Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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These chicks out here really aint shyt :pachaha:

I hit this girl first date. Chilled with her several times after. We seemed to be hitting it off. She was planning to move so it was always gonna be semi casual. But she hit me up last week like when we hanging out again. I go when are you free, my usual answer. She like blah blah okay. Then I ask her how she feel about dutch, since we not super exclusive. Ill pay when I feel like it but if you not my wizz its no way in hell im doing it every time. Even twll her to call me if that confuses her cuz texts can be misinterpreted.


Pure static after she never took more than a hiur to respond to me. Mannnn text thesr byrds to see where they mind really at. She must of thought I was food smh. :wow:
 

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These chicks out here really aint shyt :pachaha:

I hit this girl first date. Chilled with her several times after. We seemed to be hitting it off. She was planning to move so it was always gonna be semi casual. But she hit me up last week like when we hanging out again. I go when are you free, my usual answer. She like blah blah okay. Then I ask her how she feel about dutch, since we not super exclusive. Ill pay when I feel like it but if you not my wizz its no way in hell im doing it every time. Even twll her to call me if that confuses her cuz texts can be misinterpreted.


Pure static after she never took more than a hiur to respond to me. Mannnn text thesr byrds to see where they mind really at. She must of thought I was food smh. :wow:

if she hit you up to go to eat, simply ask "you treating? ;)".

"you wanna go dutch" is a mood killer. no matter the situation. even if u dont like the girl.
 

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if she hit you up to go to eat, simply ask "you treating? ;)".

"you wanna go dutch" is a mood killer. no matter the situation. even if u dont like the girl.
I know I could have handled it with more tact. Ill move more eloquently in the future. Still, Im not gonna absolve ol girl for ghosting over that considering Ive already paid once and cooked for her. Plus she has a good job. fukk I look like sponsoring her.
 

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First date went really well:ehh::ehh:
Went go-karting:ehh:
Already talked about the 2nd date:mjgrin:
Coli brehs I fukked up by not going for the kiss at the end of the night:snoop::snoop: the vibe was perfect and she was close to me:snoop: i just kissed her on the cheek:snoop: did i just blow my chances?:why:

If she is someone you see a long term future with you don't need to rush things

Kiss on a cheek is perfectly okay, unless you was socially awkward in giving that kiss
 

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fukked a girl today who been falking on me for a loooong ass time. used fukk her ex friend back ib 2011-2014 and she used to get told about my dikk game then in 2015 we been flirting and planning on hanging but some shyt would always come up. Even this past december I called her over 3 times abd she would pull away at the last minute. so she finally came thru the crib today and boy she got that wet wet, felt like i wasnt wearing any condom the whole time :wowjb:

2018 is eat good season brehs :blessed:.
 

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fukked a girl today who been falking on me for a loooong ass time. used fukk her ex friend back ib 2011-2014 and she used to get told about my dikk game then in 2015 we been flirting and planning on hanging but some shyt would always come up. Even this past december I called her over 3 times abd she would pull away at the last minute. so she finally came thru the crib today and boy she got that wet wet, felt like i wasnt wearing any condom the whole time :wowjb:

2018 is eat good season brehs :blessed:.
So ya'll kept in consistent contact even tho she was dubbin you? :patrice: or you just hit her up again and she was down this time?

anyway, good shyt breh :jawalrus:
 

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First date went really well:ehh::ehh:
Went go-karting:ehh:
Already talked about the 2nd date:mjgrin:
Coli brehs I fukked up by not going for the kiss at the end of the night:snoop::snoop: the vibe was perfect and she was close to me:snoop: i just kissed her on the cheek:snoop: did i just blow my chances?:why:

Nope, not if yall already talking about a second date. Kiss her then.
 

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Had to think about it. I left a message asking if it was cool to reschedule. If you can't be an adult and accept a nikka gotta work and work 7 days a week and may have been confused then that might be a sign from early on tbh.

