Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

What a Friday evening and Saturday. My Korean chick came through to spend the evening and night with me.

Wasn't planning to but she spent most of Saturday here just chilling. I'm feeling this chick, I've really liked reconnecting with her. A year has made the difference clear. We had some good conversations about future plans, about ethnicity and racial politics & less serious topics like music and film. She eventually wants something serious, but she's also working and studying and doing her own things as well. She's also not a woman who believes in cliched romantic fantasies of love she's blunt and sensible I like that.

Chatting to her also made me think about messing up the good and healthy situations I now have with someone like her and risking it for potentially silly ones.

This big titty Persian chick is after me. Has been for the last three weeks, I was sort of entertained for a while she's attractive, fun to chat to etc, but she's also giving off major potential desperate and needy stalker vibes. Its why I hesistated actually trying to meet her when I had some free time. Usually I'd smash but...

I fear if i mess with her and then leave it at that I could receive an 'accusation' or have her stalk me all over the place.



Not looking to get caught up in that kind of action, so as fun as she's been I'm going to bush her. p*ssy is not worth risking if the person it comes with is crazy.

Speaking of healthy upfront situations that Japanese chick I met earlier last week is coming over for dinner with me this evening. Should be fun.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

In a long distance ting. Doesn't feel like the girl is putting in the time to make sure communication between us is good. Sometimes in a long distance thing, all you got is communication.

Thinking of trying to address it straight on. Failing that, ending it.

 

[J.E.T.S]

I felt so playa yesterday.

1. A chick that I hadn't talked to in a while hit me up. I kept it short and sweet. Told her I wasn't trying to hold her, even though she called. Said she'll call back another time.

2. This African chick that was playing games with me hit me with the "hey stranger" text because I been ignoring her since she didn't give me the attention a real nikka deserve. I didn't even respond.

3. Had a chick meet up with me last night at a lounge. All of my homies and their girls were there. Everything went right. She hit me with the "had a great time" text this nothing. Sent her the thumbs up emoji.

As long as you don't seem to care and appear as if you poppin. You will always win against these bullshyttin women.

 

[DropTopDoc]

Is it too much to ask to try and wife a taller femalemy momma tall and I always had a thing for y’all women but I’m only 5’10 so they stay tryna get w/them b-ball playing Nikkas. Got me curving short chicks like 5’2-5’3 hoping a stallion will come through

Been out here in Corpus Christi for almost 2 months. The quality of women here is some shii, compared to Atlanta. I been fcking chicks but all the women here either built like a fridge, got kids at 22, or just funny looking. Ima be 26 when I transfer and move to a new city

It ain’t looking good brehs I’m feeling stagnant

Edit-And these hoes talking bout “No AA men/black men” on tinder and shiithey got hella country bars where they can square dance but only 1 spot where they play hip hop music

Ha i thought about living there, heard it’s spanish heaven, but don’t sweat it man, a lot of times we are so desperate to find the woman and make the story complete, but take your time, you may need to do more growing til you find your wife, in the mean time do you, don’t be quick to dismiss a chick as well, and sometimes you get a tall one sometimes you don’t

 

[Deafheaven]

had to do an event today with a Jamaican joan. body crazy cute, got like 2-3 inches on me. But I'm a real nikka so I had to shoot my shot cuz the convo was flowing and she was cysing the kid for hours telling me I could be a model and I would take awesome pics and shyt got the digits and I'm gonna see what she on later this week most likely. Real down ass chick it seem like, was talking about illmatic, black power, and other coo shyt.

Spoiler

Also went out to the bar last night with my mans and I just was out chilling and was getting approached by chicks regularly asking me if my big ass fro was real and touching it and shyt calling me beautiful. shyt even had hood nikkas complimenting my style and hair, calling me mini hendrix lmfao. shyt threw me

Brehs I think I might have way more sauce than I thought and I just wasn't capitalizing on it Need to put myself out there wayyyyy more than I do currently.

 

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had to do an event today with a Jamaican joan. body crazy cute, got like 2-3 inches on me. But I'm a real nikka so I had to shoot my shot cuz the convo was flowing and she was cysing the kid for hours telling me I could be a model and I would take awesome pics and shyt got the digits and I'm gonna see what she on later this week most likely. Real down ass chick it seem like, was talking about illmatic, black power, and other coo shyt.

Spoiler

Also went out to the bar last night with my mans and I just was out chilling and was getting approached by chicks regularly asking me if my big ass fro was real and touching it and shyt calling me beautiful. shyt even had hood nikkas complimenting my style and hair, calling me mini hendrix lmfao. shyt threw me

Brehs I think I might have way more sauce than I thought and I just wasn't capitalizing on it Need to put myself out there wayyyyy more than I do currently.

How you perceive yourself and how others perceive you tend to be different at times. You might be a sauce gawd and just don't see it. Keep it up, whatever you're doing.

Right now I got all my previous "prospects" (really girls who I realized were just using me for the attention I would give them) blocked and deleted. Yeah, some might say its petty, but I think of it as eliminating girls who did nothing but waste my time out of my life. There's nothing I want nor need from them since I'm above them yet my desperation to get the skins sunk me to below their level. Once I came back to my senses it was curtains for them bytches, just ghosted on 'em. Since they weren't pressed over me anyway I doubt they'll lose any sleep over it, but fukk it, for me this is just putting me in the space I need to be in. No hoes, just working on me. I'm positive that by the time I've made some improvements across the board in my life at least one of these human beings with a vaj on this planet is gonna toss me the box, so I'm not too pressed. Just gotta be patient and keep working.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Yeah that’s a day to day process. I been just getting back into flirting and stuff and it’s even hard when when I don’t have the goal to fukk. You almost have to just start conversations with any females you see. Shoot at anything above a 6.

