Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cape Town JHB]

I should have worded my thoughts better...

Some women are used to being the "man"of the relationship..like the one you described

its a job within itself to properly rearrange their mindset so they dont become too dependent or try to throw that independent woman mindset in your direction...

creating leverage with those types are tricky

You create leverage with these types by treating them like shyt. Straight disrespectfull.
They are in a perpetual cycle of finding bigger bigger men to break. If you're treating her like a lousy bytch she sees you as something to conquer. The worst thing you can do with these types is try to relate to them on a regular/normal level. She'll see you as weak and emasculated.
Again it ain't for everyone.

The best thing to do is avoid them completely if you're green.

 

[MollyGalaga]

We are wasting our time brehs wasting our time with these women out here.

Nikkaz doing everything for an avg looking chick to even give us a date we gotta pay for

While there are down to earth lovely women in the world dimes 10/10 raised right waiting for us praying for us.

I'm done with these women in the west let them gargle on two week nut for all I care

I mean its hilarious but at the same damn time.

 

[Ohene]

Don't wanna keep quoting nikkas posts but making plans in advance isn't the end of the world. If we're talking weeks, no way. I do this naturally but generally you shouldn't be arranging a date on a weekend for the FOLLOWING week. Save the planning until MONDAY at the earliest e.g. for a Friday or Saturday hook up...(even better a Tues or Wed)

And my thing is I'll never tell them where we're going. I'll just make rough plans on some "make sure you're ready for 8"

Keep the chat inbetween to a minimum, even better nothing at all...

Then on the day at say 1/2o clock, I'll msg on some "meet me at X for 8pm" sh1t

I'm giving you nikkas game with this one, this sh1t is yet to fail me.......

it depends

you gotta have a cnversation at some point between the plans being made and been carried out

its tuesday and you set a date on saturday ...better holla at her on thursday or friday just to shoot the shyt , see how her week is going etc. not a lot, cause u want something to talk about during the date but you gotta check in . other wise these girls will "forget"

 

[J.E.T.S]

Ex said she wants to take ME on a date tonight.

Talking about she changed and willing to do anything to be with me.

She broke up with me for another dude at the end of 2016 after I went to jail for something I didn't do.

We had sex a couple times last year.

Then recently when she contacted me, I asked if she was talking to anyone else. She claimed to be single for a while.

I hopped on her Facebook and just 2 weeks ago she was "in a relationship" with a nikka that she caught cheating on her.

What's the Coli advice? Should I flake or should I go for the free meal and just fukk her until I get tired of her?

I have zero emotions for this girl anymore.

p*ssy and throat is fuego

 

[360dagod]

You create leverage with these types by treating them like shyt. Straight disrespectfull.
They are in a perpetual cycle of finding bigger bigger men to break. If you're treating her like a lousy bytch she sees you as something to conquer. The worst thing you can do with these types is try to relate to them on a regular/normal level. She'll see you as weak and emasculated.
Again it ain't for everyone.

The best thing to do is avoid them completely if you're green.

Yeah I learned that shyt the hard way...

I would never put myself thru that shyt again

 

[calixprynce]

Ex said she wants to take ME on a date tonight.

Talking about she changed and willing to do anything to be with me.

She broke up with me for another dude at the end of 2016 after I went to jail for something I didn't do.

We had sex a couple times last year.

Then recently when she contacted me, I asked if she was talking to anyone else. She claimed to be single for a while.

I hopped on her Facebook and just 2 weeks ago she was "in a relationship" with a nikka that she caught cheating on her.

What's the Coli advice? Should I flake or should I go for the free meal and just fukk her until I get tired of her?

I have zero emotions for this girl anymore.

p*ssy and throat is fuego

so its ok to take an ex back while she been fukking nikkas in yall breakup period??

 

[DaHNIC82]

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So much wrong in your post,you've made a lot of elementary mistakes but they can be fixed .

1. You never ever make plans with a chick you're trying to fukk a damn week in advance. They're fickle like that.

Also it wreaks of you not having many options or anything better to do (in her eyes).

2.Always call a girl the day or night before as a friendly reminder and once more and hour before a date/party/lunch /smoke session or whatever starts, TELLING her to call you when she gets there(to your place/hotel/ restaurant etc). Meaning you already let her know that you've assumed she's coming.

3. Get off WhatsApp(social media as a whole) you can use it to chat to family and genuine friends but when it comes to Pussay it's cryptonite. Example what is your definition of a "good chat"? coz I can almost guarantee you there's absolutely no way to build a "vibe" off chats. In most cases it makes you too visible and accessible and thus not that intriguing(to new p*ssy). It's harder to be metaphorical, innuendo, insinuate or sarcastic in a chat format and you always come off as plain or run the risk of being misunderstood by her dumbness.

But the most elementary mistake you made (*I'm t pretty sure this Lil chick is flames and potentially outta your league looks wise) , anyway the mistake you made was making plans with only one girl. Always have at least 3, preferably 18-30 chicks that you can always call up. Meaning you invite as many girls as you can. But you also let a few other girls know that you might swing over their place AFTER the party/date therefore if the party is whack or no cute chicks show up or they show up but are full of shyt, you can hit up 5 chicks and say "ey I told you I'd swing by can I come over in an hour or so".
You must always always expect a bytch to flake on you and make sure you have so many options that you genuinely are not bothered whether she shows up or not.

she probably could smell the lack of options which manifests itself as what dumb bytchs call "thirst".

