Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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CrossBones
Louder than words
yeah youre right. the problem is when we're out with no standards in play, we're accepting women off of their looks and ignoring the incompatible parts. theyre lacking the important ingrediants to make us well fed, so to speak. but without a code and until we know about ourselves in and out, we can fall for any old trick.
and so all thats true about holding on to irrational fear and holding onto a bad woman. men are thinking that theyre not good enough to do better, or that shes too damn fine to pass up. but that thinking is poison. it kills a mans integrity and what he is supposed to be about. shes really not good enough, and is really killing a mans spirit in the meantime.
Im saying, every man needs a manifesto to really be about something. it will help understand what needs to go in and what needs to go out of our lives.
that said it all. men, build yourself up. dont let a woman do that.
Somebody said if you wanna know the real meaning of unconditional love try locking your dog and your wife in the trunk of a car for a few hours and check to see which one is happy to see you when you let them out.
Get you one. Loyalty of dogs are unparalleled. They don't care about your status in society or any of that. As long as you treat your dog well, your dog will always be happy to see you.
These dogs are out of their minds happy to see their owners
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philmonroe
Superstar
Man fukk what they talking about somebody lock me in the trunk ain't going to be no love even if my mom did it
Thats one of those sound good quotes cause show of hands who going to show love if they get locked in the trunk. I get what they trying to say but a dog isn't smart as a human cause if he was he would bite your ass instead of looking for a treat 
You know how alot of cats say that women eventually hit "the wall" in their 30s. Chicks go their whole lives entitled as hell, discarding man after man thinking they'll always be around and eventually that day comes when they're not 
Well....I seen that shyt up close and personal the other day and its not pretty....whatsoever
My oldest sister is 38. Not tryna be weird here
but, she's attractive....a bit 
but, attractive. I know there's some janitor type nikka out there that would want her, and I know for damn sure from her old pictures, she aint have no problems whatsoever when she was my age. Problem is, like a lot of women, she chased after thugs/bad boys and ended up with two kids. By two different dudes. One dude split before my nephew was born. The other dude, been playing house with her the last 13 years. He was doing dirt but, he was actually really getting money 
He strung her ass along. In jail, he was all "I want to do right by you". When he'd get out, he'd go right back to paying her ass no mind most of the time. Well yea, he's gone for good this time 
Somehow my mom and I ended up talking about her situation and apparently, she finally realized she wasted all those years on dude (you dont say
) & been trying to get back out there. She was complaining to my mom about being all alone, how hard it was being a single parent and that she's the odd man out to most of her friends who're married and happy. I know we hard on women on here and I know she was a dumb bish that pretty much deserves it 
but, thats still my blood Pretty much no dude thats worth anything is checking for a chick that has 2 kids and was chasing thugs nikkas round most her life. If she was some regular chick I aint know, I'd be like "you made your bed" but, when its someone you care for, to acknowledge that they might die alone because they were on some bullshyt when they were younger, that's sad as fukk and really hammers down some of the shyt nikkas posted in this thread. I probably shouldn't have posted something so sensitive but, I did it because, if there's any women who comes into this thread and mistakenly comes across this post.....I just want yall to know, you might be Ms. Hot shyt now but, once them years gone, they gone....Be mindful who you give them too....
Well....I seen that shyt up close and personal the other day and its not pretty....whatsoever My oldest sister is 38. Not tryna be weird here
but, she's attractive....a bit but, attractive. I know there's some janitor type nikka out there that would want her, and I know for damn sure from her old pictures, she aint have no problems whatsoever when she was my age. Problem is, like a lot of women, she chased after thugs/bad boys and ended up with two kids. By two different dudes. One dude split before my nephew was born. The other dude, been playing house with her the last 13 years. He was doing dirt but, he was actually really getting money He strung her ass along. In jail, he was all "I want to do right by you". When he'd get out, he'd go right back to paying her ass no mind most of the time. Well yea, he's gone for good this time Somehow my mom and I ended up talking about her situation and apparently, she finally realized she wasted all those years on dude (you dont say
) & been trying to get back out there. She was complaining to my mom about being all alone, how hard it was being a single parent and that she's the odd man out to most of her friends who're married and happy. I know we hard on women on here and I know she was a dumb bish that pretty much deserves it but, thats still my blood Pretty much no dude thats worth anything is checking for a chick that has 2 kids and was chasing thugs nikkas round most her life. If she was some regular chick I aint know, I'd be like "you made your bed" but, when its someone you care for, to acknowledge that they might die alone because they were on some bullshyt when they were younger, that's sad as fukk and really hammers down some of the shyt nikkas posted in this thread. I probably shouldn't have posted something so sensitive but, I did it because, if there's any women who comes into this thread and mistakenly comes across this post.....I just want yall to know, you might be Ms. Hot shyt now but, once them years gone, they gone....Be mindful who you give them too....nah, this a thread people can kick the real in. That's what it is. You better treat EVERYONE you come into contact with respectfully because the same people you are going to see coming up are the same ones you will see when you are down on your luck.
There's a lot of cats that were looked at as corny by these women while they were chasing their bad boys. They got knocked up and now they expect that dude they were doodooing to come and rescue them? Them same cats remembered how they were treated before. What turns off a lot of those cats that WOULD have given a mom with kids a chance is the realization that even if he stepped in and was a decent dude, that doesn't guarantee any kind of loyalty from the woman. As soon as she procures her little 'resource provider', she will go back to dipping and dabbling with 'bad boys' in the background.
