Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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New Zero Roster for 2018. It’s a shame when you foresee involuntary celibacy in your future, but I want to get my shyt together before pulling women because shooting my shot left me with a 0.0 percentage this year.
 

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All that is fine and dandy...don't mean I gotta be down with public sex. All this shows is that I haven't done what I'm supposed to do to improve my quality of life yet at the same time it's been lonesome.

You can call it negativity if you want but it's realism. I have obstacles I want fukking moved. Period.

And no, maybe outside of starting to lift, I have not accomplished shyt to be proud of. A lot of work needs to be done. Like I said call it what you want.


The change starts there. Once you begin to lift on a regular basis, the momentum of positive experiences tend to happen tenfold. Each day you go to that gym to lift some weights is one more step toward towards greatness. Keep lifting and keep knocking out those goals one by one and you'll develop a confidence and swagger you've never seen before.

Once you get a lil swole, the type of game you spit is going to feel so natural you'll feel like Goku on Ultra Instinct :banderas:
 

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Married guys here. Do you flirt? Why or why not?
I treat all women the same. I guess you could call it flirting, but it's more for me than them.

Society has conditioned married men to think that the fun is over after saying I do, you weren't shyt before your wife and you're just supposed to say "Yes dear" and forget that you were ever cool. It's especially natural to slip into this if you're a good dude who has a great relationship with his mom.

The thing is, when you do that you're robbing both yourself and your lady. She doesn't want a shy geek that she can punk and that she's the only one who finds attractive. That's why sexless marriages happen.

So as not to slip into this unnatural state of lameness, I give good energy and shoot warmth and personality at every person I encounter. When that person is a woman and framed through the lens I view women, it looks indistinguishable from how I would act if I was shooting my shot. I never turn the faucet off, so my lady gets that same energy without it being try hard.

And I get extra confidence points when I know I could have pulled a chick but don't, or if my lady is with me and sees that a woman wanted me. It makes her step her game up too and keeps the whole situation how it should be.
 

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The change starts there. Once you begin to lift on a regular basis, the momentum of positive experiences tend to happen tenfold. Each day you go to that gym to lift some weights is one more step toward towards greatness. Keep lifting and keep knocking out those goals one by one and you'll develop a confidence and swagger you've never seen before.

Once you get a lil swole, the type of game you spit is going to feel so natural you'll feel like Goku on Ultra Instinct :banderas:
I been going 4-5x a week for a year now. A female (that I actually think is attractive) has noticed but it'll probably be another year before women in general really notice because I'm still a smaller guy. Hopefully it'll be donkey booty MILFs from chocolate to off-white :banderas:
 

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I been going 4-5x a week for a year now. A female (that I actually think is attractive) has noticed but it'll probably be another year before women in general really notice because I'm still a smaller guy. Hopefully it'll be donkey booty MILFs from chocolate to off-white :banderas:


Shoot your shot on that chick. What do you have to lose? If she says no, ask if she's got some single friends she can hook you up with :shaq:
 

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I treat all women the same. I guess you could call it flirting, but it's more for me than them.

Society has conditioned married men to think that the fun is over after saying I do, you weren't shyt before your wife and you're just supposed to say "Yes dear" and forget that you were ever cool. It's especially natural to slip into this if you're a good dude who has a great relationship with his mom.

The thing is, when you do that you're robbing both yourself and your lady. She doesn't want a shy geek that she can punk and that she's the only one who finds attractive. That's why sexless marriages happen.

So as not to slip into this unnatural state of lameness, I give good energy and shoot warmth and personality at every person I encounter. When that person is a woman and framed through the lens I view women, it looks indistinguishable from how I would act if I was shooting my shot. I never turn the faucet off, so my lady gets that same energy without it being try hard.

And I get extra confidence points when I know I could have pulled a chick but don't, or if my lady is with me and sees that a woman wanted me. It makes her step her game up too and keeps the whole situation how it should be.

Interesting. But what happens when an attractive woman (who doesn't know I am married) shows interest in me?
 

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As much as we think we got it together, we all one chick away from falling off your square, and it’s never the chick that you can play it cool with, it’s the one that come from left field, and has the potential to have you looking for her in the daylight with a flashlight
 
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