Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Dreamzeedream

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Real talk, where y’all find these bum ass bytches? I’ve never had a woman even fix her face to ask me for any money. I’d immediately cut off a shorty for a violation like that.
You never had nobody you was fuxking or in a relationship ask you for anything. As far as gifts/Money... stuff like that?
 

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The woman doesn't have to be a bum bytch to ask for money. It's most likely the way they perceive you as a man. The factors are If the woman respects you and if they feel like they can get over on you.

You are treated the way you carry yourself. If you genuinely care or seem like a nice person they will try to exploit you.

You don't even have to be a simp but they see a weakness that you may carry and the exploitation begins. They have been manipulating their parents since they were babies, it's been engrained in them since the beginning of time.

I don't care if they needed rent money yesterday, if they respect you or know the answer they feel better off asking the other nikkas on her roster, their father, brother , cousin , co workers, someone on social media or the 3 other simps begging for their p*ssy. Best believe the 3 other simps that don't know a bit of the game will work overtime to get them that cash.

Most likely she already had the money or was just lackadaisical about getting it and felt better having you do the good deed of helping her out.

It's like if you are dealing with a thot vs a wholesome lady, would you initially try to push for sex or act disrespectfully to the wholesome lady as much as the thot? No , but ole girl that's been passed around and smash the homies in 2 hours of meeting her will be treated in a different manner.

I don't care if you are no fap November and you needed p*ssy yesterday you will not treat the wholesome lady like the thot.
True. They treat you on how you carry yourself. I learned not to show weakness in front of them. But they a still ask you for something tho no matter tho. You just gotta make sure they'll do the same for you
 

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You never had nobody you was fuxking or in a relationship ask you for anything. As far as gifts/Money... stuff like that?

These dudes aren’t breaking bread on women within the confines of a relationship. And I’m not giving a chick any bread just because I’m hitting. They don’t ask.
 

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I see why dudes say to keep a roster of ladies while still dating around until you really settle down with one lady.

Even if you aren't necessarily intimate with them, it's good to socialize with a variety of women. I think a lot of young brehs are struggling with the bolded.
 

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I see why dudes say to keep a roster of ladies while still dating around until you really settle down with one lady.

Even if you aren't necessarily intimate with them, it's good to socialize with a variety of women. I think a lot of young brehs are struggling with the bolded.

keeps me fresh and i don't simp one chick gets out of line adios back in th day i'd be like :mjcry: i have nothing
 

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Option A: Guaranteed cheekz or Option B: pre gaming with a lady friend then bar hopping with her friends in DC :patrice:
 
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when youre on a first date and a chick is diggin you, ready to fukk and you DONT purse the smash...a lot of girls fall all the way back from you. they feel SUPER rejected that you didnt fukk. and we know women take rejection much worse than we do. they get insecure as fukk :heh:

theres a couple of things that go thru their minds when you dont fukk:

-they think theyre not pretty enough or they did something wrong
-they feel slutty for putting sex out on the table like that and cant justify it since nothing happened
-they think you your game must be wack and see you as lame
-some might say youre a fukkin fakkit and scared of p*ssy

girls aint dumb. they think all brehs wanna fukk...which we do (and so do they). they know its on your mind, so when she gives you the green light...and you dont hit it...they're like "wtf? he doesnt want this??"

when i go out with a girl, the plan is to hit the first night. always. and if shes showing the signs...its going down. always go for the smash brehs. even if it doesnt happen that night...you let her know that youre a man who goes for what he wants.

some chicks only give you one shot. if you miss the opportunity, they might keep you around afterwards for the attention, but the chances of you fukkin are slim to none.
Good advice. As men we are taught be polite gentlemen so some brehs choke up on the first date
 

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This a big reason even though I have pretty fine text game I hate it at the same time. I naturally have a very dark, idifferent aura and just these past few months Ive just said fukk it and accepted it whereaways in the past Ive dialed it back. Its almost comical how most women look at you with that kind of nebulous arrogance.

