Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cape Town JHB]

not at all..its the apex of confidence in identity and game that very few reach...

Thanks breh. It took me 10 years to even be comfortable and confident enough to be able to pull it off consisitently. Just reading books like Predatory Female ain't enough. Listening to Patrice O'Neil etc is crucial but ain't enough. You quite literally need to have interactions with an array of females who are full of shyt and conquer them(College party girls, college needy girls, black femisinists, working class girls, spoilt rich girls, lower inome hot chicks vs upper income hot chicks, late bloomers, cute bytchs with small t*ts, thick girls with no ass, dark complexion beautiful girls who were conditioned to hate themselves, entitled light skin girls, passive aggressive white bytchs, white identified mutatoes, single older women or women with kids, women who are bosses or top managers at their jobs, the snobby artists wannabe "deep" Erykah Badu types, the legit daddy-issues crazy men-hating broads, chicks who were raped/molested etc etc etc years upon years bruh.

Having mentors, theoretical psychology and real life experiences is crucial. The real life experiment part takes years .

Interstigly a lot if not all white guys that got into whitewashed saturated Game what they call "PUA"(Pick Up Artist) got into it not coz of loving women , liking bagging beautiful chicks, not a fascination with psychology or anything organic like most black guys who find themselves struggling with women.

Most CACs get into that Pick Up Artist shyt coz they hate white women and feel emasculated in their own white socio-sexual circles. They are usually nerdy or bang average looking, socially akwakrd guys who still have a complex due to being rejected by pretty white women all their lives. They use Pick Up Artistry as a replacement for their manhood and also as some type of "revenge of the nerds" type mentality. Thus most of them have these "set" ways of doing things that have no philosophy behind it. "If she says this is you say that, wait at least 3 days before contacting her again, if she calls let the phone ring for at least 10 seconds before you answer etc" ...you can actually pick the phone up as soon at rings and say " Girl I told you to always text me before calling, I'm busy right now. Text me later before you call again" and drop the phone. This showing her you value your time, don't take shyt (assertive) and are not scared of losing her all in one.

The cac PUA would never ever ever think of doing something like that coz what they call Game is based on copy pasting what they think Game is supposed to be. They are acting out what a real confident man does organically after years of social practice.

They even teach people body language/posture, how to project confidence, now if you got Game the body language is usually subconscious and you project confidence without even having to think about it. But again most of them are not interested in Game and tend to go from Pick Artist to conservistism/alt right to full blown white supremacist.
The whole time their feelings of emasculation are steeped in racist anti black men vitriolic sentiments that they project on white women coz no matter what they do they feel like they can never be as "cool"(manly) as a black male. it's very deep stuff.

Champagne Sharks Podcast (hosted by Trevor ) broke it down way better than me CS071: Listener Question: The PUA/MRA to White Nationalist Pipeline (03/03/2018)
, Lowkey the best new black male Podcast out there right now)

Thanks for the rep and I really wanna hear your thoughts once you've listed to CS Podcasts.
Peace from South Africa.

 

[ApolloStark]

As far as make sure she loves u more than her comment. Its said in here to protect brehs cuz no matter what she can change and drop u like a dime outta the blue and it devastates u more when u love her more than she loves u. Having said that any relationship is a gamble or a chance and u want to give ur best to her and doesnt matter what u believe cuz ur feelings can make u love someone more than u love her whether u want too or not cuz that shyt right that comes outta the blue and u wont see it coming and once u do your like

didn't get any notifications on this thread!! appreciate the comments homie...
i agree. gotta protect yourself at all times. watch out for the signs. i think when you've been with a woman for x long, you should be able to sense when sh1ts losing its allure or an element of disinterest is creeping into her e.g. she wants to spend more time with the girls etc. i guess the moral of the story is don't ignore what's staring you in the face. nikkas aint stupid but love can make a nikka act stupid

aint going out like that

 

[ApolloStark]

What are these red flags

didn't get any notifications!!

haha. welllll first red flag, i earn a LOT more than her. a LOT more. it's cool now, but i think when there's a big disparity between what you can do, and what she can do, eventually that sh1t can lead to resentment....

secondly, she's not a saint. she's 27 so still likes to party, not exactly a virgin.........

 

[360dagod]

Thanks breh. It took me 10 years to even be comfortable and confident enough to be able to pull it off consisitently. Just reading books like Predatory Female ain't enough. Listening to Patrice O'Neil etc is crucial but ain't enough. You quite literally need to have interactions with an array of females who are full of shyt and conquer them(College party girls, college needy girls, black femisinists, working class girls, spoilt rich girls, lower inome hot chicks vs upper income hot chicks, late bloomers, cute bytchs with small t*ts, thick girls with no ass, dark complexion beautiful girls who were conditioned to hate themselves, entitled light skin girls, passive aggressive white bytchs, white identified mutatoes, single older women or women with kids, women who are bosses or top managers at their jobs, the snobby artists wannabe "deep" Erykah Badu types, the legit daddy-issues crazy men-hating broads, chicks who were raped/molested etc etc etc years upon years bruh.

