Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Back in my simp days I used to get angry because I saw dudes who never seemed to do anything get the girl and keep the girl, I hated these dudes I agreed when women would call em a$$holes, losers etc., And never understood why would these women lament over them, why would they go back over and over again.

But as I got older and more experienced I realize these guys aren't a$$holes they aren't losers, these men are men, confident men. Men who realize there will always be another woman if they want, men who realize that it's ok to say no, men who realize women come and go and if she stays cool and if she goes just wasn't meant to be cool as well.

Yesterday it was freezing cold and snowing, a chick asked me to hang out at her place I said sure, once I realized how cold it was and that it was snowing I told her won't be able to make it, she blew up and got mad at me, how if I don't come she will never ask me to hang out again and her time is important I said ok have a good night

When j was a simp I would have driven in zero visibility and black ice with summer tires on to appease some thot

As 2017 closes and 2018 begins let's become Men brehs, I'm not saying don't compromise if your in a relationship etc. , But stand firm, don't fall to tactics be Men

 

[True Blue Moon]

This applies to life as a whole, but definitely to dealing with women.

The Four Agreements.

Be impeccable with your word.
Don't take anything personal.
Never make assumptions.
Always do your best.

 

[MikelArteta]

Doesn't hurt to get experience

Y’all think it’s worth starting a relationship second semester senior year of high school?

 

[True Blue Moon]

So you just gonna ask a bunch of ambiguous questions and not share what prompted it? @pickles

We have reciprocal openness in this thread

 

[mortuus est]

Back in my simp days I used to get angry because I saw dudes who never seemed to do anything get the girl and keep the girl, I hated these dudes I agreed when women would call em a$$holes, losers etc., And never understood why would these women lament over them, why would they go back over and over again.

But as I got older and more experienced I realize these guys aren't a$$holes they aren't losers, these men are men, confident men. Men who realize there will always be another woman if they want, men who realize that it's ok to say no, men who realize women come and go and if she stays cool and if she goes just wasn't meant to be cool as well.

Yesterday it was freezing cold and snowing, a chick asked me to hang out at her place I said sure, once I realized how cold it was and that it was snowing I told her won't be able to make it, she blew up and got mad at me, how if I don't come she will never ask me to hang out again and her time is important I said ok have a good night

When j was a simp I would have driven in zero visibility and black ice with summer tires on to appease some thot

As 2017 closes and 2018 begins let's become Men brehs, I'm not saying don't compromise if your in a relationship etc. , But stand firm, don't fall to tactics be Men

not saying no to her when she tells you to buss nuts inside her ay fella

 

[mortuus est]

You ever just think about how the average male today has seen more titties than the average male 30 years ago?
Its so easy to find unlimited pictures/videos of women from porn stars to just regular women pictures all over the net.
Like so many celebs nudes leaked.
We've seen a ton of titties from girls that we know simply through text or snapchat
blessing when you think about it.
or is it?
I've seen so many its hard to remember perfect moments where I thought I'd remember forever when I did shyt with a girl because I just indulge in this shyt.

you need to discipline yourself

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

you need to discipline yourself

What you mean

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I treat all women the same. I guess you could call it flirting, but it's more for me than them.

Society has conditioned married men to think that the fun is over after saying I do, you weren't shyt before your wife and you're just supposed to say "Yes dear" and forget that you were ever cool. It's especially natural to slip into this if you're a good dude who has a great relationship with his mom.

The thing is, when you do that you're robbing both yourself and your lady. She doesn't want a shy geek that she can punk and that she's the only one who finds attractive. That's why sexless marriages happen.

So as not to slip into this unnatural state of lameness, I give good energy and shoot warmth and personality at every person I encounter. When that person is a woman and framed through the lens I view women, it looks indistinguishable from how I would act if I was shooting my shot. I never turn the faucet off, so my lady gets that same energy without it being try hard.

And I get extra confidence points when I know I could have pulled a chick but don't, or if my lady is with me and sees that a woman wanted me. It makes her step her game up too and keeps the whole situation how it should be.

