Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malik1time]

Those tickets are expensive..

Its $90 per person for a decent seat
Am I fukked up for not paying her ticket I was just gunna pay mine

 

[twan83]

Its $90 per person for a decent seat
Am I fukked up for not paying her ticket I was just gunna pay mine

If she ain’t my gf I ain’t paying for that shyt

 

[Data-Hawk]

Its $90 per person for a decent seat
Am I fukked up for not paying her ticket I was just gunna pay mine

Find something cheaper.....Most likely she’s going to want you to buy her tickets also... $180 right there. Plus food and drinks....

Naw. Starbucks , Park , museum , heck even a restaurant is cheaper lol.. I mean unless you really got it like that, you’re starting things off on the wrong expectations already for a first date.. lol

 

[Solano707]

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I just had this convo with the girl I'm seeing yesterday!! She told me she just got off a relationship:
Me: "You ain't trying to get into another relationship right after are you? "
Her: "Oh fukk no! "
Me: "Well I'm glad we're on the same page."
Her: "Seu safado!"
Me: ""

She started asking a lot of questions about my past relationships afterwards though. I kept the answers vague and short, and funny...but ionno. The moment feelings get caught I'm off the train breh.

Also she's asking for a christmas present. I told her she better buy me one first; but she's relentless and it's fukking up the Christmas spirit.

look she about to eat real good for chrismas

 

[Shadow King]

Same chick that felt up on my arm now assumes I have hoes

 

[sheedteef]

I was at the store earlier and had this older lady call me over. She asked me how I was doing. I didn’t have a coat or jacket on and it’s a little cold out and she felt on my arm then my midsection and said I should get a jacket before I catch a cold. I don’t think there’s anything there but I always say hi when I see her and vice versa

 

[360dagod]

Its $90 per person for a decent seat
Am I fukked up for not paying her ticket I was just gunna pay mine

Koreatown is in the vicinity and you can get a good meal for both for less than 30$..

I spent like over 200$ to see the Knicks against the spurs and I wasn't feeling the seats compared to the 300$ I spent at barclays...

 

[Swagaveli]

So, I met a girl in September at my school's FGC scene because we both play Tekken. Not long after we started talking and getting close. I had no feelings at the time, and just felt like she was a friend to me. Then, she started to do all these things that basically said she liked me. One instance in particular is when she cosplayed as Josie around Halloween and showed up to the local with it on while I was playing. I sure as hell noticed it, and didn't know how to react. I really took it as nothing, then she started to show more signs like flirt with me, always talk to me on the regular, etc. I never noticed any of these until about last week, because I'm a dense fukker. At the same time, I had a little interest in her and was wondering if I could shoot my shot but never did because I thought I was out of her league.

So I tell some of my homeboys about all this shyt and every single one of them said that she clearly likes me if she's been doing all this. She's been over at my house a few times to play Tekken with me alone, and my roommates came home and saw and they even knew from there that she liked me. So Friday, I go to therapy and talk about it to my therapist and she pretty much says the same thing that everyone else has been saying, but to ask her out or just ask her about her feelings. I walked her to work that same day and she asked me "So what do you see me as?" and I said a good friend, but hesitant and took it back to tell her that she's a girl that I'd date. So all of that pretty much confirmed everything that has happened up to this point, but she told me that she can't commit to any relationship right now, and any date she'd go on right now is nothing serious. I think there's something going on in her head making her feel like that, I don't remember what, but I know her only ex treated her like shyt and she's done things like tell me all the ways that she'd like guys to ask her out, told me things she'd tell her girlfriends, and other things. I pretty much accepted what she said and she said it'd be best if we remain as friends for right now. But, recently, I've started actually catching feelings for her. I don't really know what to do but wait. There's no other girls that pique my interest, and at the same time I don't actively chase after people because I stopped that long ago.

I'm just stuck... there's a mutual like here, but she isn't ready to commit. I don't know what else I can do here.

Sup, young breh . I Don't think I've seen you post here before.

I used to fukk the other kids up at the youth center in Tekken 2, on Playstation back in the days. Good timesCouldn't nobody touch me when I caught my vibe with Eddie (pause )

But ok, let's get down to the actual subject matter of your post. I'm just gonna break down the key points, the way I see them.

- You've known her since September, yet nothing physical has ever happened between you two. At this point it's gonna take a rather drastic change of dynamics, in order for you two become anything more than buddies.