Having mentors, theoretical psychology and real life experiences is crucial. The real life experiment part takes years .

Interstigly a lot if not all white guys that got into whitewashed saturated Game what they call "PUA"(Pick Up Artist) got into it not coz of loving women , liking bagging beautiful chicks, not a fascination with psychology or anything organic like most black guys who find themselves struggling with women.

Most CACs get into that Pick Up Artist shyt coz they hate white women and feel emasculated in their own white socio-sexual circles. They are usually nerdy or bang average looking, socially akwakrd guys who still have a complex due to being rejected by pretty white women all their lives. They use Pick Up Artistry as a replacement for their manhood and also as some type of "revenge of the nerds" type mentality. Thus most of them have these "set" ways of doing things that have no philosophy behind it. "If she says this is you say that, wait at least 3 days before contacting her again, if she calls let the phone ring for at least 10 seconds before you answer etc" ...you can actually pick the phone up as soon at rings and say " Girl I told you to always text me before calling, I'm busy right now. Text me later before you call again" and drop the phone. This showing her you value your time, don't take shyt (assertive) and are not scared of losing her all in one.

The cac PUA would never ever ever think of doing something like that coz what they call Game is based on copy pasting what they think Game is supposed to be. They are acting out what a real confident man does organically after years of social practice.

They even teach people body language/posture, how to project confidence, now if you got Game the body language is usually subconscious and you project confidence without even having to think about it. But again most of them are not interested in Game and tend to go from Pick Artist to conservistism/alt right to full blown white supremacist.
The whole time their feelings of emasculation are steeped in racist anti black men vitriolic sentiments that they project on white women coz no matter what they do they feel like they can never be as "cool"(manly) as a black male. it's very deep stuff.

Champagne Sharks Podcast (hosted by Trevor ) broke it down way better than me CS071: Listener Question: The PUA/MRA to White Nationalist Pipeline (03/03/2018)
, Lowkey the best new black male Podcast out there right now)

Thanks for the rep and I really wanna hear your thoughts once you've listed to CS Podcasts.
Peace from South Africa.

im gonna check it out

 

[360dagod]

didn't get any notifications!!

haha. welllll first red flag, i earn a LOT more than her. a LOT more. it's cool now, but i think when there's a big disparity between what you can do, and what she can do, eventually that sh1t can lead to resentment....

secondly, she's not a saint. she's 27 so still likes to party, not exactly a virgin.........

if there was a sports version of her and you were an owner, would she be the franchise player if you were on the free agent market looking for players to sign

I've become very timid to women over 26...

 

[ApolloStark]

if there was a sports version of her and you were an owner, would she be the franchise player if you were on the free agent market looking for players to sign

I've become very timid to women over 26...

what's your age range? and how old are you bruh?

franchise player, that might be pushing it a bit..........to be the franchise player shorty's gotta tick ALL the boxes, including earning good paper, if not the same as me at least in the same ballpark

 

[360dagod]

what's your age range? and how old are you bruh?

franchise player, that might be pushing it a bit..........to be the franchise player shorty's gotta tick ALL the boxes, including earning good paper, if not the same as me at least in the same ballpark

Im 30...

These 27-30 joints who you haven't built something with before they got to that age place you at a huge disadvantage...

They want the marriage and the babies..
You can become disposable after that..

Women are emotional and believe in the root theory...

If you wasn't the nikka that planted the roots in her at 23, your taking big risk dealing with her when she is 27...

You might have been that top choice for her that day, but you probably wasn't her top choice in life..

It's pretty much the baby father theory without the baby..

I learned this the hard way during my heavy simping days...

Chick I was dealing with was still talking to her ex after they had a fight and cops were called...

My dumbass didn't see the underlying issue with it...

He had her emotionally and I didnt..

 

[ApolloStark]

Im 30...

These 27-30 joints who you haven't built something with before they got to that age place you at a huge disadvantage...

They want the marriage and the babies..
You can become disposable after that..

Women are emotional and believe in the root theory...

If you wasn't the nikka that planted the roots in her at 23, your taking big risk dealing with her when she is 27...

You might have been that top choice for her that day, but you probably wasn't her top choice in life..

It's pretty much the baby father theory without the baby..

I learned this the hard way during my heavy simping days...

Chick I was dealing with was still talking to her ex after they had a fight and cops were called...