There's a lot of cats that were looked at as corny by these women while they were chasing their bad boys. They got knocked up and now they expect that dude they were doodooing to come and rescue them? Them same cats remembered how they were treated before. What turns off a lot of those cats that WOULD have given a mom with kids a chance is the realization that even if he stepped in and was a decent dude, that doesn't guarantee any kind of loyalty from the woman. As soon as she procures her little 'resource provider', she will go back to dipping and dabbling with 'bad boys' in the background.
You know how alot of cats say that women eventually hit "the wall" in their 30s. Chicks go their whole lives entitled as hell, discarding man after man thinking they'll always be around and eventually that day comes when they're not
My oldest sister is 38. Not tryna be weird here
Somehow my mom and I ended up talking about her situation and apparently, she finally realized she wasted all those years on dude (you dont say
breh most men wont check for a kid with even ONE KID, they ma sleep with her but not get serious. I'm sorry for your sister but sometimes you gotta learn the hard way.
CrossBones
Louder than words
My oldest sister is 38. Not tryna be weird here
but, when its someone you care for, to acknowledge that they might die alone because they were on some bullshyt when they were younger, that's sad as fukk and really hammers down some of the shyt nikkas posted in this thread. I probably shouldn't have posted something so sensitive but, I did it because, if there's any women who comes into this thread and mistakenly comes across this post.....I just want yall to know, you might be Ms. Hot shyt now but, once them years gone, they gone....Be mindful who you give them too....
I must confess my sins
a while back, I knew a chick like that. as a matter of fact, JUST like that. I was messing with her, but not anything serious. she was older than me and had other things going on. but we spent time, we kicked it. she even brought her son out to meet me a few times (I was like yo 
)I guess coincidences dont happen, as just then her "man" was in georgia and trying to get back with her. he had a different baby mamma at the time but still ol girl, dropped everything to be with him.
turns out, he messed up and caught a gun charge and is behind the wall for a very long time.
guess what she was thinking after it all fell down
I was friends with her. she was really cool. but I learned what was what. the shyt that is said in here, I know yall either been through it or know someone who has, thats why its so strong.
and to your sister, you know, she just has to work at being humble. she will find a dude. if she is willing to prove herself to a good man, she can still find a way to stabilize her life and not be alone. it is what it is, man. bless man woman and child alike
I know I wouldn't....thats why Im like
malcolm x spoke on this years ago but no one listened
Our young girls, our daughters, and our baby sisters are becoming unwed mothers before they are hardly out of their teens. Our community has 1000s of unwed mothers, that has no hope of ever getting a husband. Our community has 10s of 1000s of little black babies who have no father to act as their provider---"
not only black women though women in general, hell go to any dating site an abundance of single moms trying to find that nice guy to accept thier offsprings
It's kind of sad, and nobody is really telling these females this because they are simped out negroes afraid of saying the real because they think they might lose out on the cuts.... but women need to realize how much of a premium men put on looks. Yo butt MAY be able to pull off that nonsense you pulling off right now when you young and pretty, but once you gain some weight and lose those looks, you're going to find that those men who were putting up with you before have moved on to chasing the next pretty girl. That's why these 30 year old single girls hate the 20 year old ones, because they seen that attention evaporate. What a woman needs to understand is she needs to start looking for the one that she can be with over the long term when shes around 24... and not no negro that is selling drugs and being a bad boy.
When those looks fell off and you're still out in the jungles looking for a man, you better start mashing hard with other skills because ain't no man putting up with that entitlement complex anymore. You rose to the top real fast, but you fell off just as fast. If a woman finds a decent man, she better cut the nonsense around and lock that negro up because the supply of men treating women well is drying up real quick, especially with the internet and men chopping it up on how they were taken to the cleaners by sneaky women.
When those looks fell off and you're still out in the jungles looking for a man, you better start mashing hard with other skills because ain't no man putting up with that entitlement complex anymore. You rose to the top real fast, but you fell off just as fast. If a woman finds a decent man, she better cut the nonsense around and lock that negro up because the supply of men treating women well is drying up real quick, especially with the internet and men chopping it up on how they were taken to the cleaners by sneaky women.
CrossBones
Louder than words
you know its so much unrealism ( I thought I made that word up at first
)in todays thinking and expectations with our society. men want a woman who gives it up quick fast and who models but is a down assed virgin who cooks for him, women want to be men at work and be professionals who have a full house and kids, while her man makes more money than her, and she dosnt cook and also she doesnt "have to" spend her ends... (so in effect NO ONE is really being the woman in that house)older women want top shelf men to be white knights in shining armor for them after theyve "had their fun" and want to settle down while looking
no one is really seeing the big picture, or planting seeds for a good future. these things ... these illogical desires and pictures they made up, they dont go together. and its any wonder that shyt is how it is today.
without a good plan, men are going to be stuck in the mistakes that their partners made or that they made due to a lack of serious foresight.
I must confess my sins
I guess coincidences dont happen, as just then her "man" was in georgia and trying to get back with her. he had a different baby mamma at the time but still ol girl, dropped everything to be with him.
turns out, he messed up and caught a gun charge and is behind the wall for a very long time.
guess what she was thinking after it all fell down
I was friends with her. she was really cool. but I learned what was what. the shyt that is said in here, I know yall either been through it or know someone who has, thats why its so strong.
and to your sister, you know, she just has to work at being humble. she will find a dude. if she is willing to prove herself to a good man, she can still find a way to stabilize her life and not be alone. it is what it is, man. bless man woman and child alike
The only chick I ever dated with a kid, she was slick with that shyt
I was 19, so I aint know no better but, her little girl was barely 12 months. That joker aint even stay around for a year
We went to the zoo one day & these old ladies there were saying how cute we looked cuz I guess they thought I was the daddy & we looked like a young family. Shorty's eyes were wide as hell, I deaded that shyt so fukkin quick....