I'm not tryna hurt no feelings but y'all work 70 hours a week then come at me. Talmbout disrespect. It woulda been that if I just shot the text but I called and left a message. So naw.

Breh I used to be in the same boat..

Working all those hours are torture..i had no social life and paid the price for that
 

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I know I could have handled it with more tact. Ill move more eloquently in the future. Still, Im not gonna absolve ol girl for ghosting over that considering Ive already paid once and cooked for her. Plus she has a good job. fukk I look like sponsoring her.

yep, ask if she treating next time... a quality woman won't let a man treat every time - she would and should offer. If she gives the slightest bit of hestitance if you ask her to treat -drop her.
 

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First date went really well:ehh::ehh:
Went go-karting:ehh:
Already talked about the 2nd date:mjgrin:
Coli brehs I fukked up by not going for the kiss at the end of the night:snoop::snoop: the vibe was perfect and she was close to me:snoop: i just kissed her on the cheek:snoop: did i just blow my chances?:why:


It should still be all good. But she was probably expecting that kiss on the lips. I did the same thing with a chick last year went out on a date, she was fun and we vibed. I walked her to her door and we hugged bye and I gave her a kiss on the cheek. Tbh my mind was elsewhere as I was mentally recovering from another dating incident the week before.

:sadcam:

Anyway I setup another date the following week and this time I asked to come up to hers and we did more than kissing :wow:. After we had sex she told me she wanted me to kiss her the week before.

And was surprised that all she got was a kiss on the cheek. Made up for that though.

:shaq:
 

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So ya'll kept in consistent contact even tho she was dubbin you? :patrice: or you just hit her up again and she was down this time?

anyway, good shyt breh :jawalrus:
after flaking i would ignore her for a while and focus on other chicks then somehow we would end up chatting again then try to set something again. This time i did it 3 times only cause she gave believable excuses. but after the third flake i called her out on her bullshyt and told her to just come clean if she lost interest so i can know where we stand. she insisted that she wants to hang and i said "you'll hit me up when u wanna hang" and went quiet. she hit me up yesterday and we had small talk nd she let me know she wants to hang and i should let her know when she can come over. i said today, and she finally rocked up :shaq:
. whn she got to my place she told me she almost flaked cause she has a lil headache before coming thru and was gonna send me a text cancelling but decided not to :gucci:.

man these girls are a trip :scust:



the p*ssy was good tho so i got over it :mjgrin:
 

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I'm in a transition phase. I'm new to my 30's and still look like I'm 25 but I know it really ain't the move to still use the old game, I gotta evolve. I notice younger broads cooperate more since they automatically assume a lil age = more paper and power. Which it does in my case.


I still like my hoes younger but some of the shyt they be talking about just is dumb AF. :what: Like when I was 19 I wanted to be grown, this new breed wanna stay in grade school mentally.


It's hard tryna slide up on a fresh little 21 y.o tender when she look good as FUKK, but be taking fish face snapchats and be doing goofy shyt. bytches be acting like the stooges.


The mid 20's hoes are depressing single moms or baggage carriers. Hoes in they 30's turn flat out boring and suddenly wanna not be a freak no more.


40 and 50 something's who catch that second wind are fun but I really ain't tryna run a nursing home on my dikk.
 

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Breh I used to be in the same boat..

Working all those hours are torture..i had no social life and paid the price for that
What's the price? Cause I feel like I'm cashing out after being in a relationship for 10 months and having my dikk n the dirt. I'm 26, in shape, doing carpentry, being a bartender and a shuttle driver. shyt fukk these bytches me and money dating. I'll be damned if I'm not a1 before my social life is. Worked 18 hours yesterday and slept for 4 and worked another 8 in the rain setting up walls for a 6 story apartment building downtown, went and cashed my other check and am at the bookstore looking at car manuals and books to work on my Spanish. Thinking bout copping me a lil new whip to do uber n after work. I be feeling like a nikka look too good to not have no money.

Edit old girl hmu talmbout I'm sorry I didn't respond sooner are you free on Friday.
 
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