My dumbass didn't see the underlying issue with it...

He had her emotionally and I didnt..

i hear you brotha. but at the same time, i'd argue messing with a chick at 23 also presents its own problems. a 23 year old female, despite what she thinks/says, does not know who she is yet. is not mature enough yet. how many b1tches at 23 get in a relationship that actually lasts. if someone had the stats i bet there's a lot more relationships that last for a female at 27 vs 23....of course there's other factors but "ceteris paribus" (to steal an economics term)

this is all interesting sh1t though, like hearing other people's opinions, only makes us stronger

interestingly enough, the girl i'm alluding to was with her ex for 4 years, so from 23 - 27 and we had a conversation the other day when she told me she felt like she had to mother him because he always needed pushing and encouragement to do sh1t (he's +3yrs) but it's the opposite with me cos i've got my sh1t together.....

not sure if there's a underlying comment there that i should be paying attention to..........

 

[MikelArteta]

2 months till I'm out of here brehs

 

[bucks3115]

man
last week , i was talkin to chick on the phone
only whatsapp convo
convo was good and at the end , i told her " there is a party on friday wuld come if you are free"
she said " she working on friday but if im free i will let tou know "
today its friday i sent a msg , till now still no answer

wher did i go wrong ?


@360dagod @ApolloStark @Pclarkrsa @Rice'N Beckford @TRUEST

 

[360dagod]

i hear you brotha. but at the same time, i'd argue messing with a chick at 23 also presents its own problems. a 23 year old female, despite what she thinks/says, does not know who she is yet. is not mature enough yet. how many b1tches at 23 get in a relationship that actually lasts. if someone had the stats i bet there's a lot more relationships that last for a female at 27 vs 23....of course there's other factors but "ceteris paribus" (to steal an economics term)

this is all interesting sh1t though, like hearing other people's opinions, only makes us stronger

interestingly enough, the girl i'm alluding to was with her ex for 4 years, so from 23 - 27 and we had a conversation the other day when she told me she felt like she had to mother him because he always needed pushing and encouragement to do sh1t (he's +3yrs) but it's the opposite with me cos i've got my sh1t together.....

not sure if there's a underlying comment there that i should be paying attention to..........

Both sides present issues...

For my personality, i rather take a chance on potential...

Which means the immaturity that can come with that...

Regardless of how much shyt she talks about him, if she still takes his phone call, then whatever she is telling you means nothing

Having your shyt together can be worse because she gonna feel threatened because she can't have leverage in the relationship...

 

[360dagod]

man
last week , i was talkin to chick on the phone
only whatsapp convo
convo was good and at the end , i told her " there is a party on friday wuld come if you are free"
she said " she working on friday but if im free i will let tou know "
today its friday i sent a msg , till now still no answer

wher did i go wrong ?


@360dagod @ApolloStark @Pclarkrsa @Rice'N Beckford @TRUEST

Personally send one message and be done...have a roster on standby

 

[Cape Town JHB]

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man
last week , i was talkin to chick on the phone
only whatsapp convo
convo was good and at the end , i told her " there is a party on friday wuld come if you are free"
she said " she working on friday but if im free i will let tou know "
today its friday i sent a msg , till now still no answer

wher did i go wrong ?


@360dagod @ApolloStark @Pclarkrsa @Rice'N Beckford @TRUEST

So much wrong in your post,you've made a lot of elementary mistakes but they can be fixed .

1. You never ever make plans with a chick you're trying to fukk a damn week in advance. They're fickle like that.

Also it wreaks of you not having many options or anything better to do (in her eyes).

2.Always call a girl the day or night before as a friendly reminder and once more and hour before a date/party/lunch /smoke session or whatever starts, TELLING her to call you when she gets there(to your place/hotel/ restaurant etc). Meaning you already let her know that you've assumed she's coming.

3. Get off WhatsApp(social media as a whole) you can use it to chat to family and genuine friends but when it comes to Pussay it's cryptonite. Example what is your definition of a "good chat"? coz I can almost guarantee you there's absolutely no way to build a "vibe" off chats. In most cases it makes you too visible and accessible and thus not that intriguing(to new p*ssy). It's harder to be metaphorical, innuendo, insinuate or sarcastic in a chat format and you always come off as plain or run the risk of being misunderstood by her dumbness.

But the most elementary mistake you made (*I'm t pretty sure this Lil chick is flames and potentially outta your league looks wise) , anyway the mistake you made was making plans with only one girl. Always have at least 3, preferably 18-30 chicks that you can always call up. Meaning you invite as many girls as you can. But you also let a few other girls know that you might swing over their place AFTER the party/date therefore if the party is whack or no cute chicks show up or they show up but are full of shyt, you can hit up 5 chicks and say "ey I told you I'd swing by can I come over in an hour or so".
You must always always expect a bytch to flake on you and make sure you have so many options that you genuinely are not bothered whether she shows up or not.

she probably could smell the lack of options which manifests itself as what dumb bytchs call "thirst".

