Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

It's a selfie pic of the nikka TRYING to look cute ( no homo)

I just want her to admit her true intentions to it but fukk it

She tells me never finds other guy's attractive but thats just PURE bullshyt in my opinion. Like come on we're human. But if you gonna like about something that simple, what else you lying about. Then she gets defensive, "I'm not doing anything wrong! "

Ok bytch

Any female saying that full of shyt
But I ain’t gonna let it stress me the hell out either
Everybody lies it’s the context of a lie that matters
Go like another female pic preferably co worker or someone she kinda knows see how she responds and if she act stupid bout
U might wanna start rethinking bout her and have a serious talk cuz she likely to say it’s just my co worker also
Cuz she can’t have her own set of rules and then be uptight u do same
If she don’t say shyt bout u liking a female pic then drop it but keep back of head bout it cuz if liking a bunch of pics of him I be like

 

[Kaypain]

Any female saying that full of shyt
But I ain’t gonna let it stress me the hell out either
Everybody lies it’s the context of a lie that matters
Go like another female pic preferably co worker or someone she kinda knows see how she responds and if she act stupid bout
U might wanna start rethinking bout her and have a serious talk cuz she likely to say it’s just my co worker also
Cuz she can’t have her own set of rules and then be uptight u do same
If she don’t say shyt bout u liking a female pic then drop it but keep back of head bout it cuz if liking a bunch of pics of him I be like

you may be right

because she brought it and she said she doesn't care because she trusts me

Maybe I'm overreacting

It was just the type of photo of dude's pic. The picture looks like e posted for sole purpose of trying to look attractive to girls and get likes to validate that. She likes the pic so I'm like

I aint got the self esteem for shyt like this

 

[Shadow King]

I observe my surrounding just chilling see if I see anything that catch my eyes while sipping my drink.
Any female I notice looking at me and I feel she worthy of my time I look back with good eye contact and smile and if she stays looking at me and also smiles or smirks I go over to her and introduce myself or she comes over too me instead which almost happens as much as me approaching her
After I introduce myself I ask her if she would like Dance majority say yes and if she says no I just keep the convo going instead after the dance or convo I ask for the digits simple as that

Also if u dance with her and I mean she really grinding on u damn near touching ur shyt or touching it or trying to kiss u U HAVE A GOOD TO HIGH CHANCE where she DTF that same night don’t attempt this shyt tho if u don’t know what ur doing either
I usually go so u wanna leave and go catch a quick bite either she rides with me or she follows me and from there we eat in the car or I suggest my place what usually happens is it goes down in the car or at my place

Solo is just as fun as with a friend at times

 

[twan83]

you may be right

because she brought it and she said she doesn't care because she trusts me

Maybe I'm overreacting

It was just the type of photo of dude's pic. The picture looks like e posted for sole purpose of trying to look attractive to girls and get likes to validate that. She likes the pic so I'm like

I aint got the self esteem for shyt like this

Build ur self esteem up breh slowly but surely it will help in long run whether u with her still or not
For now let it go but remember it don’t forget it cuz if a trend happens with same person THEN SHE serious talk time

Also I ain’t saying she right or wrong he could have same issue and she liked it to build his self esteem also regardless of how someone looks they can have self esteem issues too

Either way I’m all for making sure brehs getting treated right but I ain’t gonna nitpick every little thing someone girl does cuz it literally might not mean shyt at all and sometimes as men if u pick at something that isn’t there it can cause issues and make u look insecure

 

[twan83]

What

 

[Shadow King]

What

For the foreseeable future I cannot tell any female :my place"

 

[twan83]

For the foreseeable future I cannot tell any female :my place"

I see always the car get down
Even some in public places as long u don’t get caught a lot females be down for the adventurous sex that randomly happens breh just giving u options

 

[Shadow King]

I see always the car get down
Even some in public places as long u don’t get caught a lot females be down for the adventurous sex that randomly happens breh just giving u options

I'm not

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I'm not

Yo my dude, how long you gonna keep up this negativity? I don’t mean this specific post but I just don’t want you to carry this kind of energy on into the next year. Be great man! I keep seeing you post about what you can’t do. Do you really want to prosper? Like say tomorrow the baddest shorty strikes up a conversation with you and is genuinely interested in you, what would you do?

Would you ride the wave and see where it goes or let your mind run wild with how things could go wrong which will only become a self-fulfilling prophecy? We all have things that we would like to improve on but there has to be SOMETHING that you have accomplished that you can look to as a point of pride moving forward.

