Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I swear yall Im convinced its IMPOSSIBLE to be HONEST with these women...

I spoke on it in here, and made a thread but I'll highlight whats going on


-Im 30 and theres this 22 year Mexican/Rican chick I know from being at the same bars/knowing mutal people

- She been on my snap but a week ago I finally linked with her, smoked a little bit in the car and got topped off

- After that she was acting like she really really really liked me... Offering to buy me/bring me ice cream. like really selling herself hard, saying she gives great massages, shell be a freak for me.. Yall know what I mean when a bytch is selling herself lbs

- She's actually a real nice girl and I actually got a heart and didnt wanna "play her" lead her on to just fukk n bush.. So I told her "hey Im not looking for anything serious but I can guarantee that youll always have a fun time with me and I'll keep it real with u.. She took it real well at the time


- Then she hits me with "since u just wanna be my friend I cant be sucking ur dikk and doing all that, ect..."

-So we went to shoot pool and we kicked it and we kissed and I felt on her, then on saturday she wanted me to come to the city to spend the night with her at her girls crib (prolly to crack) but I declined cuz it was late


Here we are on Monday night and shes asking me shyt like

"whats my name look like in ur phone"


Idk maybe its just a young chick thing but I feel like she isnt taking this casual at all


Texting me on saturday that she misses me cuz we aint really text much that day..




Basically BEING HONEST got me NOWHERE with her
 
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Nuke Dukem said:
I swear yall Im convinced its IMPOSSIBLE to be HONEST with these women...

I spoke on it in here, and made a thread but I'll highlight whats going on


-Im 30 and theres this 22 year Mexican/Rican chick I know from being at the same bars/knowing mutal people

- She been on my snap but a week ago I finally linked with her, smoked a little bit in the car and got topped off

- After that she was acting like she really really really liked me... Offering to buy me/bring me ice cream. like really selling herself hard, saying she gives great massages, shell be a freak for me.. Yall know what I mean when a bytch is selling herself lbs

- She's actually a real nice girl and I actually got a heart and didnt wanna "play her" lead her on to just fukk n bush.. So I told her "hey Im not looking for anything serious but I can guarantee that youll always have a fun time with me and I'll keep it real with u.. She took it real well at the time


- Then she hits me with "since u just wanna be my friend I cant be sucking ur dikk and doing all that, ect..."

-So we went to shoot pool and we kicked it and we kissed and I felt on her, then on saturday she wanted me to come to the city to spend the night with her at her girls crib (prolly to crack) but I declined cuz it was late


Here we are on Monday night and shes asking me shyt like

"whats my name look like in ur phone"


Idk maybe its just a young chick thing but I feel like she isnt taking this casual at all


Texting me on saturday that she misses me cuz we aint really text much that day..




Basically BEING HONEST got me NOWHERE with her
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No being honest means u laid the groundwork and if she cant respect your wishes or act right
U can just :camby: with no remorse no explanation or set her straight with a forthcoming message or call like
Look u know what I said u either gonna be down for the casual sex and shyt not play games or kick rocks ur choice girl


Reality is when ur 100% with them they lose all the right and privilege of u being nice cuz u were upfront and u agreed basically but u playing games so its a$$hole city from here on out
Too damn old to be playing games if I want too I got a damn ps4 for that shyt.
Its y when I'm a a$$hole to them when they outta line they usually dont say shyt cuz I called them out on their bs cuz I was upfront and they either be like sorry and fix it or I just get rid of them either or was fine by me.