One time I had a chick on an unofficial date being very direspecful and overall c*nt. Instead of engaging with her I picked up my phone and made a call..
first caller: "Can I come over?"..."Ayt then, no problem maybe some other time."

Second caller: "Can I come over?... did you cook or should I bring something? Okay I'll be there in 15min or so".

Third call , but now I simply told her "ey I might be coming over tonight what rime you're gonna sleep?...ayt thats fine I'll text if I can't make and we can meet up tomorrow. "
I did all this in front of the bytch who I was on a date with and was being full of shyt. paid the bill and got up and left without uttering anything to her the entire time.
Also the reason I told girl number 3 that I might come over was if the girl I was going was also full of shyt.
is hope you see the vision here breh

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

man
last week , i was talkin to chick on the phone
only whatsapp convo
convo was good and at the end , i told her " there is a party on friday wuld come if you are free"
she said " she working on friday but if im free i will let tou know "
today its friday i sent a msg , till now still no answer

wher did i go wrong ?


@360dagod @ApolloStark @Pclarkrsa @Rice'N Beckford @TRUEST

I aint no master or non like that , im just a student of the game. So i'll just leave this quote from someone else right here for you

For some females its "outta sight outta mind"
Everything was all good when you met her in person because you could use all yo weapons to attract her and keep her attention. But when not in person you couldnt create that same energy, that momentum you need to get her to agree to the first kick it session.
Unless you're already high on her priority list, she's not gonna make plans for you in the future cause she know she'll most likely cancel for something else she thinks she'd rather be doing, since you havent established your true value yet
To get past this roadblock of attaining the first kick it session all you gotta do is call her, chop it up for a few min and if she at the crib just be like "You mind being seen? I was in your neck of the woods I could stop by for like five minutes just to say wassup".
85% success rate. She'll most likely be cool with it since she aint making any major commitment and only sacrificing 5 min of her time. But if you handle yours that 5 min will turn to 15 and that 15 will turn to 30 and make sure you set up round 2 before you dip.

 

[Pclarkrsa]

man
last week , i was talkin to chick on the phone
only whatsapp convo
convo was good and at the end , i told her " there is a party on friday wuld come if you are free"
she said " she working on friday but if im free i will let tou know "
today its friday i sent a msg , till now still no answer

wher did i go wrong ?


@360dagod @ApolloStark @Pclarkrsa @Rice'N Beckford @TRUEST

.

2.Always call a girl the day or night before as a friendly reminder and once more and hour before a date/party/lunch /smoke session or whatever starts, TELLING her to call you when she gets there(to your place/hotel/ restaurant etc). Meaning you already let her know that you've assumed she's coming.

2 mistakes were highlighted in just that one section, but this is a trick question and I will explain at the end. First, if she says she's busy, take it as a no. If she's interested, she'll tell you when she's free in the same conversation. "I work Friday, but I'm off Thursday and Saturday." That open ended "I'll let you know" shyt is her making you an option, not a priority. Plus, if she's at work, she's at work. There shouldn't be any wiggle room after that. There are a few scenarios where she could have gotten the day off, but none of them are in your best interest. For example, she could have called in absent today, but if she's flaking on the people that pay her, what kinda treatment do you think YOU'LL get from her? Or, on a brighter note, she could have switched schedules with a co-worker and got the day off. But if THAT was the case, you would have known about it before today.
Which leads to the second mistake. While I don't agree with Cape saying you call an hour before, I DEFINITELY agree with the call the day before to reconfirm. If you have to call or text her to remind or confirm the day of, that's a lost cause in my book. The only time it's not is if it was a spur of the moment thing, but if you made plans a week ago, it is what it is. Now some guys will argue that broads are flakey, they won't remember that long, yada yada yada, but my counterpoint to that is...who hasn't seen a bytch plan a hair or nails appointment a week or two ahead of time and remember it? No writing it down, no calendar notes, nothing. Why? BECAUSE IT'S SOMETHING SHE GENUINELY PLANS TO DO AND IS INTERESTED IN.
But like I said, all of the above is in response to a trick question, because you made mistakes, but only in the process of committing a foul. Have you never heard of not bringing sand to the beach? Why would you want to meet up for the first time at a party? You can't get acquainted, you can't build a rapport, you can't even present yourself as a top prospect in the party in most cases. So yeah, you made mistakes, but you were already offsides anyway.