This this this dapped repped


And on that note.... breh.... was in wally world today and I seen something that made me weak.

This tall slim thick chic built like a straight stallion got me questioning myself

Even for no other reason, I want to make contact with her (she works there) just to exhibit that warm friendly vibe you mentioned

And to satisfy my curiosity. Not even a sexual curiosity

More like a... she looks intriguing. I wonder what fuels her in her daily life, what she's into and what her story is

On a friend level.

I usually wouldn't even do this but I honestly feel compelled.

And of course, there's no guarantee that I will even be successful in getting the answers to my question... but I'm really feeling like I must try

 

[mortuus est]

What you mean

what you said is not a blessing, thats thirst
yeah chicks and their naked content is out there

if you want to remember those "perfect moments" with real women or have more of those moments, you seek it and stay away from looking at bum and breast on your phone

 

[Swing]

I got a strange question and its not trying to low key big myself up, and maybe im even taking an L in is situation...but,

Im noticing a pattern, especially with some dudes at the work place. Most of the time, we’re only on a ”whats up” basis... but, when a certain female is around they tend to go past that.

One example, I’ve noticed this twice now with the same dude.. im walking up to the entrance, the girl and dude are standing outside:

Me: Hey

Dude: Hey man, your walk, you’re walk’s real tough. You look like a bad ass.

Me:

Today, he said the same thing. Same chick, they’re sitting at a table in the lunch room.

Him: Don’t get angry, some people can pull it off, it’s not meant as an insult sort of.

Me: Sort of?

Him:


Me: Whatever man


Now I have my suspicions of why this behavior occurs but I would like to hear from y’all, I might be wrong.

 

[TRUEST]

I got a strange question and its not trying to low key big myself up, and maybe im even taking an L in is situation...but,

Im noticing a pattern, especially with some dudes at the work place. Most of the time, we’re only on a ”whats up” basis... but, when a certain female is around they tend to go past that.

One example, I’ve noticed this twice now with the same dude.. im walking up to the entrance, the girl and dude are standing outside:

Me: Hey

Dude: Hey man, your walk, you’re walk’s real tough. You look like a bad ass.

Me:

Today, he said the same thing. Same chick, they’re sitting at a table in the lunch room.

Him: Don’t get angry, some people can pull it off, it’s not meant as an insult sort of.

Me: Sort of?

Him:


Me: Whatever man


Now I have my suspicions of why this behavior occurs but I would like to hear from y’all, I might be wrong.

the girl said something to him about u. and that something was probably a compliment and he's all up in his feelings. so he's trying to make u look bad in her eyes. if uve got the gift of gab u need to shut that sh1t down fast, but not in a openly combative way. something to the effect of "a man walks like a man" and u give him a smirk. dont let any repetitive maliciously toned comments from people slide.

 

[360dagod]

Earlier this year I was seeing this girl who lives around my way. Things ran their course for about 2-3 months until one day she started ghosting on me. When I finally got a chance to talk to her a week later she said she didn't like the way I talked to her before (just before the ghosting this bih made plans with me one night and she stood me up so I calmly called her out on it) and essentially she doesn't want to see me anymore. OK, whatever. I'm pretty sure there was something else underlying but what do I know

Being that she lives around my way I knew that bumping into her again would be inevitable. Since she deaded everything I've passed her a few times on the street. This bih can't even look at me. She walk past me like I don't exist. One day I'm on the bus and she comes on, walks right past me, looks me IN THE EYES, and doesn't speak I'm not saying we gotta be friends but what baffles me is how she can't even acknowledge me in public now but previously I was wearing her out and shooting the club up

Women gotta be the strangest creatures

Her hormones are outta whack..

She might randomly hit you up to fukk one day...

And if you were going in raw...

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

So now this same chick still not caring that I got a woman say "we gotta meet real soon, I got something for you"

mind you she could have just given it to me then. Whatever it is. And should I even be accepting gifts?

shyts wild

 

[kenreid0726eabos]

Women are Human beings. Human Equality

 

[mortuus est]

when your chick says she wants you to start shooting up her club more in 2018