- The girl has been seemingly showing you her interest quite a few times. At first she was being flirty, and now it seems she's even telling you clear instruction on how to get with her... 99% odds are, that at some point, she indeed wanted you to shoot that shot, aka initiate things and go from buddies to more than that. Clearly based on your post, you've totally failed to do that. It's ok breh, don't fault yourself or try to overcompensate shyt with her at this stage. That ship has sailed as far as this option goes. Which actually leads us to:

- Right now you're her gay bestie basically. You failed to act when she was welcoming your advances, and only later you've told her you wanted to be more than friends - which mind you is rather pointless. You should've just straight up shot your shot when you had time on the shot clock.

The best, and really the only smart thing you could do here is tell her (in a direct, yet neutral tone) that only friendship is not good enough for you, and then fully fall back. She will either let it be and you'll move on from this experience with a valuable lesson to act on shown interest in a timely manner the next time with a potential girl OR she will come back to you herself (if she respects you finally being assertive on what you want from her, you might actually get to initial levels of attraction from her side). And this, my friend, is where the change of dynamics could be in your favor again, and the ship will begin sailing back to where you want it. At this point though it'd be crucial you sink that 3 in Steph Curry-level precision

This is the best I can do for you breh. I'd say doing anything else is just playing yourself in this situation.

Whatever happens, remember there's PLENTY of awesome women your young ass will get to vibe AND shoot that shot in time with

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

No to the basketball idea. If you tryna smash it's not ideal. If you tryna see if she has more to offer you need to get to know her ass and you ain't gonna be able to strike up a convo at the game. It's way too loud and busy. Maybe y'all hit up a lounge or something after but now you talkin u probably paid for the tickets AND gotta buy her drinks. Hell no.

My woman is a cheap date. That actually makes me want to spend a little $ on her because I'm saving so much when we go out. We can literally go chill anywhere because that's what she wants to do. She just wants to enjoy things like talking and nature. It got me kinda fukked up because I'm not used to it but I'm enjoying it.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Is it bad I thought Patrice views on women and relationships and sex, besides his harshness and a little extreme views, were spot on.

 

[Reverie]

Sup, young breh . I Don't think I've seen you post here before.

I used to fukk the other kids up at the youth center in Tekken 2, on Playstation back in the days. Good timesCouldn't nobody touch me when I caught my vibe with Eddie (pause )

But ok, let's get down to the actual subject matter of your post. I'm just gonna break down the key points, the way I see them.

- You've known her since September, yet nothing physical has ever happened between you two. At this point it's gonna take a rather drastic change of dynamics, in order for you two become anything more than buddies.

- The girl has been seemingly showing you her interest quite a few times. At first she was being flirty, and now it seems she's even telling you clear instruction on how to get with her... 99% odds are, that at some point, she indeed wanted you to shoot that shot, aka initiate things and go from buddies to more than that. Clearly based on your post, you've totally failed to do that. It's ok breh, don't fault yourself or try to overcompensate shyt with her at this stage. That ship has sailed as far as this option goes. Which actually leads us to:

- Right now you're her gay bestie basically. You failed to act when she was welcoming your advances, and only later you've told her you wanted to be more than friends - which mind you is rather pointless. You should've just straight up shot your shot when you had time on the shot clock.

The best, and really the only smart thing you could do here is tell her (in a direct, yet neutral tone) that only friendship is not good enough for you, and then fully fall back. She will either let it be and you'll move on from this experience with a valuable lesson to act on shown interest in a timely manner the next time with a potential girl OR she will come back to you herself (if she respects you finally being assertive on what you want from her, you might actually get to initial levels of attraction from her side). And this, my friend, is where the change of dynamics could be in your favor again, and the ship will begin sailing back to where you want it. At this point though it'd be crucial you sink that 3 in Steph Curry-level precision

This is the best I can do for you breh. I'd say doing anything else is just playing yourself in this situation.

Whatever happens, remember there's PLENTY of awesome women your young ass will get to vibe AND shoot that shot in time with

I don't post in here much because I really just have bad insecurities with some D/A, and never really cared about the pursuit of a relationship due to my only one being toxic and other things in my life that happened. Now that this has happened, I've become kind of stuck and caught up in my own feelings since it's been well over a year I liked someone like this.

The thing is with her flirting, I didn't realize it because: 1. I'm dense and didn't figure it out until yonder. 2. She's told me before that she isn't actively seeking a relationship/not trying to commit to anything way before I started adding up her interactions with me, which is why I never did anything. I never really felt anything for her in a romantic way until about the end of November, either. Nothing physical has happened, but all of my friends say we act like a married couple when we're around, and we've done things like play fight/argue. That's really it as far as interactions aside from the flirting via messaging.

It doesn't feel that way to me. When she asked me what I saw her as, I told her, but then she told me everything she said before again, and said it's better to remain as friends. One thing I do remember her saying is that if she had committed, then she would've ended up ghosting in the end. Where nothing makes sense to me is that, she told me she can't commit or anything, but she likes me in a romantic way? I really don't understand that part.

