyfriend who she’s only with for “emotional support.” He knows that she’s fukking other people but from the way she describes him, he’s a lame incel who still lives at home with his parents. He’s 37.
I got another white chick who’s damn near in love with me. I can call her right now and tell her let’s go out and she’s with it. But I can’t wife up a pale face.
But the chick I actually want doesn’t want me, which made me question myself for a bit. But I realized that for the right person, I’m more than enough. So I’m done jumping though hoops for women. Either love me or leave me alone
1. Never try to buy a women’s attention/affection with money. If she likes you, she will want to spend TIME with you, and not just when you’re wining and dining.
2. Never let a chick know you’re feeling her unless she makes it painfully obvious that the feeling is mutual. When you let them know you’re feeling them first is when you’ve lost all leverage.
3. Never be all the way honest with a chick that you’re not in a relationship with. As far as they know, you should always be doing well in life and at work.
4. Stay in the gym. Even if you have ZERO game, being in shape makes you stand out more than the other out of shape men.
5. Never ask for anything from them more than once. For example, a date. If you ask and they say anything else but yes, dead the whole conversation and don’t bring it up again until they mention something about it.
6. Know when to walk away. At some point, there’s only so many shots you can shoot at the basket. Learn how to walk away and stay away. Either they come back to you first and you keep fukking, or they don’t and you move on with your life.
7. Learn to say no, even if/when you have the capability to fulfill their request.
8. Don’t believe anything they say, just listen and watch their actions. Their actions will tell you more about how they feel towards you then their words every will.
I’m Lowkey going into hibernation. Going to focus on work, working out, and saving money until my birthday in February.
It’s funny, I got a white bytch who only wants me to smut her out. She gets off on being my personal cum slut, but the crazy part is that she has a boyfriend who she’s only with for “emotional support.” He knows that she’s fukking other people but from the way she describes him, he’s a lame incel who still lives at home with his parents. He’s 37.
I got another white chick who’s damn near in love with me. I can call her right now and tell her let’s go out and she’s with it. But I can’t wife up a pale face.
But the chick I actually want doesn’t want me, which made me question myself for a bit. But I realized that for the right person, I’m more than enough. So I’m done jumping though hoops for women. Either love me or leave me alone
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Option AOption A: Guaranteed cheekz or Option B: pre gaming with a lady friend then bar hopping with her friends in DC
Question for you guys:
So I got this chick that I used to mess with. She’s the flaky type so I’ve falled way back. She’ll still hit me up just to text/facetime. Cool, I’m not the kind of person to not text back to prove a point. I’m more of the type of person to address an issue rather than be passive.
I’m wondering if I should be upfront and set boundaries on how we relate or simply just “match her energy”.
So I got this chick that I used to mess with. She’s the flaky type so I’ve falled way back. She’ll still hit me up just to text/facetime. Cool, I’m not the kind of person to not text back to prove a point. I’m more of the type of person to address an issue rather than be passive.
I’m wondering if I should be upfront and set boundaries on how we relate or simply just “match her energy”.
PewPew
I came from nothing
I think you should set the tone/energy. One thing I’ve learned is that chicks will only go as far as you allow them. So if you don’t like her only hitting you up when it’s good for her, then let her know. Or rather, you start texting her more if you like, and if the energy is not returned, toss her to the bushes
My issue is setting up plans. Flaking, then hittin me up a couple days later like it’s all gravy. I may call her and address it or just wait till she calls back. One breh here told me to just fall back. Way back.
Naw that’s grounds for shrubbery
Vinny Lupton
Superstar
Just bjshed a fine fine ass girl for dry ass conversation. Once you hit me with that "oh that's good" you are going to bush world
Dreamzeedream
Banned
The convos are always dry?
Vinny Lupton
Superstar
She started normal then got dry later on. Fdb
So I’m with this chick and we’ve been “dating” I guess you could say, I’ve hit it a couple of times but these weeks - girl been too busy with class and shyt so I’ve started talking to this other chick
And she tells me today she’s into me
My inner scumbag is telling me to fukk around with both at the same time but a small part of me is feeling guilty just thinking about it
And she tells me today she’s into me
My inner scumbag is telling me to fukk around with both at the same time but a small part of me is feeling guilty just thinking about it
Been a while since I posted here but in order for a man to actually be sane in functioning with today's dating world, A man has to have to have options. These females aren't giving two fukks.. I had a female friend today who told me that she's trying to choose in dating between 2 guys.She got one dude whom is Guy A. buying and take her to dinner and got the other dude Guy B whom basically blowing her back out. None of them know bout one another. The nikkah whom is "courting her" and trying to get to know her by taking her to dinner is catching the big L because the other dude is tapping that ass with little effort.
The cold part is most guys are pretty much Guy A and that's whats leading to frustration amongst men. I was Guy A myself before and I vowed to never put myself in that situation again.
Another thing is I learned is sometimes you can be doing everything RIGHT and the bytch can just drop out of sight.. We can't always blame ourselves for what these flake bytches do. This is why threads like this is important and I salute yall.
The cold part is most guys are pretty much Guy A and that's whats leading to frustration amongst men. I was Guy A myself before and I vowed to never put myself in that situation again.
Another thing is I learned is sometimes you can be doing everything RIGHT and the bytch can just drop out of sight.. We can't always blame ourselves for what these flake bytches do. This is why threads like this is important and I salute yall.
Killigraphy
Banned
So I’m with this chick and we’ve been “dating” I guess you could say, I’ve hit it a couple of times but these weeks - girl been too busy with class and shyt so I’ve started talking to this other chick
And she tells me today she’s into me
My inner scumbag is telling me to fukk around with both at the same time but a small part of me is feeling guilty just thinking about it
See thats the problem, we're quick to call ourselves scumbags because we naturally hunt prey. Cut that shyt out. You're a man, a leader, name one thing the average girl is better than you at? You want to know scumbag behavior? Leading simps on with pictures of your ass on the internet. My having options is clever, not scummy. If you're ever feeling guilty, realize that the women you're sleeping with, have several options available to them at all times in their DMS and PMs.