Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lord Bison]

yep when a woman disrespects you it's because she has no respect for you and respect and attraction go side by side

I don't even go back and forth when chicks start to disrespect I just nip it in the bud and go on my merry way, go find another simp.

Same here. I'm amazed at how quick I can walk away from a woman versus me trying to "make it work" in my 20's. My ex had an azz that was a work of art and could fucc like a porn star. Despite all that, there was no way her disrespect was going to fly. What I didn't realize afterwards was the power that a man can receive from walking away from a gorgeous woman with a fat azz. If you can walk away from chicks like that, you become damn near invincible when dealing with BS from chicks in the future.

Yeah This would be a hard task. She is a cute ass mocha chocolate girl that disrespects her own parents. Told her mother to kiss her assand said worse. Never been disciplined before, gets everything she wants, daddys little girl , (she be eating his pockets if she needs to) and she has the queen complex.


Exactly and that is exactly what I did i checked her and got ghost. Now she is basically chasing me down . I told her to do what she does but the fact of me loving her won't change. I will see how this plays out. After my building stage i might hit the savagery mode.

The reason why she's chasing you down is because you gave her that reality check that her parents didn't do. I loved my ex and part of me still does, but I love myself first. As a man your self respect comes before anything. It's on your ex girl to humble herself and the best case scenario is you leaving might start that. But based on how quick chicks can get validation, I doubt that will happen.

Her parents failed her by not putting her in check when needed. It's not up to you to fix what they didn't do. Sadly this woman is broken and will continue to get dogged out by other dudes in the future. Don't be surprised if she ends up in an abusive relationship down the line with some other unlucky cat. Just be glad that dude isn't you.

 

[MikelArteta]

Same here. I'm amazed at how quick I can walk away from a woman versus me trying to "make it work" in my 20's. My ex had an azz that was a work of art and could fucc like a porn star. Despite all that, there was no way her disrespect was going to fly. What I didn't realize afterwards was the power that a man can receive from walking away from a gorgeous woman with a fat azz. If you can walk away from chicks like that, you become damn near invincible when dealing with BS from chicks in the future.

Lol whats funny on the very first page of this thrad
I wrote "Dump a hot girl once in your life to build immunity"

and its just like what you stated, you build immunity if your able to walk away from a 10/10 body thicker than a lake of molasses you will be able to walk away from anyone

and as you stated the power is amazing. Women are like universities, there are a few ivy leagues , there are thousands of universities some better than others and there are tons and tons of community colleges

As a man the way you build yourself up and carry yourself are your grades

 

[MikelArteta]

I think many of us stay (or have stayed) around these no good disrespectful chicks because we don't know our worth, we are scared we won't be able to find another chick that hot, or another chick that we "love", or man she ain't that bad don't you see whats out there. We're brehs with a doctorate ok with that 15 a hour job because it pays the bills.

Especially being a Christian I alwys tell God if this chick ain't for me or will cause me stress then just remove her from my life so now I shoot my shot all the time, rejection dont care

as my nikka obi wan said

 

[MikelArteta]

another chick in my roster just hit me with the " i think we should take a time out", aka prob canoodling with another nukka on valentines day right now all I said is aii with a thumbs up emoji

that makes it two chicks I lost this week but

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Gave my ex what she wanted with a "happy valentines day" with her quick draw mcgraw response .Didnt resoond to it tho .Still love her crazy behind and on Valentine's day thats the day i wish the women i care for a goid day .Called my grandma with her crazy ah to wish her one and called my momma to squash the beef with her by wishing her one as well. Still kept it moving and finished my letter to dude who owes me 1400 warning him I'll take him to court abd signed it "yours truly" la luhlala

 

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Gave my ex what she wanted with a "happy valentines day" with her quick draw mcgraw response .Didnt resoond to it tho .Still love her crazy behind and on Valentine's day thats the day i wish the women i care for a goid day .Called my grandma with her crazy ah to wish her one and called my momma to squash the beef with her by wishing her one as well. Still kept it moving and finished my letter to dude who owes me 1400 warning him I'll take him to court abd signed it "yours truly" la luhlala

V-Day had me wanting to text my ex as well, but for my own personal growth it’s best I don’t. I’m forcing myself to evolve from the me she once left. The love is still there, as much as I hate to say it.

Ultimately, my goal over the next few years is to be in a position where I’m not committed or vulnerable to any woman. However, I’m not sure how beneficial it is.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

V-Day had me wanting to text my ex as well, but for my own personal growth it’s best I don’t. I’m forcing myself to evolve from the me she once left. The love is still there, as much as I hate to say it.

