Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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breh when someone asks a direct question, it doesnt help to give general answers. breh who asked the question is asking for specifics. while your response helps (and it does), u need to hand hold some people. and there's nothing wrong with handholding as long as its for a limited time.

to @Shabazz , when a woman is choosing, smile back at her. OR, if smiling back would appear too eager (and it could) considering the environment, walk up to her instead and comment on what she's doing.

for instance, if you meet a chick at a grocery store, look in her basket for topics of conversation. if she has a full basket, you say something similar to "hmmm so what are we cooking tonight"??? and u say this, with teasing laugh. like you're teasing her. this will illicit some type of laughter.

the women who aint into u or who dont wanna be spoken to will laugh,smile and keep on walking. the chicks who are open to hearing what u have to say will give a long response to that comment or a response that pushes the conversation further. i..e. "oh if only you knew. i got family members over at the house and i have to do the cooking....". then you go take it from there.

or if a chick is walking a dog. u tell her (of course with a smile), i really like your dog. or that's a very cute lil dog you got there. lol her: "oh thank you". what breed is that? women love their dogs so the more talking she does the better.

i only give two examples here, but im sure others in this thread can be more creative and share what they've done. the point here isnt to tell you what to say, but to point your mind in the direction it needs to be thinking in when talking to a girl you want.

contrary to what many say, u cant always wing it when u talk to girls. some guys are better at winging it than others and if u know ur not that guy, DONT TRY IT. think about what you're going to say before approaching any girl. and keep in mind, remember to smile! also, know when the girl is not interested and keep it moving. a girl who's interested in you will do or say something to keep the conversation flowing. and dont talk too long. get the number and get the hell out of there.

This is pretty much the crux of it, no matter if it's in the grocery store, the gym, the park, the mall, the club, etc.

The best of them that i know of (as far as dudes who pull crazy amount of bad chicks) have whatever charisma to them + physical traits that has the bad chicks all but choosing them anyway.

But next up after that are the dudes who simply aren't afraid of the "laugh, smile and keep on walking" curve, and can go up and initiate a convo about almost anything in the vicinity, like a more tactful no fukks given. If they get curved, there's no insecurity so they already thinking on to the next.
 

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New Zero Roster for 2018. It’s a shame when you foresee involuntary celibacy in your future, but I want to get my shyt together before pulling women because shooting my shot left me with a 0.0 percentage this year.
 

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All that is fine and dandy...don't mean I gotta be down with public sex. All this shows is that I haven't done what I'm supposed to do to improve my quality of life yet at the same time it's been lonesome.

You can call it negativity if you want but it's realism. I have obstacles I want fukking moved. Period.

And no, maybe outside of starting to lift, I have not accomplished shyt to be proud of. A lot of work needs to be done. Like I said call it what you want.


The change starts there. Once you begin to lift on a regular basis, the momentum of positive experiences tend to happen tenfold. Each day you go to that gym to lift some weights is one more step toward towards greatness. Keep lifting and keep knocking out those goals one by one and you'll develop a confidence and swagger you've never seen before.

Once you get a lil swole, the type of game you spit is going to feel so natural you'll feel like Goku on Ultra Instinct :banderas:
 

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Married guys here. Do you flirt? Why or why not?
I treat all women the same. I guess you could call it flirting, but it's more for me than them.

Society has conditioned married men to think that the fun is over after saying I do, you weren't shyt before your wife and you're just supposed to say "Yes dear" and forget that you were ever cool. It's especially natural to slip into this if you're a good dude who has a great relationship with his mom.

The thing is, when you do that you're robbing both yourself and your lady. She doesn't want a shy geek that she can punk and that she's the only one who finds attractive. That's why sexless marriages happen.

So as not to slip into this unnatural state of lameness, I give good energy and shoot warmth and personality at every person I encounter. When that person is a woman and framed through the lens I view women, it looks indistinguishable from how I would act if I was shooting my shot. I never turn the faucet off, so my lady gets that same energy without it being try hard.

And I get extra confidence points when I know I could have pulled a chick but don't, or if my lady is with me and sees that a woman wanted me. It makes her step her game up too and keeps the whole situation how it should be.
 

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The change starts there. Once you begin to lift on a regular basis, the momentum of positive experiences tend to happen tenfold. Each day you go to that gym to lift some weights is one more step toward towards greatness. Keep lifting and keep knocking out those goals one by one and you'll develop a confidence and swagger you've never seen before.

Once you get a lil swole, the type of game you spit is going to feel so natural you'll feel like Goku on Ultra Instinct :banderas:
I been going 4-5x a week for a year now. A female (that I actually think is attractive) has noticed but it'll probably be another year before women in general really notice because I'm still a smaller guy. Hopefully it'll be donkey booty MILFs from chocolate to off-white :banderas:
 

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I been going 4-5x a week for a year now. A female (that I actually think is attractive) has noticed but it'll probably be another year before women in general really notice because I'm still a smaller guy. Hopefully it'll be donkey booty MILFs from chocolate to off-white :banderas:


Shoot your shot on that chick. What do you have to lose? If she says no, ask if she's got some single friends she can hook you up with :shaq:
 

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I treat all women the same. I guess you could call it flirting, but it's more for me than them.

Society has conditioned married men to think that the fun is over after saying I do, you weren't shyt before your wife and you're just supposed to say "Yes dear" and forget that you were ever cool. It's especially natural to slip into this if you're a good dude who has a great relationship with his mom.

The thing is, when you do that you're robbing both yourself and your lady. She doesn't want a shy geek that she can punk and that she's the only one who finds attractive. That's why sexless marriages happen.

So as not to slip into this unnatural state of lameness, I give good energy and shoot warmth and personality at every person I encounter. When that person is a woman and framed through the lens I view women, it looks indistinguishable from how I would act if I was shooting my shot. I never turn the faucet off, so my lady gets that same energy without it being try hard.

And I get extra confidence points when I know I could have pulled a chick but don't, or if my lady is with me and sees that a woman wanted me. It makes her step her game up too and keeps the whole situation how it should be.

Interesting. But what happens when an attractive woman (who doesn't know I am married) shows interest in me?
 
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