Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Wtf do i say to these girls in the club, i see em watching me but idk what to do next.
 

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Wtf do i say to these girls in the club, i see em watching me but idk what to do next.
maaan listen, i dont even bother approaching bitxhes in the club anymore. the setting is not optimal nost of the time because all of them are pumped up egotistically by the time u choose to approach so they will try blow u off or make u work harder than u really have to. Thirsty dudes in the club fukk it up and have these 5s feeling themselves waaay too much.

my motto is go to the club to have good fun and get drunk with friends or make new ones, not to bag hoes. occasionally a hoe might fall on your lap, but dont make that shyt your priority.

the only place i make it a point to approach is daytime public places where u are forced to hone your socializing skills and approach game while sober with your target fully aware. the advantage of this setting is that u wont be competing with 5 other guys like in a club or social media DMs. it will be just u and her and u will have the stage to let her know whats up. that way if she aint feeling u face2face u can save time and keep it moving to the next one, and if shes down then u can just take it from there cutting the long ass line of nikkas waiting for a response in her messages. :yeshrug:
 

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maaan listen, i dont even bother approaching bitxhes in the club anymore. the setting is not optimal nost of the time because all of them are pumped up egotistically by the time u choose to approach so they will try blow u off or make u work harder than u really have to. Thirsty dudes in the club fukk it up and have these 5s feeling themselves waaay too much.

my motto is go to the club to have good fun and get drunk with friends or make new ones, not to bag hoes. occasionally a hoe might fall on your lap, but dont make that shyt your priority.

the only place i make it a point to approach is daytime public places where u are forced to hone your socializing skills and approach game while sober with your target fully aware. the advantage of this setting is that u wont be competing with 5 other guys like in a club or social media DMs. it will be just u and her and u will have the stage to let her know whats up. that way if she aint feeling u face2face u can save time and keep it moving to the next one, and if shes down then u can just take it from there cutting the long ass line of nikkas waiting for a response in her messages. :yeshrug:
Thanks, might have to say fukk the club
 

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I've said this before but when you hit the club you gotta let them choose you. Don't be overly concerned with feeling like you have to get a number or take one home. That's when you press, and that doesn't put you in a positive light. Enjoy the music, the atmosphere, and your squad. The women who want you to pull up on them will let you know.
 

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I've said this before but when you hit the club you gotta let them choose you. Don't be overly concerned with feeling like you have to get a number or take one home. That's when you press, and that doesn't put you in a positive light. Enjoy the music, the atmosphere, and your squad. The women who want you to pull up on them will let you know.
I've said this before but when you hit the club you gotta let them choose you. Don't be overly concerned with feeling like you have to get a number or take one home. That's when you press, and that doesn't put you in a positive light. Enjoy the music, the atmosphere, and your squad. The women who want you to pull up on them will let you know.
what do I do/say when they're choosing though?:patrice:
 

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You’re overthinking this already breh. It’s as simple as establishing a rapport over shared interests or making a joke about another woman being in there with the same outfit on. Biggie gave us the keys a long time ago. It doesn’t really matter. If you’re confident in whatever you say, she’ll pick up on that. If you aren’t though... she’ll pick up on that too.
 

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I've said this before but when you hit the club you gotta let them choose you. Don't be overly concerned with feeling like you have to get a number or take one home. That's when you press, and that doesn't put you in a positive light. Enjoy the music, the atmosphere, and your squad. The women who want you to pull up on them will let you know.
And if you're solo?
 

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Wtf do i say to these girls in the club, i see em watching me but idk what to do next.

:wow::wow::wow: My club game is immaculate

The easiest thing to do if you think a girl is choosing on you at the club is to go dance with her. Even if you can't dance you would be surprised at how far a 2 step will get you if you are having a good time and if they twerk on you they are doing all the work for you.

After, shake her hand hold on to her hand and ask for her name. Then just ask for her number. If the music is loud enough she knows yall aren't going have a full conversation in the club.
 

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And if you're solo?

I observe my surrounding just chilling see if I see anything that catch my eyes while sipping my drink.
Any female I notice looking at me and I feel she worthy of my time I look back with good eye contact and smile and if she stays looking at me and also smiles or smirks I go over to her and introduce myself or she comes over too me instead which almost happens as much as me approaching her
After I introduce myself I ask her if she would like Dance majority say yes and if she says no I just keep the convo going instead after the dance or convo I ask for the digits simple as that

Also if u dance with her and I mean she really grinding on u damn near touching ur shyt or touching it or trying to kiss u U HAVE A GOOD TO HIGH CHANCE where she DTF that same night don’t attempt this shyt tho if u don’t know what ur doing either
I usually go so u wanna leave and go catch a quick bite either she rides with me or she follows me and from there we eat in the car or I suggest my place what usually happens is it goes down in the car or at my place

Solo is just as fun as with a friend at times
 

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Fiance liking a nikka's pic on FB. But it's her co worker huh :stopitslime:

Oh you dont find him attractive?

Foh

I'm ugly you ain't gotta lie :snoop:

Don’t get me wrong I’m a confident breh regardless of how I look but her liking a co worker pic ain’t a good look depending on context of it

Me personally I’m a type of dude if my wife likes a co worker pic and I know I’ll just remember that instance and keep in back of mind for future reference I can’t be fukking stressing bout every damn thing a woman does I’m of a mind set if she wanna do something stupid she going to regardless ain’t shyt I can do bout it ass better not get caught is all I’m gonna say :camby:
A pic is a pic too me unless that pic isn’t a normal pic and she keeps liking every damn pic he got then it’s :ufdup:

It’s a no win situation imo cuz liking a pic ain’t shyt too me cuz I do it but at same time it depends context of pic and constant liking of pic of that person and who is that person to her
 

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Don’t get me wrong I’m a confident breh regardless of how I look but her liking a co worker pic ain’t a good look depending on context of it

Me personally I’m a type of dude if my wife likes a co worker pic and I know I’ll just remember that instance and keep in back of mind for future reference I can’t be fukking stressing bout every damn thing a woman does I’m of a mind set if she wanna do something stupid she going to regardless ain’t shyt I can do bout it ass better not get caught is all I’m gonna say :camby:
A pic is a pic too me unless that pic isn’t a normal pic and she keeps liking every damn pic he got then it’s :ufdup:

It’s a no win situation imo cuz liking a pic ain’t shyt too me cuz I do it but at same time it depends context of pic and constant liking of pic of that person and who is that person to her
It's a selfie pic of the nikka TRYING to look cute ( no homo)

I just want her to admit her true intentions to it but fukk it :manny:

She tells me never finds other guy's attractive but thats just PURE bullshyt in my opinion. Like come on we're human. But if you gonna like about something that simple, what else you lying about. Then she gets defensive, "I'm not doing anything wrong! :damn:"

:camby: Ok bytch
 
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