Ultimately, my goal over the next few years is to be in a position where I’m not committed or vulnerable to any woman. However, I’m not sure how beneficial it is.

Yeah. For me its been so.e time .Still felt sadness and emotional drainage and said lemme text back. But as a man make a decision and kim .

Dont limit yourself bro. You might pass up on a good one and we're all gonna be vulnerable at some point its part of life .Just know where you stand and ill feelings will dissipate the more you grow .

Now im gonna finish my workout. Swim bench press curls squat pull ups and sit ups and eat a huge healthy well deserved meal after a hard days of work pay day and a great haircut by my fye ass barber whoz working on getting his ow .Shop. I SALUTE U BREH!

Ps paid off some of my bills. Got enough to pay off the rest .Them checks coming next week as well and a tax return. Got my judo membership and gym membership and my own place as a 26 year old. fukk it I'M KILLING THIS shyt! make a nikka wanna stay home and journey out as a framjng carpenter and start building them high rises and get my black belt and do some olympic shyt

 

[Solano707]

I think many of us stay (or have stayed) around these no good disrespectful chicks because we don't know our worth, we are scared we won't be able to find another chick that hot, or another chick that we "love", or man she ain't that bad don't you see whats out there. We're brehs with a doctorate ok with that 15 a hour job because it pays the bills.

Especially being a Christian I alwys tell God if this chick ain't for me or will cause me stress then just remove her from my life so now I shoot my shot all the time, rejection dont care

as my nikka obi wan said

real nikka shyt right here dap+rep

 

[Shadow King]

Why people always assuming I got hoes or even a girl? fukk does this mean?

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Why people always assuming I got hoes or even a girl? fukk does this mean?

That you're an adult heterosexual male?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

another chick in my roster just hit me with the " i think we should take a time out", aka prob canoodling with another nukka on valentines day right now all I said is aii with a thumbs up emoji

that makes it two chicks I lost this week but

Yep. I would just chuck up the deuces, and let her watch my back as I leave and never return

 

[StretfordRed]

I met a really nice woman on Sunday for the first time off Okcupid. We got on really well, had a nice time a nice passionate kiss at the end of the date. She's really stunning and I got paranoid thinking she's gonna get scooped by some Chad type breh in no time (online dating profile and self confidence thing).

So we go out on Valentines Day, not for day but just for the fact it was our next free day. We have a good time again, but I go and kiss her again and she has an odd look on her face after like

So I asked her what was up and long story short, her ex led her on for 8 months and she said she gave up a lot and he bailed out as he didn't want to commit. He's an idiot as far as I can see.

But she said its only been a week and she's scared about how she feels already and is keeping her guard up in case I hurt her. But I don't want it to mean she gets distant - as man don't do chasing

I know common sense is to chill and wait, but mans thinking about the whole online situation. She hasn't been online since we had our first date (I checked once) and she says she really likes me and we planned our next date already. So maybe I need to just trust the process and chillax as its so early

 

[Prynce]

So I had a chick hit me up yesterday and calling me love. Basically giving me V-day wishes. Out of the blue when we havent spoken in 5 to 6 weeks.

And before that kept texting things about how she dreams of me and misses me. But every Time I return her text not even on thirsty shyt but on some hey wassup shyt. She goes ghost on me.

I don't mind because I've moved on but it's just confusing how wish washy women can be

 

[Mr.bocario]

Been talking for a few weeks ... none the past week because I felt as if she was bullshyttin. She texted me a few times one day, then "Hey stranger" Friday. I ignored all

I decided to hit her yesterday evening after thinking bout all them ass and titty meats.

We talked. I invited her out this weekend and she said she's busy doing hair. Ok cool. She then said she's free next weekend...

I texted her a minute ago "hmu".

She replied "lol".

I said "what that mean?"

She replied "nothin, doing my cousin's hair"..




My finger is hovering over the delete/block contact.

Should I wait to see next weekend if she flake first?

I got mad other jawns

One thing I 've notice is escalating the situation cuts out a lot bullshyt.

Make concrete plans with her and give her insturctions. If she follows through she's golden if not KIM.

Dudes (myself included) Have to stop entertaining wishy washy women, that like the attention, but don't want to earn it (by being cooperative)

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Brehs ever get hit with this where a chick start "fixing her appearance" right out the blue when she get in your vicinity,eyesight?

Like a women fixing her dress or be lowkey fixing they shirt to form it around their ass or to show their curves?

Can one take that as a sign of choosing or nervousness?

I think it's a sign she tryna get your attention but sometime I be overthinking but I don't think so