Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Nah When you are out with someone I feel like its common respect to have your attention to them for the night. I’m not going to randomly start rapping to some other chick just because I’m out with a girl I’m fukking and she’s not my gf. It’s a common decency thing.
Respect. But just make sure she's a lady and not a thot. That's where you went wrong. That and continuing to give her access.


Thank you.

The words honorable, respectful thot doesn’t exist cause the behaviors don’t align.


You know why you didn’t want a commitment type relationship but you don’t really know hers. Once she showed you, you realized and got offended.


Vet ur partners more carefully.
 

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Dont fukk with married women. If the husband decides to kill you both, there will be no sympathy. Don’t violate anyone’s union.
I don't know man, I'm going through a :demonic: phase because I recently got cheated on so it is what it is plus I'm not having luck with single women. This woman treats me like a king. I might deserve the consequences but life isn't fair :manny:
 

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I don't know man, I'm going through a :demonic: phase because I recently got cheated on so it is what it is plus I'm not having luck with single women. This woman treats me like a king. I might deserve the consequences but life isn't fair :manny:
There’s plenty of non-married chicks who will treat you like a king. You should really check this woman’s character, if she’s willing to do her own husband like this, what makes you think she won’t sell you out save her own skin when she’s tired of you?
 

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There’s plenty of non-married chicks who will treat you like a king. You should really check this woman’s character, if she’s willing to do her own husband like this, what makes you think she won’t sell you out save her own skin when she’s tired of you?
Tired of playing by the rules and not eating, so I'll have to cross that bridge when i get there
 

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You definetly a racist CAC, Im black & I travel the world:stopitslime:

Last year was in Amsterdam, Spain & was in J'Burg for christmas & New year. The past 5 years I have travelled to a new country every summer. I was about to book a trip to Mexico but because of the wave of the latest shootings down there, Im gonna chill & look for another destination

GTFOH with that Bullshyt abt black ppl dont have money to travel like that. You got soo many brothas on here travelling, you seen the travel thread
 

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@Cape Town JHB

You definetly a racist CAC, Im black & I travel the world:stopitslime:

Last year was in Amsterdam, Spain & was in J'Burg for christmas & New year. The past 5 years I have travelled to a new country every summer. I was about to book a trip to Mexico but because of the wave of the latest shootings down there, Im gonna chill & look for another destination

GTFOH with that Bullshyt abt black ppl dont have money to travel like that. You got soo many brothas on here travelling, you seen the travel thread

Trying to go to South Africa this year. Was in Mexico City last December
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You definetly a racist CAC, Im black & I travel the world:stopitslime:

Last year was in Amsterdam, Spain & was in J'Burg for christmas & New year. The past 5 years I have travelled to a new country every summer. I was about to book a trip to Mexico but because of the wave of the latest shootings down there, Im gonna chill & look for another destination

GTFOH with that Bullshyt abt black ppl dont have money to travel like that. You got soo many brothas on here travelling, you seen the travel thread
I hate to break it to you but we live in a system of white supremacy. I don't know of any black males who have disposable income to the point where theye are travelling the world. the one black person who makes money usually has to take care of the family or already has kids of their own by the time they make their money. To be a young back man, with money and no responsibilities is very very very rare. I'm born and raised in Cape Town and have lived in many Big cities and I can tell you black men do not travel. Tariq Nasheed even did a whole show on this many years ago on the Macklessons. I find its strange that when someone points out the terrible effects of white supremacy on us , most people get angry. being able to travel the world is a luxury most black people on the planet simply do not have.

Furthermore Netherlands is racist as fukk; I've seen a lot of material on racism in Amsterdam so it is safe to assume the black population of any white nation is not doing that well.
There are brilliant scholars like Dr Tommy Curry who break this down far better than I would,if that means I'm a cracker then.... angazi noma ndiqale kuphi mfana kathi, ungi' dida umqondo. (That's Zulu)

I also explained that black men who do travel go to places that favor their currency and have a variety of other black or non white women. why would you travel Europe when your money don't stretch, the only her is terrible, the people are racist and its filled with white women. Costa Rica, Colombia, British Isles/West Indies, South Africa, Angola , Mozambique, Samoa, Brazil etc etc are places I associate a black man to travel to, especially a black men on the Coli.

Peace breh enjoy your world travels.
The advancement of a minority and exceptional outliers is not and has never been the basis upon which you measure a social group. Now I you wanna pretend like black men are no at the bottom of the social to hierarchy I would suggest the great work of Dr Frances Cres Welsing, Neely Fuller Jr, and Dr Amos Wilson To lensen your confusion about what it means to be black.
Peace
 
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I hate to break it to you but we live in a system of white supremacy. I don't know of any black males who have disposable income to the point where theye are travelling the world. the one black person who makes money usually has to take care of the family or already has kids of their own by the time they make their money. To be a young back man, with money and no responsibilities is very very very rare. I'm born and raised in Cape Town and have lived in many Big cities and I can tell you black men do not travel. Tariq Nasheed even did a whole show on this many years ago on the Macklessons. I find its strange that when someone points out the terrible effects of white supremacy on us , most people get angry. being able to travel the world is a luxury most black people on the planet simply do not have.

Furthermore Netherlands is racist as fukk; I've seen a lot of material on racism in Amsterdam so it is safe to assume the black population of any white nation is not doing that well.
There are brilliant scholars like Dr Tommy Curry who break this down far better than I would,if that means I'm a cracker then.... angazi noma ndiqale kuphi mfana kathi, ungi' dida umqondo. (That's Zulu)

I also explained that black men who do travel go to places that favor their currency and have a variety of other black or non white women. why would you travel Europe when your money don't stretch, the only her is terrible, the people are racist and its filled with white women. Costa Rica, Colombia, British Isles/West Indies, South Africa, Angola , Mozambique, Samoa, Brazil etc etc are places I associate a black man to travel to, especially a black men on the Coli.

