Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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you definitely should bush her. but also, use it as a opportunity for introspection. at what point did she start to fukk up and what was your part in it. pinpoint exactly when and how you started to enable her. at what point did you start to help foster the environment that allowed her to think she could start to fukk up and that things would still be ok? i'm not saying you should build yourself up too hard over it. it's just so that you know what to do/not to do next time and maybe correct the course in advance.

good advice . I think its around the first time she thought it was cool to quit a job under the assumption that I got her . She trying to say I owe her $600 on her credit card (damn lie) . When I bring up all the CASH I spent on her since April 2017 (i get paid weekly), her excuse is "but youre the man"

thats that bum female mentality. I need me a NORMAL woman that got her own , not no lil girl looking to get taken care of . shyt im barely 24 , barely learning this world . I need that $ for ME! So like I said, its prolly when I start dropping unnecessary $ on her. Going broke and shyt throughout the week to make sure she happy
 

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The homie @Sharp wrote this years ago and it's true

As a man, in terms of marriage, you are more valuable.There will always be a surplus of beautiful, educated women with great personalities. However, there isn't that many of us.


A man who keeps up his appearance, is educated, financially stable, and charismatic decides his own destiny. These women should be courting you.


Now I'm not saying to let these women pick you. You should take your destiny in your own hand and pick the women who you think bring the mostvalue and less stress to your life. But you shouldnot allow these women to dictate the terms of the situation, especially when if you wait around, you can find a better situation.
 
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The homie @Sharp wrote this years ago and it's true

As a man, in terms of marriage, you are more valuable.There will always be a surplus of beautiful, educated women with great personalities. However, there isn't that many of us.


A man who keeps up his appearance, is educated, financially stable, and charismatic decides his own destiny. These women should be courting you.


Now I'm not saying to let these women pick you. You should take your destiny in your own hand and pick the women who you think bring the mostvalue and less stress to your life. But you shouldnot allow these women to dictate the terms of the situation, especially when if you wait around, you can find a better situation.

great advice.
 

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A woman who doesn't talk to a bunch.of different men
Is not a social media whore
Doesn't curse like a sailor
No kids
No tattoos
Is submissive
Humble
In shape
Loves God
Doesn't club or get drunk


This is all I ask for and its impossible to find


Damn fam, how’s that working for you??

I ain’t gon knock you

This chick had been ghosting on me frequently so I texted her and told her that I was gunna delete her #

It's funny how she found the time to reply back and even tried to blame it on me once I threw her to the bushes :gucci:


Not getting a response, is a response, you should not have to chase a woman for a response, if she’s into you emotionally, or sees something in you, she’s going to be after you period
 
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officially bushed status!

I give her 65$ to go get her nails done . She FB live me telling me she on her way home (interrupting my PUBG game) . Then she FB live 10 mins later asking if im hungry and what I want. Im not picky so I say it dont matter. She got mad at that :why: , came home and told me she wasnt happy :pachaha:


Wish she wouldve said that before I gave her my 65$ , but Im good. Better now than later! Now she demanding I give her my TV in exchange for the rest of my shyt in her crib :mjlol: . I cant wait til she see another bytch smiling in my face
 

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officially bushed status!

I give her 65$ to go get her nails done . She FB live me telling me she on her way home (interrupting my PUBG game) . Then she FB live 10 mins later asking if im hungry and what I want. Im not picky so I say it dont matter. She got mad at that :why: , came home and told me she wasnt happy :pachaha:


Wish she wouldve said that before I gave her my 65$ , but Im good. Better now than later! Now she demanding I give her my TV in exchange for the rest of my shyt in her crib :mjlol: . I cant wait til she see another bytch smiling in my face
I don't understand that demand, why is she saying that?
 

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Since my ex fiance dumped me I got a better paying job, about to come into 200,000, about to go back to school and my work is paying it all Increased my passion on the side in regards to photography, have been asked we should see where this takes us hopefully to marriage by 3 women since then

When a woman tosses you aside it's the best thing to happen breh.

God is looking out and sees what you have ahead
 
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I don't understand that demand, why is she saying that?

i still have some things in her apt. She has no tv so she wants mine that I paid for. Last night i had to give her $20 just to get my laptop charger. told me another $20 would grant me my food and medicine . just more entitled shyt , and she wonder why she got left . Im not obligated to give her anything of mines. Especially since she broke my xbox one. A normal woman would stay in her place , knowing i just dropped damn near $100 on her nails

she dont hear me asking for all the jewelry i bought her back
 

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i still have some things in her apt. She has no tv so she wants mine that I paid for. Last night i had to give her $20 just to get my laptop charger. told me another $20 would grant me my food and medicine . just more entitled shyt , and she wonder why she got left . Im not obligated to give her anything of mines

she dont hear me asking for all the jewelry i bought her back

My nikka you was supposed to put her in an Uber, to get her nails done, and say when she gets back dinner will be cooked, while she gone, take your shyt, leave her a note saying, I’m gonna holla at you later it’s been fun
 
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My nikka you was supposed to put her in an Uber, to get her nails done, and say when she gets back dinner will be cooked, while she gone, take your shyt, leave her a note saying, I’m gonna holla at you later it’s been fun

then she'd be at my door like a lost dog. We live in the same apt complex. She came over yesterday and tried to steal my TV . saying "you aint gonna just leave me with nothing" . Had to pick her up and dump her in the living room

smh this really like my first relationship , all this time I was thinking this is how relationships are. Been reading this thread and coppin some wisdom for older ppl and it seems like I just been a slave for almost a year. Im glad I woke up sooner than later. Especially since she dont like condoms. Im glad I aint got her prego

Here's the crazy shyt : She told me to leave cuz she wasnt happy and I wont change my attitude for her....but then try to say I left her :what: she clearly playin games that i aint got time for. We both know MY worth and HER worth . Lets just say I wont be the one crying at night. Im boutta flex! and tax refund around the corner:banderas:
 

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Gorgeous chick and I link online. Text, talk, then next day had happy hour drinks. I was throwed but we def kissed.

Next day I realized I left my phone in her car while we were kissing. My friend meets her to get my phone but i KNOW she saw these other girls who were blowing my phone up.

She goes on IG Live and mad dudes commenting. :sadcam: Now shes slow to text me back. :to:

We've made plans to do lunch this week but I feel like I'm getting lost in the shuffle. I understand women dont want to look thirsty either but damn if we both like each other lets see where it goes
 

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Gorgeous chick and I link online. Text, talk, then next day had happy hour drinks. I was throwed but we def kissed.

Next day I realized I left my phone in her car while we were kissing. My friend meets her to get my phone but i KNOW she saw these other girls who were blowing my phone up.

She goes on IG Live and mad dudes commenting. :sadcam: Now shes slow to text me back. :to:

We've made plans to do lunch this week but I feel like I'm getting lost in the shuffle. I understand women dont want to look thirsty either but damn if we both like each other lets see where it goes
Must just vent:

Out of all these women and attention that I'm getting now...the ONE I would actually COURT is on some iffy shyt.

For real. After meeting her and talking with her, I'd be on some "send flowers to her job" type shyt. THATS how bad I want her.

:wow:
 
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