Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ApolloStark]

this is negligible if you have clout or a bag. or she just that into you. normally what you saying is right but these byrds are fickle dumb creatures most of the time guided by the light of their own fancy. If Idris Elba met some byrd (or hell some local act that had some clout, nikka making six figures, has a cold whip etc) and he hit her up for a date next day or 2 months from now, she probs going to go for it. Women stay on that hypegamy shyt so if she sees you as a huge prize she gonna fall in line regardless. I'm not on that level yet so yeah I have to play the game as you described but best believe when I have my own business and pulling in mad guap the rules are thrown out the window.

i love this myth bandied around that suggests money = the end of women problems, usually it's only the start. wealthy people never divorce or get cheated on?

 

[ApolloStark]

Just went through a situation this past weekend. Just some advice brehs...
Never get drunk outside of yourself.
Even if a chick disrespects you all you control is your response.
You loose the power behind being correct when you meet her at the same level she’s at. Always be above.

elaborate....

 

[KeysT]

elaborate....

Already did

 

[TRUEST]

@KeysT

hopefully you learned your lesson here. in case u didnt, here are the basic common sense rules you should abide by:

1. never again in ur life, meaning, for the rest of your days on planet earth, should u EVER, EVER bring ur girl around a bunch of guys. she can never be the only girl in the midst of men. sure, there are times when it cant be avoided but if it must happen, watch her closely. very closely. any girl who seems to enjoy that kinda company (at the expense of your dignity) is immediate bush status.

2. that friend of yours who was flirting with her. u need to keep your distance from him.

3. you are not insecure at all for being uncomfortable with the situation. u have every right to be livid.

4. be careful of whose advice you take on this forum. i was very disappointed by most of the posts that responded to you.

if u dont take anything out off what i just said, read listed item 1 above and stick to just that.

 

[Deafheaven]

i love this myth bandied around that suggests money = the end of women problems, usually it's only the start. wealthy people never divorce or get cheated on?

Im still looking for where I said this in the quoted post

 

[Json]

@KeysT

hopefully you learned your lesson here. in case u didnt, here are the basic common sense rules you should abide by:

1. never again in ur life, meaning, for the rest of your days on planet earth, should u EVER, EVER bring ur girl around a bunch of guys. she can never be the only girl in the midst of men. sure, there are times when it cant be avoided but if it must happen, watch her closely. very closely. any girl who seems to enjoy that kinda company (at the expense of your dignity) is immediate bush status.

2. that friend of yours who was flirting with her. u need to keep your distance from him.

3. you are not insecure at all for being uncomfortable with the situation. u have every right to be livid.

4. be careful of whose advice you take on this forum. i was very disappointed by most of the posts that responded to you.

if u dont take anything out off what i just said, read listed item 1 above and stick to just that.

Everything about this post is garbage based on one thing.

SHE AIN’T HIS GIRL!!!

She told him upfront she didn’t want to be his girl and he agreed that’s what he wanted. He gave up all rights to police who she sleeps with. If she ran into one of his friends when he wasn’t there around she has all right to bang him.

The worst you can say about her is her thotting is lazy.

 

[KeysT]

@KeysT

hopefully you learned your lesson here. in case u didnt, here are the basic common sense rules you should abide by:

1. never again in ur life, meaning, for the rest of your days on planet earth, should u EVER, EVER bring ur girl around a bunch of guys. she can never be the only girl in the midst of men. sure, there are times when it cant be avoided but if it must happen, watch her closely. very closely. any girl who seems to enjoy that kinda company (at the expense of your dignity) is immediate bush status.

2. that friend of yours who was flirting with her. u need to keep your distance from him.

3. you are not insecure at all for being uncomfortable with the situation. u have every right to be livid.

4. be careful of whose advice you take on this forum. i was very disappointed by most of the posts that responded to you.

if u dont take anything out off what i just said, read listed item 1 above and stick to just that.

Thanks bro. Definitely won’t be letting it happen again.

 

[KeysT]

Everything about this post is garbage based on one thing.

SHE AIN’T HIS GIRL!!!

She told him upfront she didn’t want to be his girl and he agreed that’s what he wanted. He gave up all rights to police who she sleeps with. If she ran into one of his friends when he wasn’t there around she has all right to bang him.

The worst you can say about her is her thotting is lazy.

Bro you definitely are missing the point. Did you even read what I wrote. I could Care less who she sleeps with. The problem is her disrespect in front of me.

 

[Json]

Bro you definitely are missing the point. Did you even read what I wrote. I could Care less who she sleeps with. The problem is her disrespect in front of me.

I said lazy thotting.

So if it was some random dude and not you’re friend you wouldn’t care?

Don’t enter into “contracts” with disreputable people.

 

[KeysT]

I said lazy thotting.

So if it was some random dude and not you’re friend you wouldn’t care?

Don’t enter into “contracts” with disreputable people.

Nah When you are out with someone I feel like its common respect to have your attention to them for the night. I’m not going to randomly start rapping to some other chick just because I’m out with a girl I’m fukking and she’s not my gf. It’s a common decency thing.

 

[Atlrocafella]

That is a real thing

Aint nun like waking up n realizing u almost ruined your life all cause u didnt wanna pull out

Absolutely real. When that nut is gone, you immediate know whether you want the chick to stay around or leave.

 

[Atlrocafella]

No responses

Dont fukk with married women. If the husband decides to kill you both, there will be no sympathy. Don’t violate anyone’s union.

 

[TRUEST]

Everything about this post is garbage based on one thing.

SHE AIN’T HIS GIRL!!!

She told him upfront she didn’t want to be his girl and he agreed that’s what he wanted. He gave up all rights to police who she sleeps with. If she ran into one of his friends when he wasn’t there around she has all right to bang him.

The worst you can say about her is her thotting is lazy.

go take a nap.

 

[TRUEST]

Nah When you are out with someone I feel like its common respect to have your attention to them for the night. I’m not going to randomly start rapping to some other chick just because I’m out with a girl I’m fukking and she’s not my gf. It’s a common decency thing.

there's no need debating how to protect your dignity with others. your spirit was disturbed by what happened. the disrespect was palpable. It was too blatant. and u knew something was amiss because you were there. and i can imagine what u felt.

anyone who tells u different, i would recommend u remember their screen names and avoid paying attention to any thing they say in the future. i cannot understand how any man cant see the disrespect this guy endured. that girl has the right to fucck whoever she wants. but to blatantly humiliate u in front of ur friends is a neon sign to anyone with common sense that she is not wifey, close friend material. she has no morals. and guys being guys, the joke will be on u when they start talking about how "mane, u aint got no game. i had your girl all up on me. im a G." - dont be that idiot

i have been out in public with women who are enamored by me. but i didnt feel the same way. and each time we went out, if i see a chick choosing, i have enough respect and common decency to not do anything about it. because i know how it would feel if it were done to me. why make someone jealous? or feel stupid for no reason? why? she can talk to whoever she wants on her own time.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

Nah When you are out with someone I feel like its common respect to have your attention to them for the night. I’m not going to randomly start rapping to some other chick just because I’m out with a girl I’m fukking and she’s not my gf. It’s a common decency thing.

Respect. But just make sure she's a lady and not a thot. That's where you went wrong. That and continuing to give her access.