"Who does this nikka think he is, why does he behave like he doesnt give two shyts about what people think about him? I feel hes not physically dangerous but hes kind of scary."

And for whatever reason thats attractive to them :pachaha: Im like fukk! I could just been literally being myself with some dash of outsode wisdom this whole time and got so much farther along between refining tactics and shyt. My sister friend just moved here and wanted to chill. Thats my sis bf so I had no interntions of smashing. But just chilling shes touching me my hair, saying she dont remember being yhis attractive. Was interesting cuz I was just literally chilling at my crib doin nothing of note but talking. Im pretty eloquent so its easy for me to convey what I mean over text but all too often I feel I be sloppy with it because Im verbose af. In person the vibe be night and day. I stay having women on edge for no reason and it feels ridiculous.

No lie, I have the same dark triad personality but I'm more uncensored which has gotten me in a lot of trouble:lolbron:

But at the same time, chicks have a dark side of them as well. I'm talking about chicks that are manipulative, conniving, etc. They try to fukk with your head so they make you more invested in them. The real cats prevail tho
 

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one thing i like doing is having women on edge around or when talking to me. Like, if they are too comfortable around you is when i feel they can tend to get outta pocket.

its like approaching a pot that was just on the stove and you not sure whether or not its hot and if its okay to touch it. I carry that same principle over to women.

its always better to have a woman frustrated, confused and unsure about how you feel towards her rather than have her know you're feeling her.

let doubt linger in her mind.
Real shyt...and I see it more with these young chicks...they're used to dudes fukking going overboard to act like a goofball to impress them.


Certain ones(usually black/latina broads) when you have them on edge they get a little bytchy ..

It's also good to not engage in fukkery with women...it took some maturing but if you run into a bytch who gets outta pocket you gotta try your best to act as if they're nothing to you.

I'm 28..but look way younger, so this has almost always happened with older,broads most often fat...don't even know them but they'll go outta there way to be rude to me...whether it's because they're crushing or they're just miserable, I don't care...engaging in that bullshyt only validates them and makes them happy.

All this is shyt from experience:mjgrin:

Had some fat white bytch popping shyt for like 20mins when I was playing guitar on a friday outside the bars....I ignored her for awhile but I was new to playing in public and gave that bytch what she wanted when I acknowledged her:snoop:



TLDR: Don't engage in petty back and forths with women brehs.....we're supposed to be KINGS, would a King argue with some petty bytch?:mjpls:
 

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This a big reason even though I have pretty fine text game I hate it at the same time. I naturally have a very dark, idifferent aura and just these past few months Ive just said fukk it and accepted it whereaways in the past Ive dialed it back. Its almost comical how most women look at you with that kind of nebulous arrogance.

"Who does this nikka think he is, why does he behave like he doesnt give two shyts about what people think about him? I feel hes not physically dangerous but hes kind of scary."


And for whatever reason thats attractive to them :pachaha: Im like fukk! I could just been literally being myself with some dash of outsode wisdom this whole time and got so much farther along between refining tactics and shyt. My sister friend just moved here and wanted to chill. Thats my sis bf so I had no interntions of smashing. But just chilling shes touching me my hair, saying she dont remember being yhis attractive. Was interesting cuz I was just literally chilling at my crib doin nothing of note but talking. Im pretty eloquent so its easy for me to convey what I mean over text but all too often I feel I be sloppy with it because Im verbose af. In person the vibe be night and day. I stay having women on edge for no reason and it feels ridiculous.

I'm finding more and more that women aren't as confident in themselves as they like to portray on social media.

Alot be insecure,socially awkward and wish they could live without thinking what others think about them. Which is why it is so essential for brehs to gain confidence in themselves,and why women are attracted to it,and wanna leach onto it. It's like they want your confidence to rub off on them...(I mean men are supposed to lead so this makes sense)
 

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Against my better judgement, I reached out to her to tell her Happy Thanksgiving and if she went back home because she has no family in her current location. Left on read.
 
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