Also her age can play a factor too but older women do the same shyt too just saying
 
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at aint even 6am yet I already talked up some chick and got her number since we were sharing a cab.

brehs, the amount of work I been putting in for the past 3 weeks is crazy, I must have hit on about 30+ women in that time space, with zero p*ssy gotten :wow:
these results would have left the average soft-hearted breh with the :mjcry: face on and ready to join #uglygang and camp on pornhub for the rest of the year.
but I know its a numbers game and closed mouths dont get fed :ufdup:
dont get me wrong :whoa:, I been getting 'play' from a good number of them and even kissed some. But I feel my dont-give-a-fukk kinda personality seemed to intimidate some. one who I could easily tell was feeling me said to me "i feel like you're the type of guy who hits and runs" :pachaha:. I got tired of her playing it safe so I stopped talking to her.

some even ghosted on me after a solid start. I got 6 remaining girls lined up for the next 2 week, i'll see how that pans out and hopefully I manage to get one of to the crib cause once they enter my humble adobe them panties gon fly off of them :shaq:.
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does cold approach even work
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I had the best experiences with women off cold approaching. I still do to this day. infact the first 2 women I fukked this year were off cold approach in public places. but both bot bushed after I hit a few times so im p*ssyless trying to build a new roster :mjcry:
 
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does cold approach even work
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Yes and it helps out in long run cuz builds confidence and makes u better at conversations too.
Let alone u at least know that is her up close compared to a damn pic that ain't her too.
Also makes rejection so much easier cuz u be like it ain't shyt and will cold approach the females that guys wont cuz they too scared to hear no and those females be longing for somebody just to holler at them but guys too scared cuz of how they look or feel they out of their league.
There are women out there like that and it be them guys u be seeing with like how he got her and it be simple he shot his shoot and hit nothing but net while others just sat on bench cuz to scared too try.
 
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You Lost the game because of the shot clock ran out . You was just dribbling.:bryan:


Even the best shooters go 43% from the field. Now you will never see that bytch again.


Tough luck nikka.:francis: Hopefully you learned your lesson.
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Lol :francis: I had the perfect chance bro
But I couldn't shoot.


I'm see her tomorrow tho. I'm slam dunk that mf
 
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Deleted my tinder again. I think you gotta pop in and pop out. I'll c bacc around October, gonna work with the keepers I got for now

edit - forgot to mention, was in NYC and a combination of :mjcry: and :banderas: at the amount of fine women there. Got home to these local hoes like :hhh:
 
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twan83 said:
Yes and it helps out in long run cuz builds confidence and makes u better at conversations too.
Let alone u at least know that is her up close compared to a damn pic that ain't her too.
Also makes rejection so much easier cuz u be like it ain't shyt and will cold approach the females that guys wont cuz they too scared to hear no and those females be longing for somebody just to holler at them but guys too scared cuz of how they look or feel they out of their league.
There are women out there like that and it be them guys u be seeing with like how he got her and it be simple he shot his shoot and hit nothing but net while others just sat on bench cuz to scared too try.
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what do you usually say in cold approach

do u approach them from behind or in front of them
 
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hostsamurai said:
Approach everyone breh.
You're overthinking this. You need a spectrum of experiences whether they be good or bad. If they're sitting you need to eventually sit down or it'll be awkward. If they're in front of you, don't start talking until you get in the front, I wouldn't even say a side approach is super effective. If you have to talk from the back it conveys every time you've approached you were too cowardly to get in front of her and make her experience your existence. Or you could just tap them from behind to signal their attention, though probably shouldn't do that with non-AA women unless you have charm.

Once you see a target you've got to make a beeline(not literally) to her in 3 seconds or you're in your head.

The point is to make it more uncomfortable to eject than to stay and say hi, or ask for directions or the time.

Have 2-3 real stories that convey a certain value. Make most of your questions into statements. You don't want to get stuck in interview mode, and it'll make her feel you have a slightly more intimate relationship than a guy she just met a minute ago. So instead of What do you work as you would say something like you look like a lawyer because... You're either right and she's like how did you know that which is a decent result or wrong and you could still go off on a tangent from there. But point remains that it's more interesting than a series of questions. Though there is some concrete information you need that can only be gathered through questions.


How do I know all this? Because at some point I realized I wanted to make things easier for me, so I needed to apply action. I started a new job years back and my social skills were awful so I probably spent 6-8 hours a week cold approaching in malls, dodging security guards and becoming "that guy".
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so if ur walking towards someone and they're walking towards you, you just say "excuse me" and start talking?
 
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