Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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her: "what's your sign"
me: :stopitslime:
her: "just asking because i need to stay away from geminis" :hamster:
me: astrology is nonsense.
her: "some of it is true, it can be really accurate"
me: not according to logic. or reality. or science. right? we both agree on that? :hhh:
her: "you're lowkey rude" :usure:
me: :hubie:
her: what are your intentions with me?:hamster:
me: i'm just tryna get to know u, if we vibe then we see where it goes
her: THAT'S IT???:damn:
me: hit info in imessage --> hit name --->scroll down ---> block this caller

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My boys girl called him cheap cause he won’t take her shopping, meanwhile she’s rocking an expensive watch he recently purchased for her and covers all meals and expenses when they go out. These heauxs are so ungrateful :wow:
Your boy need to learn how to walk away. It’s clearly she don’t respect him
 

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Israeli chick hit me. We talked and planned to link for drinks this week. She seemed eat up everything I said and we get where the other coming from. She said she attracted to me unprovoked, but she thought I was stuck up. So I was like naw, your homie was just on fake deep shyt so I was probs was shading him and she agreed. I need to get out of my head with these byrds sometimes and stop caring so much cuz most times it aint worth the scress. End up finessing myself right out of the box
 

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Israeli chick hit me. We talked and planned to link for drinks this week. She seemed eat up everything I said and we get where the other coming from. She said she attracted to me unprovoked, but she thought I was stuck up. So I was like naw, your homie was just on fake deep shyt so I was probs was shading him and she agreed. I need to get out of my head with these byrds sometimes and stop caring so much cuz most times it aint worth the scress. End up finessing myself right out of the box
Good luck breh


Edit- keep us updated...with the good and the bad :lolbron:
 
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Israeli chick hit me. We talked and planned to link for drinks this week. She seemed eat up everything I said and we get where the other coming from. She said she attracted to me unprovoked, but she thought I was stuck up. So I was like naw, your homie was just on fake deep shyt so I was probs was shading him and she agreed. I need to get out of my head with these byrds sometimes and stop caring so much cuz most times it aint worth the scress. End up finessing myself right out of the box

Very good. Hope it goes well breh.
 

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i had to bold and upsize this. my pops instilled this in me when i was a little one. :wow:

and its something most dudes fail to grasp. a lot of us dont realize our value or our worth

the next time you see a fire ass broad and that cold, tight feeling fills your chest and youre afraid to approach her...

or that dime that you met is flaking and playing games and she's got you feeling needy and off your square...

remind yourself that youre a man. you got the spirit of pharoahs, warriors, leaders and emperors in your dna. youre in the gym, stackin your paper, working on that promotion, getting your degree, reading books, building a business, mastering a craft/skill, eating healthy, bettering your social circle, getting your passport inked up. and if youre not on this path...you should be

and then ask yourself why youre scared of this bytch who works at chik-fil-a, pushes a '14 charger thats out for repo, and stays in her aunties spare bedroom on an air mattress?

all because she got a tight ass body and a pretty face? :rudy:

its rare to meet an exceptional chick.

most girls aint bringing shyt to the table besides p*ssy. and truth be told, many just lay there while we put in the work

so ask yourself again...name one thing the average girl is better than you at?

and if you cant...its time to put in work breh :youngsabo:

Wow :wow::wow:

Deadass some real ass shyt :whoo:
 

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Wall of text. I feel better letting this go. I wanted to put it in the mental health thread but I feel it has a place here.

I grew up with very low self esteem which led to me being very scared about approaching women. It started in my teens which carried into my 20’s and it bled into all other facets of my life. My father was in my life but we grew separate as I got older in my teens. I had an older brother who was my role model but he was hotboy, he told me when was in my teens to “Don’t follow my lead. Be better.” When he said that I came to my own conclusion that my pops and brother were two different people, raised in different eras. I didn’t feel comfortable to talk about it with either them. I felt like an embarrassment of a man to two pivotal male role models in my life.:shaq2:

I kept my feelings repressed as I grew older. I tried being that nice guy but I always got the “You’re a good guy....” ether. I still pressed on to try to talk with women but every L I took I grew more and more frustrated. I was lost. I didn’t know shyt. I felt lonely. The women who did take me, I’d give them the emotional baggage which was too much, they would leave and I’d be lonely again. It’s a vicious cycle when you don’t love yourself.

With women . I tried to empathize with their struggles and avoid being malicious. I communicate how I feel and pull no punches but I’m always respectful. I can’t let anyone rob me of my character. Seeing my mom being beat by her boyfriend fukked with my mental as a kid. I tried to be a provider, I wanted to be the man my mom deserved instead of the piece of shyt she ended up being with. I just wanted be what I thought a man was and it just made me more confused. Some people wanted to be saved, some don’t and some just want a free meal. Once again I was confused and angry. Two bad combinations.

I recently turned 30 and took a step back to focus on myself. I deleted my gram and started to go out more(Straight up homebody). I’m going to be taking therapy soon but I feel better about not putting my worth in someone’s else hands. I was very embarrassed about expressing my issues as a youth, I’ve grown more comfortably to express it now without caring about the stigma. I’ve made friends with like minded people in my profession and put focus on to that. Trying to lose some weight and get healthy but that’s another issue.

On a lighter note. I got a shorty who want me lay pipe down tonight. It can go either way. I’m just not going to stress if it I hit or not. :pachaha:
 

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Man when you get a good one shyt is great. My girl is in the kitchen getting dinner ready (I’m on London time) and I’m just kicking it sipping Corona and watching Sabrina on Netflix. Brehs, don’t settle for these shorties who bring nothing but stress and drama to the table. Let the lames have them.
 
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