One time I had a chick on an unofficial date being very direspecful and overall c*nt. Instead of engaging with her I picked up my phone and made a call..
first caller: "Can I come over?"..."Ayt then, no problem maybe some other time."

Second caller: "Can I come over?... did you cook or should I bring something? Okay I'll be there in 15min or so".

Third call , but now I simply told her "ey I might be coming over tonight what rime you're gonna sleep?...ayt thats fine I'll text if I can't make and we can meet up tomorrow. "
I did all this in front of the bytch who I was on a date with and was being full of shyt. paid the bill and got up and left without uttering anything to her the entire time.
Also the reason I told girl number 3 that I might come over was if the girl I was going was also full of shyt.
is hope you see the vision here breh

The gymnastics nikkas gotta do just to get a chick to hang out these days



Valid points made though I salute you for. This is why online dating is fugazi

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

I have zero emotions for this girl anymore.

stop lying to yourself breh

have self respect and cleanse yourself of this hoe and move on. you moving like a nikka with zero options. if there zero feelings you would have cut this foul bytch off long ago and moved on to better things, no matter how dope her sex was. there are plenty of bytches with similar skills in bed.

trust me i also broke up with a foul ex in late 2016. I havent seen or talked to her since then. she tried texting me months later n i left her ass on read. she never bothered again. the sex was fire but it wasnt worth exchanging my dignity for it. im 1.5 years single, although 2017 was a struggle to get through being rusty as fukk, 2018 has been eat-good season and i wouldnt have it any other way.

do the right thing

 

[J.E.T.S]

I'm gonna flake. Thanks.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

I'm gonna flake. Thanks.

I know its gon be hard to forget her given that you still got a soft spot for her.
The cure is to keep 2 or 3 new bytches on speed-dial and juggle them for a few months. Gauranteed by the third month you'll have forgetten your ex ever existed. Aint nothing like new stress-free p*ssy....let alone 3 new ones

 

[calixprynce]

aint gonna lie , ya boy feel free as a bird

3bdrm crib, whip, no friends due to ex being my best and only friend

its time to build a roster

1st time in life living alone, other than jail

 

[J.E.T.S]

I know its gon be hard to forget her given that you still got a soft spot for her.
The cure is to keep 2 or 3 new bytches on speed-dial and juggle them for a few months. Gauranteed by the third month you'll have forgetten your ex ever existed. Aint nothing like new stress-free p*ssy....let alone 3 new ones

I been getting new p*ssy. I really haven't been stressing over her. She's the one trying to push back up. I feel no type of way. I was just asking should I go for some p*ssy and food later since she's paying lol.

 

[True Blue Moon]

What's up brehs. I've gotten a lot of love in this thread sharing advice and insights to the brehs so we can stay sharp on this journey. Good things are happening for me

On Tuesday, I'm recording a demo episode for my own relationships talk show on Dash Radio. Dash is a company that is making a run at competing with Sirius/XM. Starting this year, they're installed in every Ford vehicle, so there's huge potential for listenership.

Still kicking around titles, but I'm thinking about calling it "The Purple Rone Show" or "The Purple Rone Vibration." My name is Lerone (@hollywoodrone), so it's a take on Purple Rain and I wear a lot of purple cuz of my fraternity and my favorite sport's team (Skol Vikings). We're still working on what the show will be, but ideally, I'd want an evening time slot once a week, something like Thursdays at 6 p.m. west coast coast time 9 p.m. east coast time, live, with people calling in getting insights and advice.

If you search my posts in the thread you'll get a vibe for where I'm at with my philosophy. It's basically spiritual warrior masculinity with no excuses and living your mission. But I'm also a standup comedian and writer so it'll be fun and a vibe. We'll be drinking wine and whatnot during breaks.

My wife is going to be a regular co-host to add some perspective, and I'll have a rotation of my comedian friends to be guests each week.

First up is Upasana, a comedian and actress that I met a while back when we were booked on the same show together:

My road dog and fellow comedian Patrick will be running the boards and co-hosting also.

So this new venture is a huge blessing for my life and basically gives me an avenue to build my brand, help some brehs and brehettes and talk some shyt on the air each week.

If y'all wanna show me some love and be apart of the show, could you do me a favor and hit me with some questions and/or scenarios that you're going through so we can answer them during the show? You can drop it in this thread or PM me.

It can be about anything dealing with women, and me, my wife, my homie Patrick and Upasana will field the question and talk about it on the air. Give some detail and backstory like it's a regular post in this thread.

I'll come back and post the air date for the episode when I find it out and will try to get a file for the archives also.

Appreciate y'all and look forward to the questions.

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[NeilCartwright]

How important is the money your ol lady makes? I have a couple prospects, but they aren’t really “successful” they either straight up bums or Lowkey struggling.

One is tryna lock it down and get serious, but she a teacher and told me she only make 30k. I know she got some debt too because she went to a private HBCU.

But she wants me to drop $200 for a flight so she can visit me, and she wants me to fly back out to her for her graduation.

She fine as a mf but it’s just the financial aspect (among other things, like if she workouts etc) but idk.

Am I trippen too much off her profession vs some other shii? I hear about all these horror stories of women latching on to Nikkas doing aight because they’re looking for a comeup

 

[NeilCartwright]

I turned 24, got stationed where I didn’t know anyone, not a lot of blk people. I won’t lie a Nikka feeling lonely got me thinking damn I’m ready to settle down. If a fine one tryna settle down I might try and lock it down