The homie
@Sharp wrote this years ago and it's true
As a man, in terms of marriage, you are more valuable.
There will always be a surplus of beautiful, educated women with great personalities. However, there isn't that many of us.
A man who keeps up his appearance, is educated, financially stable, and charismatic decides his own destiny. These women should be courting you.
Now I'm not saying to let these women pick you. You should take your destiny in your own hand and pick the women who you think bring the mostvalue and less stress to your life. But you shouldnot allow these women to dictate the terms of the situation, especially when if you wait around, you can find a better situation.