Hell yea but as long as we making progress that's all that matter

 

[MikelArteta]

Ldrs are tough, I've seen a few work but most fail.

Good that your addressing the concerns she may be feeling the same way but not sure how to bring it up

In a long distance ting. Doesn't feel like the girl is putting in the time to make sure communication between us is good. Sometimes in a long distance thing, all you got is communication.

Thinking of trying to address it straight on. Failing that, ending it.

 

[DaddyFresh]

Y

had to do an event today with a Jamaican joan. body crazy cute, got like 2-3 inches on me. But I'm a real nikka so I had to shoot my shot cuz the convo was flowing and she was cysing the kid for hours telling me I could be a model and I would take awesome pics and shyt got the digits and I'm gonna see what she on later this week most likely. Real down ass chick it seem like, was talking about illmatic, black power, and other coo shyt.

Spoiler

Also went out to the bar last night with my mans and I just was out chilling and was getting approached by chicks regularly asking me if my big ass fro was real and touching it and shyt calling me beautiful. shyt even had hood nikkas complimenting my style and hair, calling me mini hendrix lmfao. shyt threw me

Brehs I think I might have way more sauce than I thought and I just wasn't capitalizing on it Need to put myself out there wayyyyy more than I do currently.

you from DC? My girl don’t stop using the word cysing.

 

[Deafheaven]

Y

you from DC? My girl don’t stop using the word cysing.

naw chicago

 

[trick]

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf These chicks extremely direct, loose and picky at the same time breh, I was about to uninstall tinder and this chick literally told me she wants to fukk me. Then I told her I live in Scarborough, she said she wasn't going uptown. I said "I'll come to you", she said "No, my landlord lives across the street". Then she said she wants to specifically fukk someone who lives in the distillery area so traveling back after spending the night would be easier. Just uninstalled tinder

 

[DaRealness]

What a Friday evening and Saturday. My Korean chick came through to spend the evening and night with me.

Wasn't planning to but she spent most of Saturday here just chilling. I'm feeling this chick, I've really liked reconnecting with her. A year has made the difference clear. We had some good conversations about future plans, about ethnicity and racial politics & less serious topics like music and film. She eventually wants something serious, but she's also working and studying and doing her own things as well. She's also not a woman who believes in cliched romantic fantasies of love she's blunt and sensible I like that.

Chatting to her also made me think about messing up the good and healthy situations I now have with someone like her and risking it for potentially silly ones.

This big titty Persian chick is after me. Has been for the last three weeks, I was sort of entertained for a while she's attractive, fun to chat to etc, but she's also giving off major potential desperate and needy stalker vibes. Its why I hesistated actually trying to meet her when I had some free time. Usually I'd smash but...

I fear if i mess with her and then leave it at that I could receive an 'accusation' or have her stalk me all over the place.



Not looking to get caught up in that kind of action, so as fun as she's been I'm going to bush her. p*ssy is not worth risking if the person it comes with is crazy.

Speaking of healthy upfront situations that Japanese chick I met earlier last week is coming over for dinner with me this evening. Should be fun.

Yeah no p*ssy is worth the craziness that follows. Being stalked by a chick isn't fun as much as dudes love to claim crazy p*ssy is best...plis if you can sense a false charge on the horizon definitely run a mile from that.

How it go with that Japanese chick?

 

[Lord Bison]

I felt so playa yesterday.


2. This African chick that was playing games with me hit me with the "hey stranger" text because I been ignoring her since she didn't give me the attention a real nikka deserve. I didn't even respond.


As long as you don't seem to care and appear as if you poppin. You will always win against these bullshyttin women.

This is the GOAT feeling in the world.


BS Azz Broad: Hey Stranger

Me: Who's this

BS Azz Broad: (insert name)

Me: No response


Don't underestimate the ether that these chicks feel when they get blatantly bushed without you saying a word.

 

[MikelArteta]

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf These chicks extremely direct, loose and picky at the same time breh, I was about to uninstall tinder and this chick literally told me she wants to fukk me. Then I told her I live in Scarborough, she said she wasn't going uptown. I said "I'll come to you", she said "No, my landlord lives across the street". Then she said she wants to specifically fukk someone who lives in the distillery area so traveling back after spending the night would be easier. Just uninstalled tinder

match.com

 

[Taharqa]

I swear after changing myself from being a simp to a man who respects himself has helped so much. I've changed a lot after that breakup; changing literally everything about myself. That self discovery is a brutal journey, but it is well worth the rigor you have to put in. From begging chicks to hang out to chicks getting emotional when I don't respond to their texts. Them wanting to fukk, even saying wild shyt like wanting to have my baby. I use to get attached to chicks and now I just bush them when I feel like it.

Not gonna lie, some of the posts here did help. I can't remember half of your names due to me looking here and reading every now and then. Thanks to the men here who post information for the men that need it or even the solid advice you guys give. A sincere thanks was needed.


Goodluck on the hunt