Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr.bocario]

Either a girl cooperating with you or she not, all this other shyt y’all wondering is irrelevant

 

[Shadow King]

So this girl talks to me and hits me up like “are ya alive?” Cause we haven’t talked in a few days after I saw her with some guy (So I’m like “I guess that’s that”) but after she hit me up I’m like “gonna watch the game tommorow?” (Jags-Pitt) but she said she was watching the titans pats game, I was like “oh yeah they’re trash” then she jokes around and calls me name (in a cute way) but then sends me a pic of her and her (I guess bf) in their titans jersey

Is this chick crazy? Anyone know why she would do that? Is like......she daring me to take her or some shyt? I’m a bit perplexed.

Fishing for attention. Bush that phone number.

 

[Phitz]

So this girl talks to me and hits me up like “are ya alive?” Cause we haven’t talked in a few days after I saw her with some guy (So I’m like “I guess that’s that”) but after she hit me up I’m like “gonna watch the game tommorow?” (Jags-Pitt) but she said she was watching the titans pats game, I was like “oh yeah they’re trash” then she jokes around and calls me name (in a cute way) but then sends me a pic of her and her (I guess bf) in their titans jersey

Is this chick crazy? Anyone know why she would do that? Is like......she daring me to take her or some shyt? I’m a bit perplexed.

She's toying with you, don't be stupid. Some times you have to use silence. It protects you. Next text should get no response.

 

[Uitomy]

She's toying with you, don't be stupid. Some times you have to use silence. It protects you. Next text should get no response.

Yeah that seems sensible, I just left a screenshot of the score and just didn’t reply. It’s a bit fascinating the kind of psychology of a woman like that, cause it’s not like I was simping or none of that, makes me think some women out here turn dudes out on some simp shyt with that kind of action.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Idk what y’all talking about them 30+ women know how to treat a nikka, I learned a lot from my last one, ain’t appreciate her until she was gone, be hoping I run into her, I know where she stay but I ain’t a creep

Ya my thing with this older chick is still going real well. She do know how to treat me well and she's been good with just taking things day to day. She very easy to talk to, no games. She make some excellent meals. I'm good wit it.

But I'm also grown a bit myself now where I don't feel I need to be out there in the field. I'm enjoy this winter and see where it go come spring.

 

[Phitz]

Yeah that seems sensible, I just left a screenshot of the score and just didn’t reply. It’s a bit fascinating the kind of psychology of a woman like that, cause it’s not like I was simping or none of that, makes me think some women out here turn dudes out on some simp shyt with that kind of action.

Most of them are a waste of time. From what you say she gets off on wasting your time. Even that guy she is with now. She will drain him and do the same to the one after that.

 

[Uitomy]

Most of them are a waste of time. From what you say she gets off on wasting your time. Even that guy she is with now. She will drain him and do the same to the one after that.

That’s horrifying, like legit, horror movie level to me. Jacksonville FL home of the true chicken heads man, like I’m living in a vagina filled hell lmao.

 

[Phitz]

That’s horrifying, like legit, horror movie level to me. Jacksonville FL home of the true chicken heads man, like I’m living in a vagina filled hell lmao.

its' every western country...99.9% of them today. They will even go as far as strive for your attention for the sole purpose to belittle you or emasculate you in a passive aggressive manner as you described. I've been meaning to write a book about this lol. I can understand you have your urges. You have to keep those under control. I have a woman now, but the mantra I go by now is this... do not get involved with her unless you're ok with losing her. If you're strongly attracted to one, and not getting her or losing her will take you off balance, DO NOT follow your desire. If you must go for one, go for one who you could take her or leave her. This has nothing to do with looks or attraction, but it's all based on how strong your craving is.

 

[JayJedi]

Have you ever met a woman that has actual game? Like a chick that wasnt high on your attractiveness radar but the style, femininity, mannerisms and game pull you in? Then realize she got you going like fresh meat. I had to catch myself bro. This chick had game beyond her years. And im trying to be faithful out here.

 

[Phitz]

Have you ever met a woman that has actual game? Like a chick that wasnt high on your attractiveness radar but the style, femininity, mannerisms and game pull you in? Then realize she got you going like fresh meat. I had to catch myself bro. This chick had game beyond her years. And im trying to be faithful out here.

Just means she's a good sales person at selling you an illusion. Stay with your girl, they're all the same.

 

[JayJedi]

Just means she's a good sales person at selling you an illusion. Stay with your girl, they're all the same.

Oh yeah i snapped out of it, but it shook me how easily she reined me in. I've been doing good on my faithful nikka life lately.

 

[switchmemorylanes]

Some times you have to use silence. It protects you. Next text should get no response.

Real talk. I have kept on making this mistake with this one girl. And most of the time it was me initiating conversation. I hit her with long ass replies, telling her my deepest emotions. We were involved for around a year, and it has lingered on for a couple years since then until now.

In reality, she was mostly interested in mind games and power plays, when I just wanted that genuine connection. Everything was a massive L with this girl. Brehs, I'm talking about losing dignity. It's pretty shameful. Telling her how much I loved her when she couldn't give less of a fukk.

It's tough when the only women you've loved have said they don't want to be with you. That shyt crushes your self-worth.



But it'll get better brehs, it'll get better.



I'm going to disengage from women - minimize mental and emotional energy on that shyt. And instead, focus on myself, better myself, get all my shyt up to the right levels.

 

[switchmemorylanes]

They will even go as far as strive for your attention for the sole purpose to belittle you or emasculate you in a passive aggressive manner as you described.

I felt like this just described the entire 3-year long interaction I had with this one chick.

 

[Phitz]

Real talk. I have kept on making this mistake with this one girl. And most of the time it was me initiating conversation. I hit her with long ass replies, telling her my deepest emotions. We were involved for around a year, and it has lingered on for a couple years since then until now.

In reality, she was mostly interested in mind games and power plays, when I just wanted that genuine connection. Everything was a massive L with this girl. Brehs, I'm talking about losing dignity. It's pretty shameful. Telling her how much I loved her when she couldn't give less of a fukk.

It's tough when the only women you've loved have said they don't want to be with you. That shyt crushes your self-worth.



But it'll get better brehs, it'll get better.



I'm going to disengage from women - minimize mental and emotional energy on that shyt. And instead, focus on myself, better myself, get all my shyt up to the right levels.

That's their sole purpose in the 21st century. It's a conspiracy lol.

Not to sound cliche but you have to find/chase God. It's healther for your balance.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

Is it possible to be 30

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Find a decent woman with NO kids...