Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That weird ass chick who popped up again messaged me this :dahell:

I never even was in a relationship with her :dahell:

I smashed like 5 times and she wanted more and I said no

I deleted her number months ago and never uttered another word to her till she popped up yesterday


,.....

Honestly,bcz you supported me during my most difficult times (job searching & my father illness)Ive come to realise that I have a soft spot for you. When im weak, I tend to turn to you. First weeks of knowing you, i thought maybe Ive found true love, But ultimately you’ve shown times without number that you do not measure up to qualities I seek for the father of my children, and deep in my spirit I know I can never truly count on you to be the man that I need. Yes, i have thought about you, but i know now & cant deny that for me you fall short in vital areas, like never giving up, being man of your word etc. At some point I had hopes that someday you will deserve my love, but not out of pride nor that im perfect but because of what ive seen, you did not deserve a woman like me. You might not know it yet, but someday when you’ve met dated several other people it will dawn on you.

Like all my failed relationships, I realize I would need to delete all, emails/contacts/anything that connects me to you and completely shut that door, as it is my policy that mingling with failed opportunities is living in the past/and missing out on your present.I intend to delete your info(maybe end of the day/when im ready & strong enuff to do it)just need to set my head to it so I can stand firm on my decision


Heading to the doctors office/ couldnt sleep, coughing all night. Im free if you wanna talk


This is the same chick now asking me for money


:dahell:
 

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This is the same chick now asking me for money


:dahell:
How old are you and do you earn much more than her?

Breh you seem to be getting some sadistic validation from being chased by this thot. This happens to a lot of guys who grew up, never getting girls or never went through a frivolous Playa Stage. They will post things like stalking messages or confessions that crazy bytchs send them consciously asking for help with a 'crazy broad' but subconsciously are kind of validated and entertained that a female considers or rates them so highly that the girl can project so much attention to them. It's some type of cognitive dissonance.

"Even though this bytch is crazy, she's still infatuate with ME and therefore i'm worthy of some value as a man"
That's what's going on.

This tends to happen to cats in their early to mid 30s, or ugly nikkaz who got rejected their whole lives and start making serious money in their 30s plus. They tend to keep a whole lot of crazy bytches around them, seemingly for no good reason.
Also extremely white identified black people who when they start making money start dating low level whites, socially and looks wise. That white validation is what they seek even though they think ''this white bytch is crazy breh, how can i deal with her"
Very deep stuff.

Peace
 

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:dahell:

Breh I smashed her like 5 times there was no relationship no sit down no getting to know her just in and out

Lol at your perceived assessment of me. :mjlol:








How old are you and do you earn much more than her?

Breh you seem to be getting some sadistic validation from being chased by this thot. This happens to a lot of guys who grew up, never getting girls or never went through a frivolous Playa Stage. They will post things like stalking messages or confessions that crazy bytchs send them consciously asking for help with a 'crazy broad' but subconsciously are kind of validated and entertained that a female considers or rates them so highly that the girl can project so much attention to them. It's some type of cognitive dissonance.

"Even though this bytch is crazy, she's still infatuate with ME and therefore i'm worthy of some value as a man"
That's what's going on.

This tends to happen to cats in their early to mid 30s, or ugly nikkaz who got rejected their whole lives and start making serious money in their 30s plus. They tend to keep a whole lot of crazy bytches around them, seemingly for no good reason.
Also extremely white identified black people who when they start making money start dating low level whites, socially and looks wise. That white validation is what they seek even though they think ''this white bytch is crazy breh, how can i deal with her"
Very deep stuff.

Peace
 

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But then why would ypu come here and ask us or tell us about this when it's so trivial and not important. Why even mention it unless in context of a discussion around crazy bytchs, not genuine relationship/Game advice.
:dahell:

Breh I smashed her like 5 times there was no relationship no sit down no getting to know her just in and out

Lol at your perceived assessment of me. :mjlol:
 

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But then why would ypu come here and ask us or tell us about this when it's so trivial and not important. Why even mention it unless in context of a discussion around crazy bytchs, not genuine relationship/Game advice.


Because sometimes a breh can get offended if a chick just up and ask him for rent money and they aint even serious. I've had that happen to me and I was lowkey offended that she just looked at me as an ATM machine and nothing more.

Ol girl played herself once again by coming at Reinscarf in that manner. This type of fukkery should be documented and I'm glad I'm not the only one who's went through that BS
 

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Because I was showing how crazy these women are out here breh.

I don't even know where this chick works, don't even remember where she lives, I've said like two words to her all year don't even have her number saved. Yet she still has the audacity to even ask me to lend len money

But then why would ypu come here and ask us or tell us about this when it's so trivial and not important. Why even mention it unless in context of a discussion around crazy bytchs, not genuine relationship/Game advice.
 

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This thread devolves in psycho anaylzing assuming babble far too much for a thread with no one with a doctorate in said field.
 

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I been taking Ls on hoes lately :francis:

I got this one chick in my probation class I wanna pipe don't know how to even go about it usually I'm just thirsty but wit her I kinda wanna make sure I fucc

Tell her how you feel. You two obviously have something in common.
 
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I'm a lazy motherfukker lately. I thought about making a thread but I'll post my nonsense here first. I'm still in a relationship but the high of it is worn off. She's a cool chick but it was never meant to last. So while this is going on I got another one I'm fukking around with

but of late, I can't be bothered to spend time with either of them. Just this past week I've passed on p*ssy two or three times and just relaxed at home chillin, watching sports etc.

Maybe I'm getting :flabbynsick: I don't really know :russ:
 

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I'm a lazy motherfukker lately. I thought about making a thread but I'll post my nonsense here first. I'm still in a relationship but the high of it is worn off. She's a cool chick but it was never meant to last. So while this is going on I got another one I'm fukking around with

but of late, I can't be bothered to spend time with either of them. Just this past week I've passed on p*ssy two or three times and just relaxed at home chillin, watching sports etc.

Maybe I'm getting :flabbynsick: I don't really know :russ:
nah i think you more so want to spend time by yourself
And Also the p*ssy starts to look less n less appealing now that its basically on call
If you were getting :flabbynsick: you'd be complaining about how you wanna fukk but cant keep it up
 
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