Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

semicko82

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Need some advice...

I cut it off with my girl today because I found some shyt out about her. We’ve been dating about a month. It’s a small world so some people I know, know her and said she was a party girl, a huge drinker and slutty.

I outright asked her how many dudes she’s been with and she said 6. 2 of them were relationships and the rest random. She’s 21 so I’m kinda bugging about that. I can understand the 2, but damn.

I also found out she smokes weed for her anxiety, which I don’t fukk with drugs at all.

I found out her last niqqa was some thug and used to beat her. I’m not trying to get caught in crossfire for a broad if he happens to wanna come back around.

When I’m with her I would’ve never knew any of this because she’s the sweetest girl ever.

She grew up without her pops and was abused when she was younger.

When I broke up with her though she did a 180 and came for my ass.

I feel like I made the right decision but I can’t wife that up. Am I tripping?
If you like the lady and the thug come through causing trouble you know what to do :demonic:
 

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I was telling chicks I was just dating and not looking for any exclusive relationship at this time. Which they said they respected, but were obviously trying to get me to change my mind.

I'd say that tactic works for a few months.

The danger is if you meet a chick that you could see yourself wifing you can only push it so far keeping her at bay with that talk or letting her walk.

I'd say after 4 months of seeing someone you'll know if there worth seeing exclusively.

It's a thin line. It seems women are more into you when your feelings are unclear but you can't do that TOO much obviously.
 

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If you like the lady and the thug come through causing trouble you know what to do :demonic:

Nah bro I cut it off with her.

Her friends told me she was a thot and the type of girl to fukk nikkas in the bathroom.
She and her friends went out yesterday and I was told she got hella drunk and some nikka had his hand up her dress and squeezing her t*ts.

She’s bust down status now, if that.

Funny thing is when she was around me I would’ve never known she was a thot. She was the sweetest girl ever and submissive/shy but now I know not to trust bytches.

Learned my lesson.
 

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Nah bro I cut it off with her.

Her friends told me she was a thot and the type of girl to fukk nikkas in the bathroom.
She and her friends went out yesterday and I was told she got hella drunk and some nikka had his hand up her dress and squeezing her t*ts.

She’s bust down status now, if that.

Funny thing is when she was around me I would’ve never known she was a thot. She was the sweetest girl ever and submissive/shy but now I know not to trust bytches.

Learned my lesson.
You did the right thing. I was joking.
 

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Years ago I remember one of my acquintances, dude was a a$$hole, a cheqter, said he most vile things to women. I remember he forgot to log out of his email when he was my spot playing videogames so I took a look :ehh:. There were literally like 5 women emailing him long emails about how much they love him and forgive him and they never felt like this About anyone before even though they know he's bad for them

And there I was the simp nice guy , loyal faithful, let me hear your problems babe and ish that's when I realized and started to kill my simpness

Im not cheating or treating anyone bad or ish but I ain't about to listen to a chicks problem or helping her out. I'ma do what I want.

I remember when I was in Nigeria, for my birthday this chick was suppose to take me to another state. The morning of she messages me that she doesn't have enough funds for a cab to the hotel. Would have been like 5 of my dollars and back in my simp days I would have been sure like a good ol boy :heh:

All I said is oh that sucks and hit up a next chick who wanted to hang and she took me to the beach and art gallery.
 

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Met & been hanging out with this real cute lightskin cape verdean chick the past few weeks, but she stunting like a mofo with the p*ssy :snoop:

Says she's been celibate for two months and only has sex in serious relationships, we hang out often and she even came & cooked for me last weekend.

Hard to make a move on her cause she always being distant & shyt at the crib. Tried the one cover trick on her when we were in my bed but she ain't go for it :martin:

Not to toot my own horn or anything but im a good looking ass nikka with a nice body and get bread so I figure something gotta be up.:mjpls:

When we were hanging out saturday some nikka was blowing her phone up like three times in 45 mins & she sat there and watched it go to vcmail each time instead of declining it or answering it:patrice:


Time to cut bait brehs? :patrice:
 

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Met & been hanging out with this real cute lightskin cape verdean chick the past few weeks, but she stunting like a mofo with the p*ssy :snoop:

Says she's been celibate for two months and only has sex in serious relationships, we hang out often and she even came & cooked for me last weekend.

Hard to make a move on her cause she always being distant & shyt at the crib. Tried the one cover trick on her when we were in my bed but she ain't go for it :martin:

Not to toot my own horn or anything but im a good looking ass nikka with a nice body and get bread so I figure something gotta be up.:mjpls:

When we were hanging out saturday some nikka was blowing her phone up like three times in 45 mins & she sat there and watched it go to vcmail each time instead of declining it or answering it:patrice:


Time to cut bait brehs? :patrice:

Just tell her straight up that either she's dropping draws, or you're moving on. Or just fall back and become distant, and chances are she'll give you some, to try to keep you around.
 

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Random ass shyt....

Hadnt had sex since mend of may and lastnight I was on my flabby n sick shot and went to bed round 11pm. Wokeup to a call at 12:45am from the jamacian shorty I pretty much gave up on who been on games since early may.

Asked me what I was doing and I pulled up to her crib in under 30mins :mjlol: we got a telly and got busy.

Shorty said her BF who like mid 30s-40 been neglecting her and I guess she was drunk last night and wanted some get back:mjgrin:

I guess its not that bad. She seem sneaky af and her nikka seem like a crazy/simp nikka and she said the nikka is married :dwillhuh: but that jamacian accent:blessed:

I dont think she a full US citizen tho:pachaha:
 
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