I'm pretty stuck on this situation, while I value everything that's going on right now, I want it to be something more and want it to work out. But, that just requires me waiting, which I don't know is the best option for me. Who knows if she'll still have the same interest when she's ready? She could already be finding someone else as it is, and I'm just gonna be here, still holding these feelings until I get over it. I don't mind being friends, and all, but the fact that we both have feelings for each other and I can't do anything about it because I want to respect what she said.

I've had a lot of people just telling me to wait, drop her, or say how I really feel about everything. The last thing I'm trying to do is ruin something here, because we're almost the same person as far as interests and hobbies go.

I realize that, but my own insecurities just make me doubt myself, it's still something I'm trying to get over, even with the therapy I've been taking since April.

 

[Claudex]

She's testing you mano. All women do this and it never ends.


As for presents buy her a gym voucher or a book on how to communicate better. I'm team #HOH through and through.

I know... After two years of laying low, I forgot about this part of the game. I can't lie though, I'm still dying at getting her a voucher/book. I might really fukk around and do it!

 

[DropTopDoc]

Is it bad I thought Patrice views on women and relationships and sex, besides his harshness and a little extreme views, were spot on.

That nikka spit gospel, Rip to a great, if only there was more he had a chance to say before he left

I don't post in here much because I really just have bad insecurities with some D/A, and never really cared about the pursuit of a relationship due to my only one being toxic and other things in my life that happened. Now that this has happened, I've become kind of stuck and caught up in my own feelings since it's been well over a year I liked someone like this.

The thing is with her flirting, I didn't realize it because: 1. I'm dense and didn't figure it out until yonder. 2. She's told me before that she isn't actively seeking a relationship/not trying to commit to anything way before I started adding up her interactions with me, which is why I never did anything. I never really felt anything for her in a romantic way until about the end of November, either. Nothing physical has happened, but all of my friends say we act like a married couple when we're around, and we've done things like play fight/argue. That's really it as far as interactions aside from the flirting via messaging.

It doesn't feel that way to me. When she asked me what I saw her as, I told her, but then she told me everything she said before again, and said it's better to remain as friends. One thing I do remember her saying is that if she had committed, then she would've ended up ghosting in the end. Where nothing makes sense to me is that, she told me she can't commit or anything, but she likes me in a romantic way? I really don't understand that part.

I'm pretty stuck on this situation, while I value everything that's going on right now, I want it to be something more and want it to work out. But, that just requires me waiting, which I don't know is the best option for me. Who knows if she'll still have the same interest when she's ready? She could already be finding someone else as it is, and I'm just gonna be here, still holding these feelings until I get over it. I don't mind being friends, and all, but the fact that we both have feelings for each other and I can't do anything about it because I want to respect what she said.

I've had a lot of people just telling me to wait, drop her, or say how I really feel about everything. The last thing I'm trying to do is ruin something here, because we're almost the same person as far as interests and hobbies go.

I realize that, but my own insecurities just make me doubt myself, it's still something I'm trying to get over, even with the therapy I've been taking since April.

Basically, you shot your shot after the fact, you are too far behind, i understand the thought of her makes your insides smile, but like my mom say you study long you study wrong, you gotta chalk that up to a L and keep it moving,

You gotta let that old relationship go, it’s over, hopefully you learned what you are not going to deal with in the future, other than that you can’t dwell on that shyt


Even if you don’t believe it, you gotta tell yourself you that nikka, period, you can’t be fumbling around with your confidence, so whatever it takes, to pump yourself up do so, at the end of the day women love for a myriad of reasons, so you got the juice to make a woman want you regardless of your circumstances, shyt, i ain’t a slim nikka, I’m damn sure not a buff nikka, and I’m sure if i slimmed up id probably have even more women, but it’s chicks that cannot/could not get enough of me, the same goes for you bruh

 

[MikelArteta]

Once you smash she will want a relationship all chicks dk

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I just had this convo with the girl I'm seeing yesterday!! She told me she just got off a relationship:
Me: "You ain't trying to get into another relationship right after are you? "
Her: "Oh fukk no! "
Me: "Well I'm glad we're on the same page."
Her: "Seu safado!"
Me: ""

She started asking a lot of questions about my past relationships afterwards though. I kept the answers vague and short, and funny...but ionno. The moment feelings get caught I'm off the train breh.

Also she's asking for a christmas present. I told her she better buy me one first; but she's relentless and it's fukking up the Christmas spirit.

 

[Darkslayer]

Once you smash she will want a relationship all chicks dk