 

[Shadow King]

Yo my dude, how long you gonna keep up this negativity? I don’t mean this specific post but I just don’t want you to carry this kind of energy on into the next year. Be great man! I keep seeing you post about what you can’t do. Do you really want to prosper? Like say tomorrow the baddest shorty strikes up a conversation with you and is genuinely interested in you, what would you do?

Would you ride the wave and see where it goes or let your mind run wild with how things could go wrong which will only become a self-fulfilling prophecy? We all have things that we would like to improve on but there has to be SOMETHING that you have accomplished that you can look to as a point of pride moving forward.

All that is fine and dandy...don't mean I gotta be down with public sex. All this shows is that I haven't done what I'm supposed to do to improve my quality of life yet at the same time it's been lonesome.

You can call it negativity if you want but it's realism. I have obstacles I want fukking moved. Period.

And no, maybe outside of starting to lift, I have not accomplished shyt to be proud of. A lot of work needs to be done. Like I said call it what you want.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Y'all messing with these young college chicks, 19-21? Ima be 24 in a couple months but they trying my patience

Ended up smashing this Filipino and white chick but earlier that night I met up w/her and her homegirls. They were real life stressing over whether they could get in with their fake ID's

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

^^^^

 

[TRUEST]

You’re overthinking this already breh. It’s as simple as establishing a rapport over shared interests or making a joke about another woman being in there with the same outfit on. Biggie gave us the keys a long time ago. It doesn’t really matter. If you’re confident in whatever you say, she’ll pick up on that. If you aren’t though... she’ll pick up on that too.

breh when someone asks a direct question, it doesnt help to give general answers. breh who asked the question is asking for specifics. while your response helps (and it does), u need to hand hold some people. and there's nothing wrong with handholding as long as its for a limited time.

to @Shabazz , when a woman is choosing, smile back at her. OR, if smiling back would appear too eager (and it could) considering the environment, walk up to her instead and comment on what she's doing.

for instance, if you meet a chick at a grocery store, look in her basket for topics of conversation. if she has a full basket, you say something similar to "hmmm so what are we cooking tonight"??? and u say this, with teasing laugh. like you're teasing her. this will illicit some type of laughter.

the women who aint into u or who dont wanna be spoken to will laugh,smile and keep on walking. the chicks who are open to hearing what u have to say will give a long response to that comment or a response that pushes the conversation further. i..e. "oh if only you knew. i got family members over at the house and i have to do the cooking....". then you go take it from there.

or if a chick is walking a dog. u tell her (of course with a smile), i really like your dog. or that's a very cute lil dog you got there. lol her: "oh thank you". what breed is that? women love their dogs so the more talking she does the better.

i only give two examples here, but im sure others in this thread can be more creative and share what they've done. the point here isnt to tell you what to say, but to point your mind in the direction it needs to be thinking in when talking to a girl you want.

contrary to what many say, u cant always wing it when u talk to girls. some guys are better at winging it than others and if u know ur not that guy, DONT TRY IT. think about what you're going to say before approaching any girl. and keep in mind, remember to smile! also, know when the girl is not interested and keep it moving. a girl who's interested in you will do or say something to keep the conversation flowing. and dont talk too long. get the number and get the hell out of there.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

My woman told me that she got a co-worker who is feelin her and she told him there's nothing there she aint like him like that and apparently he got salty. I guess they worked together for a while so when she became single he wanted to shoot his shot but didn't. I seen him. I laughed. I told her point blank that I ain't got shyt to worry about.

That's how it be. She knows that I know my worth. I been straight with her from the start. I like where our relationship is headed and I like her a lot but I ain't worried about other dudes and I ain't worried about being single neither.

We got that mutual respect. @KTP you just gotta let her know who runs the show.

 

[Kaypain]

My woman told me that she got a co-worker who is feelin her and she told him there's nothing there she aint like him like that and apparently he got salty. I guess they worked together for a while so when she became single he wanted to shoot his shot but didn't. I seen him. I laughed. I told her point blank that I ain't got shyt to worry about.

That's how it be. She knows that I know my worth. I been straight with her from the start. I like where our relationship is headed and I like her a lot but I ain't worried about other dudes and I ain't worried about being single neither.

We got that mutual respect. @KTP you just gotta let her know who runs the show.