Peace breh enjoy your world travels.
The advancement of a minority and exceptional outliers is not and has never been the basis upon which you measure a social group. Now I you wanna pretend like black men are no at the bottom of the social to hierarchy I would suggest the great work of Dr Frances Cres Welsing, Neely Fuller Jr, and Dr Amos Wilson To lensen your confusion about what it means to be black.
Peace

Another Coli nikka that travels a lot

@6ixSigma, sorry breh I had to post yoyr IG to prove a point

His got a whole IG dedicated to his travels
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Another breh, Passport heavy dude is black & travels often


You seem to blame white supremacy on a lot of your problems & make alot of assumptions of black peoples lives. I agree white supremacy is alive but you can still make moves & make decent money as a black person. It seems you listen to a lot of black militants, which clearly is making you very negative.
 

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Another Coli nikka that travels a lot

@6ixSigma, sorry breh I had to post yoyr IG to prove a point

His got a whole IG dedicated to his travels
Josh (@mrjosh_) • Instagram photos and videos

You seem to blame white supremacy on a lot of your problems & make alot of assumptions of black peoples lives. I agree white supremacy is alive but you can still make moves & make decent money as a black person. It seems you listen to a lot of black militants, which clearly is making you very negative.
Dr Frances Cres Welling and Dr Amos Wilson are NOT "Black Militants". Neither is Neely Fuller. Dr Tommy J Curry is one of the leading intellects and researchers in issues specifically affecting black men.

I'm the c00n, CAC yet you immediately assumed people with "Dr" in front of their names were a bunch of "Black Militants". You ignored everything I said and just focused on the one aspect you feel uncomfortable. Furthermore what do a bunch of nikkaz with passports have to do with the collective the ate of black people? I can name you 5 black billionaires, but what does that mean.

I know your type breh. I know your type too well.
 

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Dr Frances Cres Welling and Dr Amos Wilson are NOT "Black Militants". Neither is Neely Fuller. Dr Tommy J Curry is one of the leading intellects and researchers in issues specifically affecting black men.

I'm the c00n, CAC yet you immediately assumed people with "Dr" in front of their names were a bunch of "Black Militants". You ignored everything I said and just focused on the one aspect you feel uncomfortable. Furthermore what do a bunch of nikkaz with passports have to do with the collective the ate of black people? I can name you 5 black billionaires, but what does that mean.

I know your type breh. I know your type too well.
Nikka I just posted nikkaz on thecoli not random black people
 

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@KeysT

hopefully you learned your lesson here. in case u didnt, here are the basic common sense rules you should abide by:

1. never again in ur life, meaning, for the rest of your days on planet earth, should u EVER, EVER bring ur girl around a bunch of guys. she can never be the only girl in the midst of men. sure, there are times when it cant be avoided but if it must happen, watch her closely. very closely. any girl who seems to enjoy that kinda company (at the expense of your dignity) is immediate bush status.

2. that friend of yours who was flirting with her. u need to keep your distance from him.

3. you are not insecure at all for being uncomfortable with the situation. u have every right to be livid.

4. be careful of whose advice you take on this forum. i was very disappointed by most of the posts that responded to you.

if u dont take anything out off what i just said, read listed item 1 above and stick to just that.

:salute:
 

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@KeysT

hopefully you learned your lesson here. in case u didnt, here are the basic common sense rules you should abide by:

1. never again in ur life, meaning, for the rest of your days on planet earth, should u EVER, EVER bring ur girl around a bunch of guys. she can never be the only girl in the midst of men. sure, there are times when it cant be avoided but if it must happen, watch her closely. very closely. any girl who seems to enjoy that kinda company (at the expense of your dignity) is immediate bush status.

2. that friend of yours who was flirting with her. u need to keep your distance from him.

3. you are not insecure at all for being uncomfortable with the situation. u have every right to be livid.

4. be careful of whose advice you take on this forum. i was very disappointed by most of the posts that responded to you.

if u dont take anything out off what i just said, read listed item 1 above and stick to just that.

Everything about this post is garbage based on one thing.

SHE AIN’T HIS GIRL!!!

She told him upfront she didn’t want to be his girl and he agreed that’s what he wanted. He gave up all rights to police who she sleeps with. If she ran into one of his friends when he wasn’t there around she has all right to bang him.

The worst you can say about her is her thotting is lazy.

I think the first post is trash for the most part and here is why:

1. DO bring your girl around your friends - see what type of woman she is. If she out there flirting and being more than friendly - bush that hoe. If she really fukking with you, she'll tell them dudes to fall back.

2. Friends that flirt with your girl and distance yourself from them? nikka please - you need to roll up on that breh and let him know to fall back; don't be a beta male here.

3. You should never feel that you can't bring your woman around your friends and if you think your friends can't respect who you with, maybe you shouldn't be friends with them in the first place. Simple as that. But trying to hide what you got, you only look weak in my opinion.
 

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I think the first post is trash for the most part and here is why:

1. DO bring your girl around your friends - see what type of woman she is. If she out there flirting and being more than friendly - bush that hoe. If she really fukking with you, she'll tell them dudes to fall back.

2. Friends that flirt with your girl and distance yourself from them? nikka please - you need to roll up on that breh and let him know to fall back; don't be a beta male here.

3. You should never feel that you can't bring your woman around your friends and if you think your friends can't respect who you with, maybe you shouldn't be friends with them in the first place. Simple as that. But trying to hide what you got, you only look weak in my opinion.

unfortunately for you, since you're an idiot, your opinion is quite meaningless. i bet youre the type to bring ur girl to the barbershop cause u wanna show off what u got. :laugh:
 
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