Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Don't wait to see if she'll flake. She sounds like she would if she felt like it. I wouldn't put too much stock in it. Would leave her alone at this point and set something else with another jawn in your repository.

Thanks for the advice.

I'm not going to block her, but I won't be initiating anymore contact. We'll see how this go...
 

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time and time again....i'm noticing...whenever i deal with women i meet or go after in person...things seem to last longer and are better.

broads online? nothing lasts longer than 1 month.

so i'm out that online game for good.

online women have to many options even if they fat and ugly they got a thousand simps

I just mess with match and keep adding to my rolodex :ehh:
 

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Been talking for a few weeks ... none the past week because I felt as if she was bullshyttin. She texted me a few times one day, then "Hey stranger" Friday. I ignored all

I decided to hit her yesterday evening after thinking bout all them ass and titty meats.

We talked. I invited her out this weekend and she said she's busy doing hair. Ok cool. She then said she's free next weekend...

I texted her a minute ago "hmu".

She replied "lol". :stopitslime:

I said "what that mean?"

She replied "nothin, doing my cousin's hair"..

:hhh:


My finger is hovering over the delete/block contact.

Should I wait to see next weekend if she flake first?

I got mad other jawns :yeshrug:


I live by this code, back in the day I cavorted with women who were in law school/med school/women who lived hours away and they were so enamored rain, sleet, snow, even if they had to take the bus, skip school etc. they would come to see me.

What I'm saying is if a woman is truly into you nothing will stop her from not wanting to see you

and if she is not into you, nothing you can do to get a chance
 

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My ex (I broke up with her I'm on my purpose)(she mad time consuming , clingy and disrespectful) put on her Instagram that she is a free spirit. No lie that shyt pissed me off.
 
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My ex (I broke up with her I'm on my purpose)(she mad time consuming , clingy and disrespectful) put on her Instagram that she is a free spirit. No lie that shyt pissed me off.

It pissed you off because she knew it would piss you off,

that's why once a relationship is done you sever all ties until your emotions are gone
 

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It pissed you off because she knew it would piss you off,

that's why once a relationship is done you sever all ties until your emotions are gone
I definitely have to cut all ties. If I check it (rarely) I get some motivation to work out. Pick up some weight and put it down.

When you break up with your girl you expect her to just wait for you crying and not fukk anyone else . But in reality:francis:
 

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When you break up with your girl you expect her to just wait for you crying and not fukk anyone else . But in reality:francis:

In reality she's probably already lined up some new dikk to 'cleanse' herself of you. At anytime your girl has a list of at least three men she'd happily sleep with.

:wow::francis:

It's the rules of the game though. When I split with my ex recently my only proviso was we don't fukk people we know as that is just tacky. And there were plenty of chicks we knew that would have probably let me. In fact she begged me not to smash any of her female friends if they tried it on.

I like any chick I mess with to be far removed from having anything to do with friends and friends of friends in case shyt goes south. Suddenly people have to choose a side. And shyt gets awkward.
 

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online women have to many options even if they fat and ugly they got a thousand simps

I just mess with match and keep adding to my rolodex :ehh:

i went out with this broad i met online 2x and she only spent money on me for coffee on the first date. :stopitslime:meanwhile i spent money on mini golf (1st date), snakes and lattes downtown and some coffee that same night (2nd date). Had to drive the bytch downtown too and all i got was that i had to earn a kiss :hhh::camby:

this broad is in her 30's and on match.com, POF, OKcupid, tinder and this other dating app. Yup, came across all her dating profiles. :heh:She could be on more, but idgaf. :manny: Worst thing is...it says her longest relationship has been less than 1 year :gucci:

left for vacation for bout a week and got back last wednesday. Didn't hit her up till today just to see if she down to link up on thursday. Said she can't...but the way in which she replied makes me think the shipped has sailed. :manny:

these online hoes mayn:bryan::scust:

dealin and hollerin at women in person >>>>>>>>>
 

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In reality she's probably already lined up some new dikk to 'cleanse' herself of you. At anytime your girl has a list of at least three men she'd happily sleep with.

:wow::francis:

It's the rules of the game though. When I split with my ex recently my only proviso was we don't fukk people we know as that is just tacky. And there were plenty of chicks we knew that would have probably let me. In fact she begged me not to smash any of her female friends if they tried it on.

I like any chick I mess with to be far removed from having anything to do with friends and friends of friends in case shyt goes south. Suddenly people have to choose a side. And shyt gets awkward.
We basically have the same agreement. She a rider no pun at the end of the day she just needs to grow in certain areas. In all honest though I can ghost in the matter of seconds so it's not that bad but from time to time i will think about her. My future is more important then present satisfaction. :manny:
 

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Yup she prob talking to ten other dudes and going out Thursday with another one.

Mini putting at hwy 7 is :salute:



i went out with this broad i met online 2x and she only spent money on me for coffee on the first date. :stopitslime:meanwhile i spent money on mini golf (1st date), snakes and lattes downtown and some coffee that same night (2nd date). Had to drive the bytch downtown too and all i got was that i had to earn a kiss :hhh::camby:

this broad is in her 30's and on match.com, POF, OKcupid, tinder and this other dating app. Yup, came across all her dating profiles. :heh:She could be on more, but idgaf. :manny: Worst thing is...it says her longest relationship has been less than 1 year :gucci:

left for vacation for bout a week and got back last wednesday. Didn't hit her up till today just to see if she down to link up on thursday. Said she can't...but the way in which she replied makes me think the shipped has sailed. :manny:

these online hoes mayn:bryan::scust:

dealin and hollerin at women in person >>>>>>>>>
 

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I assume whether I dump or was dumped she's already talking to another guy. Always prepare for the eoesr

I definitely have to cut all ties. If I check it (rarely) I get some motivation to work out. Pick up some weight and put it down.

When you break up with your girl you expect her to just wait for you crying and not fukk anyone else . But in reality:francis:
 

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Been talking for a few weeks ... none the past week because I felt as if she was bullshyttin. She texted me a few times one day, then "Hey stranger" Friday. I ignored all

I decided to hit her yesterday evening after thinking bout all them ass and titty meats.

We talked. I invited her out this weekend and she said she's busy doing hair. Ok cool. She then said she's free next weekend...

I texted her a minute ago "hmu".

She replied "lol". :stopitslime:

I said "what that mean?"

She replied "nothin, doing my cousin's hair"..

:hhh:


My finger is hovering over the delete/block contact.

Should I wait to see next weekend if she flake first?

I got mad other jawns :yeshrug:


delete... a woman who wants to kcik it with you will make it happen, regardless if she works or not. And the response "lol"... definitely :camby:
 

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Shorty hmu on pof and scheduled a date with me. Did some snooping and found out she a big girl. Which I most definitely don't fukk with. Thinking about just flaking and not even responding, how would y'all play it?
 
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