Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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the alarm is souunding friend. I am going through the same thing just get outta there and find shelter somewhere else
good analogy. Thats why people will tell you, when you notice the signs just evacuate.
You smell the smoke, hear the alarm and then finally see the large flame in the form of an argument. It may be your fault, perhaps you left the stove on too long. Or maybe a fuse just blew in the basement and theres nothing you could do to prevent it. Either way, are you gonna stand there and keep trying to throw buckets of water on it hoping the fire lessens slowly (when it will in fact make shyt worse)...or are you gonna bounce and call the fire department to handle the business?
One could say the fire department is a good friend she confides in or a family member to talk some sense in to her. Either way, its out of duke's hands. If the fire is too large and the home is beyond repair, youre better off purchasing a different home with that insurance policy than trying to rebuild for probably the same price. Otherwise...the house is saved and you move forward with caution based on what you've learned.
Just how I see it
I don't know brehs. I guess I'll just take all this advice and filter out what ill keep with me and what I won't. Ill keep it 100 tho I want to work this out with her. She's a good girl man and it ain't too many around. She's good with my daughter and that means a lot to me. I'm willing to gamble on this one. If I lose I'll still be able to learn from it.
I feel you. When you know the girl is good it makes it that much more difficult. Personally I decided to play chess but that is cause the issue isnt as large or defined. You did your dirt though breh
I lost a good girl and while it hurts she's not the only good woman out there. It could hurt much more in the end.
I feel everything y'all saying. Trust me. I'm going to try to make this one work. If down the road it doesn't that'll be just another notch on the lessons belt.
Sidenote: That SPICEBOMB cologne is dope. Lol I suggest y'all fukk with it
Sidenote: That SPICEBOMB cologne is dope. Lol I suggest y'all fukk with it
It's your choice at the end of the day. Just realize your going into a situation where she will always have moral superiority over you. Deep down, you don't want that situation. Deep down even SHE will be miserable into that situation. because it makes her de de facto leader of the relationship. She will resent that. and she'll resent you because it will be your fault she's the leader. no woman wants to lead in a relationship.
She doesn't want to be with a dude who thinks he can't do better. she wants to be with a dude better than her who still chose her out of many other options. and if your words, actions or demeanor betray that, shell sense that and will look for a better man while she's with you.
there are no guarantees but if you still want to save the relationship, realize your best bet is to reclaim your manhood back and to be willing to take the L on this one (and not just bluff, to actually be ready for that). These are your best odds because it will make you more attractive to her. By accepting her terms you might actually buy a few months or whatever but you're putting it on the credit card and reducing your odds of saving the relationship. you suffer from a case of the oneitis friend. you thinking you can't do better will be the cause of your doom (and i sincerely hope for your sake i'm wrong on this)
but again, it's your choice, good luck to you and whatever happens, learn from it.
I feel you. When you know the girl is good it makes it that much more difficult. Personally I decided to play chess but that is cause the issue isnt as large or defined. You did your dirt though breh
nikka I did so much dirt it's a shame Smfh. I've piped mad chicks, my babymom... Tried to holla at her friends and chicks she knows. All kinds of young dikkhead shyt smh it's wack when I think about it
Just remember that the relationship is based on her rules and regulations now, not yours.
See that's the thing. The "I got him by the balls factor" is all that scares me. I ain't worried about her thinking I can't do better. She knows for a fact I got a stable of chicks to choose from.
If only I could figure out how to show her I'm a changed man and all the stuff I did was a different me....a while letting her know I still own my nuts....
I don't think me promising I changed is "tender". It's honestly how I feel...
shyt is fiiiiiiire
Damn this thread is really picking up
It's always amazing reading stories and ish sounds exactly like mine to a tee
It's always amazing reading stories and ish sounds exactly like mine to a tee
And man run your just grasping for straws and making excuses now "she's good with my daughter" . There is a probably a woman out there who would be great with your daughter, stop settling especially for poisonous women
