Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Met & been hanging out with this real cute lightskin cape verdean chick the past few weeks, but she stunting like a mofo with the p*ssy :snoop:

Says she's been celibate for two months and only has sex in serious relationships, we hang out often and she even came & cooked for me last weekend.

Hard to make a move on her cause she always being distant & shyt at the crib. Tried the one cover trick on her when we were in my bed but she ain't go for it :martin:

Not to toot my own horn or anything but im a good looking ass nikka with a nice body and get bread so I figure something gotta be up.:mjpls:

When we were hanging out saturday some nikka was blowing her phone up like three times in 45 mins & she sat there and watched it go to vcmail each time instead of declining it or answering it:patrice:


Time to cut bait brehs? :patrice:

you in her frame. You thinkin too much about her. You a sexual nikka, no? then make it be known. She either with it or you movin on. :camby:

the minute a woman senses you gonna buy into what she says, its over. Naa, you gotta let it be known that you ain't gonna waste your time. Fukk her uncertainties and whatnot. You're both grown adults.
 

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you in her frame. You thinkin too much about her. You a sexual nikka, no? then make it be known. She either with it or you movin on. :camby:

the minute a woman senses you gonna buy into what she says, its over. Naa, you gotta let it be known that you ain't gonna waste your time. Fukk her uncertainties and whatnot. You're both grown adults.

exactly , the same woman telling you that she' waiting and all that tp be in a rlationship
would suck off j'quelle if he fancied her tonight

and has many times sucked of the j'quelles without being in a relationship
 

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Is giving a girl your number lame?

I've been eyeing this one girl for a while but I can't get myself to ask for her number :francis:
 

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Is giving a girl your number lame?

I've been eyeing this one girl for a while but I can't get myself to ask for her number :francis:

shyt is even better cuz if she calls or txt she was obviously interested in u
And if she dont its oh well on to better things her loss
Most be sitting at their damn phone waiting on a girl to call or txt once they get her number and they txt that female asap like a damn simp ass puppy looking for attention instead living life letting things fall in place and come too them at times
 

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Is giving a girl your number lame?

I've been eyeing this one girl for a while but I can't get myself to ask for her number :francis:
What’s the real difference? You gonna be checking your phone for a reply either way. Might as well get it over with.


More important is what you want to have her texting u for?
 

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What’s the real difference? You gonna be checking your phone for a reply either way. Might as well get it over with.


More important is what you want to have her texting u for?
I guess theres not a real difference, I just feel more comfortable giving her my number vs the other way around.

As far as her wanting her to text me goes, that way i'll know she's sorta interested. I been having bad luck lately.
 

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I guess theres not a real difference, I just feel more comfortable giving her my number vs the other way around.

As far as her wanting her to text me goes, that way i'll know she's sorta interested. I been having bad luck lately
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Giving numbers either way is meant as an endgame. Not a way to gauge interest. Text to get coffee, date, sex, or meet up. Once you are in text mode, you lose the ability to read her face and are guessing her interest.

The approach anxiety you have isn't going to be alleviated by giving her your number. Say you give her your number on Wednesday, she doesn't have any incentive to call you Thursday, Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. You'll just end up feeding your anxiety.

Here is a way to help with the anxiety

Make plans for yourself, going to a movie, play, festival or whatever. Assuming you know more about her than her name, if it's something she might enjoy then give her your number so you can link up(don't chicken out and say "if you wanna or if you're free). Just tell her your plans and if she sounds excited by the idea of the event then give you a heads up on Thursday.


If she doesn't then go and enjoy yourself and talk to other women at the event. If she text you then yeah.
 
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Mane, let me just say this for the summer 2K18.

Get your fukking tinder game up. Get your DM game up. Start getting creative when talking to women now. Gifs are available at ease. nikka, download a coli smiley and DM a broad (Pretty sure it's been done on here lbvs) but anyways, I'm saying, stop being dry.

Just be cool, find a cool shorty you vibe with and make it do what it do. I ain't gonna hit y'all with the "Life Too Short" cliche shyt, cause I'm on my Chris Rock shyt "LIFE IS LONG". I'm making it long. fukk that. I'm 29. Still looking great for my age. I'm embracing that breh. :blessed:
 

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Came back from Barcelona a few days ago.

Started with me grinding on a Black Dominican girl in the club. Was going to take her to a Dominican Resturant but like @FireDwaneCasey said, I aint helping these broads. @Hennessypapi warned us about how cutthroat them Dominican broads are so, wasnt in my plans.

Then, we saw some Black English girls in another club and used the same process of grinding on them and getting the snap.
Got her snapchat but I couldnt convert anything out of it.


My other friends ended up paying €150 on escorts and chasing some ugly cac thots :huhldup:

Like brehs in here have said, TRAVEL BREHS :ufdup:
 

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Brehs who've gotten with someone at work (team member or even someone in another department).

What were the signs that you noticed that signified your coworker was interested in you or even curious about you and was not just being friendly? I usually assume any type of "interest" in the workplace is born out of being civil and getting along.

Where there any tell tale signs that are unique to the workplace that you wouldn't see elsewhere? I'm genuinely very curious, and would appreciate some feedback.

:patrice:
 
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