Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Gorgeous chick and I link online. Text, talk, then next day had happy hour drinks. I was throwed but we def kissed.

Next day I realized I left my phone in her car while we were kissing. My friend meets her to get my phone but i KNOW she saw these other girls who were blowing my phone up.

She goes on IG Live and mad dudes commenting. :sadcam: Now shes slow to text me back. :to:

We've made plans to do lunch this week but I feel like I'm getting lost in the shuffle. I understand women dont want to look thirsty either but damn if we both like each other lets see where it goes


There are trials and tribulations in this game, see how she acts around you at the date, if it’s different move on bruh, you gon win and lose in the game
 

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Must just vent:

Out of all these women and attention that I'm getting now...the ONE I would actually COURT is on some iffy shyt.

For real. After meeting her and talking with her, I'd be on some "send flowers to her job" type shyt. THATS how bad I want her.

:wow:

That’s the only reason you stressing, and we all been there, sometimes you just don’t get the one you want, just keep that in mind when you doing your thing and a chick gets the cold shoulder in your rotation, we all curving and getting curved for someone
 

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Yup sometimes your the 5 star athlete and every school is jocking you then you tear your Achilles tendon and your begging some school in scooba Mississippi to take a chance on you.




That’s the only reason you stressing, and we all been there, sometimes you just don’t get the one you want, just keep that in mind when you doing your thing and a chick gets the cold shoulder in your rotation, we all curving and getting curved for someone
 

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My daughter's mother and I currently live together. I run my business from home and watch my daughter who is still a baby. Me and the mother aren't really together even though she cooks and cleans for me. We don't smash and there's zero intimacy between us and its a real strange situation. It's mostly us just wanting to raise our daughter in a two parent household. Chicks be throwing the box at me but I'm not sure how I should go about it. Do I fukk those other chicks or would that be disrespectful to my daughter's mom?
 
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My daughter's mother and I currently live together. I run my business from home and watch my daughter who is still a baby. Me and the mother aren't really together even though she cooks and cleans for me. We don't smash and there's zero intimacy between us and its a real strange situation. It's mostly us just wanting to raise our daughter in a two parent household. Chicks be throwing the box at me but I'm not sure how I should go about it. Do I fukk those other chicks or would that be disrespectful to my daughter's mom?

You need to discuss your situation with her, with mutual respect and your daughter's stable environment in mind. Both of you should have the same, clear understanding of where you're at, to avoid any unnecessary drama. I wish you well breh - a wrong move here could lead to a volatile situation.
 
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My daughter's mother and I currently live together. I run my business from home and watch my daughter who is still a baby. Me and the mother aren't really together even though she cooks and cleans for me. We don't smash and there's zero intimacy between us and its a real strange situation. It's mostly us just wanting to raise our daughter in a two parent household. Chicks be throwing the box at me but I'm not sure how I should go about it. Do I fukk those other chicks or would that be disrespectful to my daughter's mom?

U sure she not fukking:patrice:
 

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My daughter's mother and I currently live together. I run my business from home and watch my daughter who is still a baby. Me and the mother aren't really together even though she cooks and cleans for me. We don't smash and there's zero intimacy between us and its a real strange situation. It's mostly us just wanting to raise our daughter in a two parent household. Chicks be throwing the box at me but I'm not sure how I should go about it. Do I fukk those other chicks or would that be disrespectful to my daughter's mom?
This was me for half a year after my daughters mother had our child.

Get yourself a plan then get out. It won't end well.
 

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Im going back to school in the fall to get my massage license. Being double licensed Im hirable immediately any where. Bout to switch jobs and double my income. Tbh itd ve nice to have a chick to share it with but atm Im so burnt out on the chase and I think Im finally reaching my purpose dun even care. Do good and you will attract good at some point
 

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Must just vent:

Out of all these women and attention that I'm getting now...the ONE I would actually COURT is on some iffy shyt.

For real. After meeting her and talking with her, I'd be on some "send flowers to her job" type shyt. THATS how bad I want her.

:wow:
UPDATE: She hit me up on her way home. I just came real with it and was like "Yo I don't usually get flustered around women but you got me overthinking simple things because I'm feeling you"

I mentioned us going out again and she said she'd like that and SHE asked if I had plans for Valentines Day :mj:
 

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Positive. She has a high powered career. She wants to FaceTime with the baby numerous times out of the day. She's always at her office.

If she hasn't tried to be intimate, i would be concerned:hubie:...

At least if she was trying, you know there is a spark somewhere..

If she on some :yeshrug:shyt, you playing with fire brody...

Unless you got a GPS tracking device, you don't know what she doing ALL DAY...

She not in her office 8 straight hours:ld:

All I'm saying is unless she got the sex drive of mother Theresa, you might want to be careful with putting your full trust in that..:ufdup:
 

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What happens before/during/after the baby that makes the relationship go downhill:dwillhuh:
Postpartum depression is real and it turn women into bytches.

They wait their entire life for the joys of babies then realize :ohhh: this is real life. It's not like the movies.

My daughter wasnt latching on to breastfeed so my daughters mother felt like a failure of a mom so she took it out on me.
 
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