breh when someone asks a direct question, it doesnt help to give general answers. breh who asked the question is asking for specifics. while your response helps (and it does), u need to hand hold some people. and there's nothing wrong with handholding as long as its for a limited time.
to @Shabazz , when a woman is choosing, smile back at her. OR, if smiling back would appear too eager (and it could) considering the environment, walk up to her instead and comment on what she's doing.
for instance, if you meet a chick at a grocery store, look in her basket for topics of conversation. if she has a full basket, you say something similar to "hmmm so what are we cooking tonight"??? and u say this, with teasing laugh. like you're teasing her. this will illicit some type of laughter.
the women who aint into u or who dont wanna be spoken to will laugh,smile and keep on walking. the chicks who are open to hearing what u have to say will give a long response to that comment or a response that pushes the conversation further. i..e. "oh if only you knew. i got family members over at the house and i have to do the cooking....". then you go take it from there.
or if a chick is walking a dog. u tell her (of course with a smile), i really like your dog. or that's a very cute lil dog you got there. lol her: "oh thank you". what breed is that? women love their dogs so the more talking she does the better.
i only give two examples here, but im sure others in this thread can be more creative and share what they've done. the point here isnt to tell you what to say, but to point your mind in the direction it needs to be thinking in when talking to a girl you want.
contrary to what many say, u cant always wing it when u talk to girls. some guys are better at winging it than others and if u know ur not that guy, DONT TRY IT. think about what you're going to say before approaching any girl. and keep in mind, remember to smile! also, know when the girl is not interested and keep it moving. a girl who's interested in you will do or say something to keep the conversation flowing. and dont talk too long. get the number and get the hell out of there.
This is pretty much the crux of it, no matter if it's in the grocery store, the gym, the park, the mall, the club, etc.
The best of them that i know of (as far as dudes who pull crazy amount of bad chicks) have whatever charisma to them + physical traits that has the bad chicks all but choosing them anyway.
But next up after that are the dudes who simply aren't afraid of the "laugh, smile and keep on walking" curve, and can go up and initiate a convo about almost anything in the vicinity, like a more tactful no fukks given. If they get curved, there's no insecurity so they already thinking on to the next.